| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[iaan]

i hate to post twice within a day
but i just really need a hug right now
i found out my brothers are homophobes [theyre against gay marriage]
and now i know if i was to find true love with a girl - they'd never accept me
and it hurts, it hurts a lot to know my brothers are against equal rights for everybody

and it especially hurts that i was planning to come out of the closet very soon
but now im so scared
i dont want to - i just feel like keeping my sexuality a secret from my family

i can trust my friends
my cousins
complete strangers on the internet
but not my own brothers, not anymore
...i think my dad's a homophobe as well
im so sorry for posting twice but i need support right now
i told my friend and all she said was 'oh sorry have to go, my mom is calling me'

[idiosyncrasy]

i hate to post twice within a day
but i just really need a hug right now
i found out my brothers are homophobes [theyre against gay marriage]
and now i know if i was to find true love with a girl - they'd never accept me
and it hurts, it hurts a lot to know my brothers are against equal rights for everybody

and it especially hurts that i was planning to come out of the closet very soon
but now im so scared
i dont want to - i just feel like keeping my sexuality a secret from my family

i can trust my friends
my cousins
complete strangers on the internet
but not my own brothers, not anymore
...i think my dad's a homophobe as well
im so sorry for posting twice but i need support right now
i told my friend and all she said was 'oh sorry have to go, my mom is calling me'

Aw man, that sucks... my mom is a Christian but I'm not, I keep it a secret. *hugs* it's ok to have secrets, we all do~~~ (post as much as ya like my dear)

[inactive matin]

i hate to post twice within a day
but i just really need a hug right now
i found out my brothers are homophobes [theyre against gay marriage]
and now i know if i was to find true love with a girl - they'd never accept me
and it hurts, it hurts a lot to know my brothers are against equal rights for everybody

and it especially hurts that i was planning to come out of the closet very soon
but now im so scared
i dont want to - i just feel like keeping my sexuality a secret from my family

i can trust my friends
my cousins
complete strangers on the internet
but not my own brothers, not anymore
...i think my dad's a homophobe as well
im so sorry for posting twice but i need support right now
i told my friend and all she said was 'oh sorry have to go, my mom is calling me'

Oh sweetheart, I know exactly how you feel. My parents didn't want me dating a girl, and they made me break up with her. I came out when my mum talked to me about it, and I wish I didn't say a word. If you don't feel safe coming out, don't say anything. You should always feel safe when you talk to family and friends about such a sensitive subject, so when you feel like you're ready to tell them tell them. Don't force yourself to, and don't be scared. If you need any advice, feel free to pm me. My inbox is always open, and I'd be more than happy to help. *hugs*

[zombles]

This can be ignored... I just need to vent.

I'm sorry I'm not your perfect child...
I'm sorry I'm not the perfectly straight child you wanted...
I'm sorry I'm not the clean freak...
I'm sorry if I hide in my room all the time...
I'm sorry I'm an emotional mess...
Okay? I'm sorry for being me.

i'm so sorry, but don't worry what they think. don't put too much thought into what your parents 'want', because they definitely do not want a perfect child. even though i don't really know you, you're most incredibly likely to be an amazing person. don't change yourself to be who people want you to, because you're amazing enough they should realize you don't need to.

[fish sticks]

i hate to post twice within a day
but i just really need a hug right now
i found out my brothers are homophobes [theyre against gay marriage]
and now i know if i was to find true love with a girl - they'd never accept me
and it hurts, it hurts a lot to know my brothers are against equal rights for everybody

and it especially hurts that i was planning to come out of the closet very soon
but now im so scared
i dont want to - i just feel like keeping my sexuality a secret from my family

i can trust my friends
my cousins
complete strangers on the internet
but not my own brothers, not anymore
...i think my dad's a homophobe as well
im so sorry for posting twice but i need support right now
i told my friend and all she said was 'oh sorry have to go, my mom is calling me'

I understand where you're coming from. I am a Demi-pansexual living in a family of homophobes. I've kept it secret for as long as I remember. It'll be okay. you're family may not support you, but me and everyone else who supports gay marriage will. We will be right behind you to stand next to you and help you through whatever you need. If you want to talk more, just PM me. *hug* And there's no limit to how much you can post, post as much comfort as you need.

