Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Arkas]

Ok there is this guy who is in my form class and we have like always hated each other,he is called Kaiden,we enjoy teasing eachother like he calls me bi*ch and i call hm midget so we chase eachother round trying to whack eachother with our bags but today...today was different...

In Science for sports relief we got to play the wii and sit on the desk and Kaiden was acting strange he kept smirknig at me and raising his eyebrows and he layed down on the desk in front of me so i couldn't see what my classmates were doing on the wii and i pushed him off and sat on my desk and he leapt back on and sat beside me and kept trying to kick me and i did the same to hi and he managed to lock my legs and make me fall into him and i mnaged to get back up and i felt embarresed and kicked him hard in the shin,he glowered mat me for a second then we carred on kicking eachother and then in Home Economics we sit across from eachother and near the end he said to me "Shut up!"And i repleid"No you shut up"And he repleid abck to me"Why...why do you hate me?"He asked and i said"Cuase you annoy me all the time"And he said that i annoy him aswell and then said"How about we become friends instead"I agreed and we shook hands and his partner said"Ohh are you gonig to wlak down the street hodling hands are you"And Kaiden made a face at her and then smiled at me and we got on with our work and jsut as the period was fnsihnig Michael one of Kaidne's best pals came up to me and said"You're an idiot nobody likes you and you fancy Nathen!"And Kaidne defend em and said"She's enver done anything to you why should you bother her leave her alone"!He said that to his best pal for me!!!And he walked up the staires with me!

So i kinda think i have feelings for this guy and he kinda likes me i mean he is very cute,cool,funny,has such a sexy smile and he is single like me as i'm single so do you think i should try and chat him up or something like that?

Since you guys just became friends, stick with being friends. In my experience, you can be great friends and horrible boyfriend and girlfriend

Thats not Entirley true, me and my boyfriend were the best of friends and were working out perfectly <3

[Nellas]

Hey - so, there's this guy, his name is Kevin.
He really likes me, but I don't like him back. (Matt <3)
How do I tell him that I don't like him back? I try giving him hints that I don't, but he doesn't really get them I guess.
I could ask one of my friends to tell him. Anyway, advice is appreciated!

Aww, this is going to suck for both you and him. I just had to do this recently too. One of the guys who likes me, well, I told him I just wanted to be friends... Just find a time that you and him are either alone or at a place where you can talk quietly together, tell him you want to talk to him and draw him away to a corner. Don't drag it out, just say you want to be friends as gently as possible without making it sound like you like him as a crush or like you hate him. He'll either accept that at not, but you have to make an effort to stay his friend after giving him a couple days; text him, say hi in school, etc. If he hears it from someone else, he might still have some hope, and you don't want to get his hopes up because it will be the worse for the both of you in the end. It's hard to tell people you just want to be friends, but it's the best and right thing to do.

I want to tell my crush that I like him, but I haven't got the guts to... What do I do?!

Are you friends with him, or do you just know him? Because if you just know him from school, it's probably not time to say anything about it yet if he doesn't know already. But if you're friends, then don't force it; you'll know the right time to tell him when it comes, so don't worry about it.

[Shadeslayer243]

Ok there is this guy who is in my form class and we have like always hated each other,he is called Kaiden,we enjoy teasing eachother like he calls me bi*ch and i call hm midget so we chase eachother round trying to whack eachother with our bags but today...today was different...

In Science for sports relief we got to play the wii and sit on the desk and Kaiden was acting strange he kept smirknig at me and raising his eyebrows and he layed down on the desk in front of me so i couldn't see what my classmates were doing on the wii and i pushed him off and sat on my desk and he leapt back on and sat beside me and kept trying to kick me and i did the same to hi and he managed to lock my legs and make me fall into him and i mnaged to get back up and i felt embarresed and kicked him hard in the shin,he glowered mat me for a second then we carred on kicking eachother and then in Home Economics we sit across from eachother and near the end he said to me "Shut up!"And i repleid"No you shut up"And he repleid abck to me"Why...why do you hate me?"He asked and i said"Cuase you annoy me all the time"And he said that i annoy him aswell and then said"How about we become friends instead"I agreed and we shook hands and his partner said"Ohh are you gonig to wlak down the street hodling hands are you"And Kaiden made a face at her and then smiled at me and we got on with our work and jsut as the period was fnsihnig Michael one of Kaidne's best pals came up to me and said"You're an idiot nobody likes you and you fancy Nathen!"And Kaidne defend em and said"She's enver done anything to you why should you bother her leave her alone"!He said that to his best pal for me!!!And he walked up the staires with me!

So i kinda think i have feelings for this guy and he kinda likes me i mean he is very cute,cool,funny,has such a sexy smile and he is single like me as i'm single so do you think i should try and chat him up or something like that?

is new to your school? and if so how long has he been there??????!!!

[Ashki]

Hey - so, there's this guy, his name is Kevin.
He really likes me, but I don't like him back. (Matt <3)
How do I tell him that I don't like him back? I try giving him hints that I don't, but he doesn't really get them I guess.
I could ask one of my friends to tell him. Anyway, advice is appreciated!

