Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Nadine]

do you guys think two years is a big gap? -removed- ... im having mixed feelings.

considering that my boyfriend and i have a three year gap, i wouldn't say so. there's varying opinions about it, but imo, three and up is kind of stretching it, even though my relationship falls under that age gap range.

just think about it in terms of later in life. will it really be that big, say you two should reach that age, when you're 24 and he's 26? it's not likely. just these teenage years seem so much more dramatic in terms of age gaps.

my parents are four years apart so honestly i dont see what a big deal about two years is .. i mean if we do make it to when hes a freshman in college and im a junior in high school it might be kinda hard but hes going to a college around our city so ... i just don't want to run into legal issues. i just wish i was his age. :c

i know how it is, don't worry! so far it's perfectly fine with both of our parents and such, it's just legal issues that are proving to be a hassle. at this rate, after a year of dating, no one really suspects he'd pull something while i'm below the age of consent and such, but there's always that worry. once you two are both legal though things shouldn't be quite as scary! uvu

[global concepts]

considering that my boyfriend and i have a three year gap, i wouldn't say so. there's varying opinions about it, but imo, three and up is kind of stretching it, even though my relationship falls under that age gap range.

just think about it in terms of later in life. will it really be that big, say you two should reach that age, when you're 24 and he's 26? it's not likely. just these teenage years seem so much more dramatic in terms of age gaps.

my parents are four years apart so honestly i dont see what a big deal about two years is .. i mean if we do make it to when hes a freshman in college and im a junior in high school it might be kinda hard but hes going to a college around our city so ... i just don't want to run into legal issues. i just wish i was his age. :c

i know how it is, don't worry! so far it's perfectly fine with both of our parents and such, it's just legal issues that are proving to be a hassle. at this rate, after a year of dating, no one really suspects he'd pull something while i'm below the age of consent and such, but there's always that worry. once you two are both legal though things shouldn't be quite as scary! uvu

thank you so much. i feel so much better about this now. c:

[the dreamer.]

My parents are eight years apart and are still married 30-ish years later, in my opinion it doesn't matter as much as your feelings do.

[recklessgod]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

[huskyderp]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

Again, go where the heart takes you!!!

[claws990p]

when i talk to him the whole world stops and its just me and him i feel so lucky that i have him but i am afriad to say the 3 word he want to hear do i say it or do i just walk away

[recklessgod]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

Again, go where the heart takes you!!!

I'm terrified. I've always felt like I end up in a bad situation when I do that.

[raezel]

thank you so much. i feel so much better about this now. c:

not a problem at all dear! uvu
glad i could help you out! if you ever need any more help or advice feel free to pm me and i'll try to help as best i can!

[y i n]

I've been in a hate everything type of mood, I found out the guy I like / Kaleb, my best male friend/ will be single by tomorrow because his girl friend is breaking up with him and I want to tell him but I don't know how to, the only reason she dated him was because she needed someone to take her to homecoming and I'm freaking out because he's the depressed type, I want to help him because he helps me out of depression but I don't know what to do and I just
I just don't know!! I'm freaking out!!

It happened today and NOW one of MY OWN FRIENDS is flirting with him...
I just
UGH
I DUNNO WHAT TO DO

[huskyderp]

I have really bad trust issues and, I'm bisexual, btw, I was dating this girl and I broke up cause I felt like I couldn't talk to her and I was kinda forced into it. So today she told me she gave up on me?? I've heard it before.. But it still hurts. And now she's made cause all I said was "okay." Well wouldn't you if someone had just told you "I give up on you."?
NOW I like this guy.. And I've known him for a while and I trusthim and stuff but iI don't know how to tell him? Or if I even want to tell him. I'm just so confused and frustrated about EVERYTHING at the moment. School is stressing mW out and family life and keeping my grades up, friend drama, AND NOW relationships.. Ugh. What do I do?? I'm fourteen, as a side note.

Again, go where the heart takes you!!!

I'm terrified. I've always felt like I end up in a bad situation when I do that.

I know its tough just do what you want!! I asked my crush out, it was tough and i was nervous but once you do it you feel very relieved