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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby greysilence » Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:05 am

Dachshund Lover^-^ wrote:Ok the thing is that my Crush, C, found out I like him in the totaly wrong way and He doesn't really know how I feel so I've come up with a plan. Near the 8th grade dance at the end of the year I'm going to pull him aside and tell him how I feel. Is it a good plan?


But doesn't he already know you like him?

I mean, telling him yourself might work out better if he's confused on how you feel. Just make sure you do it at the right place and the right time. Don't just start with "I like you" either. Find a way to casually bring it up.

Hope this helps!:)
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Ashki » Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:06 am

Dachshund Lover^-^ wrote:Ok the thing is that my Crush, C, found out I like him in the totaly wrong way and He doesn't really know how I feel so I've come up with a plan. Near the 8th grade dance at the end of the year I'm going to pull him aside and tell him how I feel. Is it a good plan?

If I were you, I wouldn't let it wait that long. If he took it the wrong way, if you wait too long you guys will become way more distant. I say shoot him a text or just talk to him soon. ^^
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby ~IronRose~ » Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:09 am

I don't know, we only have 8 more weeks of school and he is moving but He doesn't like me, he told me himself over text and I can't tell if he has changed his mind but I don't think he has.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby RestInPeace » Mon Mar 26, 2012 11:14 am

Captain Thunder wrote:
Dachshund Lover^-^ wrote:Ok the thing is that my Crush, C, found out I like him in the totaly wrong way and He doesn't really know how I feel so I've come up with a plan. Near the 8th grade dance at the end of the year I'm going to pull him aside and tell him how I feel. Is it a good plan?

If I were you, I wouldn't let it wait that long. If he took it the wrong way, if you wait too long you guys will become way more distant. I say shoot him a text or just talk to him soon. ^^

Yea, if there is anything I have learned, is that you cant plan things... xD
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby garnet. » Mon Mar 26, 2012 11:21 am

Scarlett=gonetil31st wrote:Hey Conor...
so many things i could ramble on about...
1. you taught me the waltz, i still cant get over it
2. i got your phone number
3. are you ignoring my texts, you havent replied for over a week, STOP IT Y-Y its killing me
4. you keep me up at night, i cant stop thinking about you
5. your 4 years older than me wth is wrong with me...
6. you probably have a gf...
7. like every girl loves you
8. why cant you love me...
9. i know im weird and gothic and not at all pretty but im nice and have a great personality
10. i guess what im trying to say is... I love you Conor, with all my heart, i want to kiss you, to love you, to be loved by you... more than anything else so please... love me...


i know its written to my crush but it expresses my problems, can anyone help me...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Cirque » Mon Mar 26, 2012 12:31 pm

I'm so confused about my past crush. ._.
He's my best friend in the entire world, I've known him half my life and we act like siblings, but he messes up my emotions.
I'm bipolar so, naturally, my emotions are hyped up & they seem to overreact at the most inconvient times. My best friend [who I'll call M], has made me so estatic that I basically start laughing out of absolutely no where just because of sheer happiness. But he's also sent me into depression, I've got the scars on my arms to prove it. He's even seen the scars, & he knows that when I get extremely sad, I resort to cutting or anorexia, but he doesn't even know that he's the cause. He says he loves me, truly & genuinely, and he's the only person I believe loves me, but I'm in between just loving him as a friend and loving him as something more.
I've asked him out, he said no because he thinks he wouldn't be right for me. & I'm fairly sure I'm back to just liking him as a friend, especially now that I like this new guy at my school, but M is the only person I honestly love, & I don't know if I'll ever find someone else that I can actually love. You see, I have some minor sociopathic characteristics, like, being almost unable to love. So, I'm worried that if I let him go, I'll never find another person I can say I love without lying.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby studio killers. » Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:19 pm

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tomorrow...but I'm so nervous. :/

The thing is, he never texts me or makes plans or anything. And then HE'S THE ONE that whines when we never do stuff. Well excuse me, I thought this relationship was a joint effort. .__.

He really is a nice guy, he just doesn't have his priorities straight. I'm nervous that we'll hate each other (which would be sooo awkward cuz we have a class together) when I still wanna be friends with him.

Any suggestions as to what I can say? >>;
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Cirque » Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:23 pm

!∙ePiDeMiC∙! wrote:
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tomorrow...but I'm so nervous. :/

The thing is, he never texts me or makes plans or anything. And then HE'S THE ONE that whines when we never do stuff. Well excuse me, I thought this relationship was a joint effort. .__.

He really is a nice guy, he just doesn't have his priorities straight. I'm nervous that we'll hate each other (which would be sooo awkward cuz we have a class together) when I still wanna be friends with him.

Any suggestions as to what I can say? >>;

Depending on how long you've known him, you could say "Don't take this the wrong way, but I think we should be just friends a little longer before getting into a relationship." My best guyfriend told me it's a good breakup line that isn't too saddening.
I used it on my previous boyfriend, who I was nervous about breaking up with, too [although it was because he texted me & made plans TOO much & I couldn't handle the clinginess any longer], & it worked pretty well.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby greysilence » Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:28 pm

!∙ePiDeMiC∙! wrote:
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tomorrow...but I'm so nervous. :/

The thing is, he never texts me or makes plans or anything. And then HE'S THE ONE that whines when we never do stuff. Well excuse me, I thought this relationship was a joint effort. .__.

He really is a nice guy, he just doesn't have his priorities straight. I'm nervous that we'll hate each other (which would be sooo awkward cuz we have a class together) when I still wanna be friends with him.

Any suggestions as to what I can say? >>;


Say exactly what you told us. :D

Tell him that. Just say, "I want to break up. We're just no close. I don't want you to hate me though because I still really wanna be friends." Or just something along those lines...I don't know, I tried to be helpful, but I fail. XD Just try to bring it up casually maybe. Let him know that you still like him, but he's just not what you're looking for. Just let him know that you're terrified of him hating you, and that you really want to stay friends.

Well, I hope that fail paragraph helps. X3
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I seriously cannot wait for tomorrow. Plus, it'll be our first track practice together. ^^

I don't know why, I'm just eager. He has his girlfriend, we'll most likely never go out, but there's always that hope.

He likes me, I like him, so there's always a flicker of a chance. ;P
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby oikawa » Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:32 pm

I need help x.x

I read the Hunger Games series, watched the movie, and I am obsesed. Biggest mistake of my life at the moment.

It has made me so lovesick, that there is this ache in my chest. I just want someone to love me and for me to love them. In that cute, trusting way that Katniss and Peeta have. Argh...I know its so out of my reach though. ;w; It made me long so bad, I made an art piece here on CS aboout it. I can actually feel the dull ache of longing. I sometimes wish SO badly that I can just jump into stories as the main character. To just have someone as warm, steady, and strong, and kind, and not-so-bad-looking as Peeta. I dont know where else to post about this.

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