[lemonlotte]

Hnng, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I need to rant because I am ticked off at myself.
I was working on a drawing for same sex marriage being legalized everywhere in the US and I got to the point where all I had to do was shade the drawing but I ended up closing the paint site by accident when I was switching through tabs and it deleted all my work and now I am too ticked off to even try drawing the same thing again because I know it will be messed up in some way. I am probably just being childish but I just have a pet peeve for trying to redraw things. I feel kind of stupid.

[inactive matin]

Hnng, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I need to rant because I am ticked off at myself.
I was working on a drawing for same sex marriage being legalized everywhere in the US and I got to the point where all I had to do was shade the drawing but I ended up closing the paint site by accident when I was switching through tabs and it deleted all my work and now I am too ticked off to even try drawing the same thing again because I know it will be messed up in some way. I am probably just being childish but I just have a pet peeve for trying to redraw things. I feel kind of stupid.

Don't feel stupid, it was an honest mistake. That happens to me all the time, and I throw a complete tantrum. But I do get over it, and I'm sure you will too. Just try and relax, take some deep breaths, and maybe you'll have the desire to try again later. I'm sure it was a wonderful drawing! *hugs*

[arabella !!]

Hnng, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I need to rant because I am ticked off at myself.
I was working on a drawing for same sex marriage being legalized everywhere in the US and I got to the point where all I had to do was shade the drawing but I ended up closing the paint site by accident when I was switching through tabs and it deleted all my work and now I am too ticked off to even try drawing the same thing again because I know it will be messed up in some way. I am probably just being childish but I just have a pet peeve for trying to redraw things. I feel kind of stupid.

Aw! -Huggies- I'm that happened, trust me, it happened to me as well! ^^ At the end, we forget and I know that you are still a great artist. <3 Don't feel that way, it happens to all of us.

[lemonlotte]

Hnng, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I need to rant because I am ticked off at myself.
I was working on a drawing for same sex marriage being legalized everywhere in the US and I got to the point where all I had to do was shade the drawing but I ended up closing the paint site by accident when I was switching through tabs and it deleted all my work and now I am too ticked off to even try drawing the same thing again because I know it will be messed up in some way. I am probably just being childish but I just have a pet peeve for trying to redraw things. I feel kind of stupid.

Aw! -Huggies- I'm that happened, trust me, it happened to me as well! ^^ At the end, we forget and I know that you are still a great artist. <3 Don't feel that way, it happens to all of us.

Hnng, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I need to rant because I am ticked off at myself.
I was working on a drawing for same sex marriage being legalized everywhere in the US and I got to the point where all I had to do was shade the drawing but I ended up closing the paint site by accident when I was switching through tabs and it deleted all my work and now I am too ticked off to even try drawing the same thing again because I know it will be messed up in some way. I am probably just being childish but I just have a pet peeve for trying to redraw things. I feel kind of stupid.

Don't feel stupid, it was an honest mistake. That happens to me all the time, and I throw a complete tantrum. But I do get over it, and I'm sure you will too. Just try and relax, take some deep breaths, and maybe you'll have the desire to try again later. I'm sure it was a wonderful drawing! *hugs*

Thank you guys. I am hoping to find the motivation again soon ^^ *hugs both*

[fish sticks]

I'm sorry I'm not good at this. I'm sorry I can't help you. I'm sorry if I sound repetitive. I'm sorry I can't be there for you. I'm sorry I can't hug you. I'm sorry if I annoy you. I'm sorry if you get tired of me. I'm sorry if I'm boring. I'm sorry if I can't make you happy. I'm sorry people are mad because of me. I'm sorry I complain. I'm sorry I'm not siting next to you hugging you...