Aww, this is going to suck for both you and him. I just had to do this recently too. One of the guys who likes me, well, I told him I just wanted to be friends... Just find a time that you and him are either alone or at a place where you can talk quietly together, tell him you want to talk to him and draw him away to a corner. Don't drag it out, just say you want to be friends as gently as possible without making it sound like you like him as a crush or like you hate him. He'll either accept that at not, but you have to make an effort to stay his friend after giving him a couple days; text him, say hi in school, etc. If he hears it from someone else, he might still have some hope, and you don't want to get his hopes up because it will be the worse for the both of you in the end. It's hard to tell people you just want to be friends, but it's the best and right thing to do.

Thanks! I'll get to doing that hopefully after spring break is over. I appreciate it!

[ohbreezey]

I met this really cute guy last night at a lock in for a group I'm in, and we became instant friends. I have a huge crush on him now, and he doesn't even go to my school. ;.;

[Ashki]

I met this really cute guy last night at a lock in for a group I'm in, and we became instant friends. I have a huge crush on him now, and he doesn't even go to my school. ;.;

Hey, I know how you feel. <3
I used to have this major crush on this guy at my church, and I only got to see him twice a week. But I was able to get his number and we texted often. Maybe you could get his number and text sometime. ^^

[jasmine;]

The guy I like, Anthony, well, his mom texts mine, and they both know I like him (eue), and so one day his mom said "Yeah, Tony asked if Jasmine was going to the gala, I told him that I don't know and he should ask her, but he was too shy"

What does this most likely mean? C:

[rachiechu888]

I want to tell my crush that I like him, but I haven't got the guts to... What do I do?!

Any one?

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Here's an idea: Walk up to him, then say, "Hey, so, um, I really like you. As more than just a friend."

Bam. Magic.

Drink some tea to calm your nerves, eat some mints, wear a push up bra, and go for it. The worst he can say is "I hate you," and that's more than unlikely. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, play it cool. Say you're ok with that, you understand, then once you're alone call a friend and watch the Notebook while shoveling ice cream into your mouth like the tears pouring out of your eyes.

I'm just kidding.

Do step one, and if he rejects you, it's not the end of the world. Honestly. There will be other guys, and chances are, they'll like you back and be 10 times better than the last. It's a 50/50 chance, so you've got to just jump for it. Tell him how you feel, and don't freak if he does say no. Look up some ways to relax, do a little bit of yoga and then call him or meet up with him. If you're going to see him at school or youth group, wait until you can get him alone, or ask him for a minute. Just a simple, "Can I have a minute?" will clear crowds, seriously.

When you're doing it, just take a deep breath before you start speaking. Remember to breath; if I know one thing about public speaking, it's that while you think you've been paused for 30 seconds, in reality it was only 2. What I'm trying to say, is, your pauses in speaking are way shorter than you think they are when you're nervous, so don't be afraid to slow down. Try and keep your hands in check; if you're rubbing them together you might come off as crazy or just insanely nervous. Being nervous isn't a very attractive quality when asking someone out, and IMO rejection is more likely. Then again, if he's a sweetheart he'll just think it's cute. But that's rare.

So, in short, these are my tips for you:

• Keep it short and simple; if you talk too much you might go too fast and your words will jumble together.
• Keep your hands by your sides; don't fiddle.
• Remember to breath; your breaks in your speaking are shorter than you think.
• It's not the end of the world if he says no. If he rejects you, take a deep breath, say "Oh, alright. Thanks anyways," smile, and walk off. Staying cool in rejection is a sure-fire way to keep them running. In your direction. It's sexy to be fine with rejection, and can in fact make him feel a bit unwanted. It might make him feel like he's not worth being sad about being rejected by, so he might change his mind and say yes.
  
  You know how I said it was sexy? It really is. Imagine if you just told someone you didn't like them the way they did you and so you tell them no for a date, would you prefer them saying: "Oh.. Um... Ok... Uh.. Bye.." and awkwardly running off with their eyes tearing up, or would you prefer the one who looks like they know what they're doing when speaking, and after facing utter rejection says: "Oh, alright. Thanks anyways," smiles, and struts away? Much sexier. It'll make you desirable, trust me.

I really hope this helps, and good luck!

[HeartOfCoal]

Okay, I have to gush to someone because my mom and friends are useless.

So, there is one guy who I really like. I know, you've heard it a thousand times, but he is perfect. He's in theatre, he's in choir, he's a tenor, he's smart, he knows all of these useless facts that are so fascinating, he's witty - I could go on for days. The best thing is he likes me back.

We had a girls ask guys dance about a month ago and he hinted - pretty much told me right out - that I should ask him. He even said he would ask me out if my dad didn't have a "no dating until certain age" rule for me. It sucks, but I have to wait until Homecoming in September for him to actually ask me out. We were talking the other day in our auditorium because we were the only two there at the time, and he told he would ask me to prom if he could. And then he told me he would probably just have us ditch because he hated dances and was sure I did to. He said we would probably go to Wendy's down the street. And I told him that I would love him to death if he did that. Playfully, of course, so he didn't think I actually meant it, but I have the feeling he knew I meant it.

This is probably a bunch of nonsense, and I doubt anyone is going to read this or care. But I just had to get that out.