Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[recklessgod]

I've been in a hate everything type of mood, I found out the guy I like / Kaleb, my best male friend/ will be single by tomorrow because his girl friend is breaking up with him and I want to tell him but I don't know how to, the only reason she dated him was because she needed someone to take her to homecoming and I'm freaking out because he's the depressed type, I want to help him because he helps me out of depression but I don't know what to do and I just
I just don't know!! I'm freaking out!!

It happened today and NOW one of MY OWN FRIENDS is flirting with him...
I just
UGH
I DUNNO WHAT TO DO

Maybe you should talk to your friend. And him. And I understand about the depressed type. Why don't you just be there for him? Encourage him. It'll be okay. ^_^

[Horsegirlmadison]

What does it mean when you ask a guy to go to the dance with you and he says idk i'll have to see what i'm doing that day.

[raezel]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

first of all i'm sorry for your loss. 8( you're probably better off without her anyway. she doesn't have the right to say those awful things to you, regardless if you two broke up or not. also, if you feel like things are too busy right now for relationships, just set love aside! sometimes you need a break from romance to focus on other priorities, like your grades and your family. it may be hard, but those who care about you have your back.

if you ever need someone to talk/rant to, feel free to pm me! my inbox is always open, dear. uvu

[Nat!]

What does it mean when you ask a guy to go to the dance with you and he says idk i'll have to see what i'm doing that day.

I want you to know that I'm not a love expert.
That aside, it could mean a number of things.
1. He genuinely likes you and wants to go with you, but he really might have plans.
2. He is buying some time to figure out whether or not he really likes you.
3. He likes you ALOT and chickened out at the last second.
4. He isn't really into you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

I hope that helped, hope its 1 or 3

[recklessgod]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

first of all i'm sorry for your loss. 8( you're probably better off without her anyway. she doesn't have the right to say those awful things to you, regardless if you two broke up or not. also, if you feel like things are too busy right now for relationships, just set love aside! sometimes you need a break from romance to focus on other priorities, like your grades and your family. it may be hard, but those who care about you have your back.

if you ever need someone to talk/rant to, feel free to pm me! my inbox is always open, dear. uvu

Thank you. And you're probably right about her.

[Medusa72]

JG~

When we first met, I forgot about you the next day.
Four years later, you flirt with me.
Then you avoid me.
Now, you make awkward conversations.
Now, every time I glance at you, you're already looking.
Your eyes are blue.
You don't know how to sit still around me.
I wish you'd ask me out.
I wish you'd kiss me.
I've dreamed about it darling.
And I think it'd be wonderful.

~Me.

[claws990p]

when i talk to him the whole world stops and its just me and him i feel so lucky that i have him but i am afriad to say the 3 word he want to hear do i say it or do i just walk away

[Medusa72]

Tell me a story!
Do you remember your first kiss?
(I'm not talking about when you were five. )

[JustDucky]

when i talk to him the whole world stops and its just me and him i feel so lucky that i have him but i am afriad to say the 3 word he want to hear do i say it or do i just walk away

If you don't tell him how you really feel about him, then he may start to think you're not into him. Make sure he's got nothing to be insecure about. Don't be afraid of how you really feel.

[raezel]

i really wish you were here, as i have for the last year, but i just need you right now.
i'm trying to figure myself out and i need you more than ever. 8(