Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[loonyloolaluna]

Btw, let me just say I'm a girl ... that's year 10.

There's Alex (year 11), this chick who likes me and won't get off my back. She's so freaking clingy and she's always asking me out and always coming to me when $#!% happens in her life. I've let her down gently, and I've ignored her, annd 've accepted being asked out. NONE OF THEM SEEM TO PLEASE HER. I let her down gently: 'But firework we belong together!' i ignore her: 'firework? why can't i text you?' I accept her: 'Is this what you'd really do firework? I want you to be honest with me.'

There's Hollie (Year 10, even though she'd technically pass for year 11 - 'it's different in France'). Oh I adore her. We both love Harry Potter, and Glee, and Starkid, and One Direction, and Doctor Who, and both support gay rights, and are both bi ... I've asked her out ^.^and she accepted. Then the minute later she said she couldn't because she still likes Jess (unknown for me). It's cool, I still like Josh~. But we seem so right for each other ...

There's Maia (year 11)(who made a chickensmoothie ) and she's so full of life, and so happy aand bubbly ll the time. She always dyes her hair. She's so exciting to be around, we have the same humour ... oh I do like her, she's pretty, funny ... thing is I don't know her too well. I really want to. And I think she has a boyfriend anyway >.>

There's Josh~ (year 12) I'm crazy about him. I like him so much. I don't care about his faults however minor or major they can be. And in my head I see how wrong he is for me - but yet so right too. Hes "kinda not single.." and "its like not a proper girlfriend and we don't know whats happening yet" with this other chick. It makes me kinda sad ... but yet I am happy for him.

There's UFO (... second year or uni - would techniclly be year 15). Last time I ever saw him was on the 7th of May 2012. I was kinda sad, but yet I'm glad that he's going to go and become a pilot. He also has a girlfriend. Me and him were quite similar in personality. When I think about it he was like my brother (ugh). He was funny in the meme way, and was kinda a gamer (Skyrim/WoW/Pokemon etc) He was really fun to be around. After a year of obsessing over him ... it's kind of like dry sand falling between my fingers I had him when the sand was wet and would stick, but now the sand has dried and he's slipping away, only to be a distant memory. I will miss him. But not like a heart break miss. Like a distant friend misss ...

Oh and there's this other random. Luca (year 13) ... Yeah, I kinda started ... it's not even a crush. I jjust think he's hot. But Yeah, I saw him one day at school and he looked like Jackson Rathbone (Jasper Twilight/Sokka Last air Bender) so yeah. And he's a friend of a friend, that's how i found out his name. But I'm sure it's nothing serious. It's one of those distant crushes where when I see him pass in a corridor i'll smile because it feels like i'm passing a celeb.
Fine since i'm on the topics of celeb crushes I might as well add this guy Christian (I think first year of uni/year '14') who looks like Darren Criss.
Also there's Niall Horan from One Direction.
And Johnny Depp.

Note: Jackson Rathbone, Darren Criss, And Josh~ all play guitar.
Note 2: Notice how it's the older people that get my attention? *sigh*

edit 1: Note 3: I just had to say this somewhere to gather my thoughts, you don't have to help me out (I don't see how you can really ), but it would be nice :3

[KimSueKimmy]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

[AccentOnHakes]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Tell your parents, a teacher, call the police, anything. Find help from a trusted adult.

[KimSueKimmy]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Tell your parents, a teacher, call the police, anything. Find help from a trusted adult.

But my dad says if he's not doing anything to me then just drop it and if he doesn't want to do anything then I don't know what to do. (My dad protects me from anything that might get me into trouble and this just twists my mind to think that he doesn't want to do anything)

[AccentOnHakes]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Tell your parents, a teacher, call the police, anything. Find help from a trusted adult.

But my dad says if he's not doing anything to me then just drop it and if he doesn't want to do anything then I don't know what to do. (My dad protects me from anything that might get me into trouble and this just twists my mind to think that he doesn't want to do anything)

What about your teachers? Your mom? Parents of a friend?

[KimSueKimmy]

What about your teachers? Your mom? Parents of a friend?[/quote]

They probably wont listen cuz I don't have proof. My mom also agrees with my dad. ButI haven't told my dad about the "Im not ganna stop till I have her" part yet but I'm pretty sure he still wont do anything

[PurpuraPapilio]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

First off, why was your address on Facebook? That was a huge mistake; sharing private information like that is serious and leads to incidents like this. In future, don't share information like mobile numbers or home addresses on social networking sites like Facebook or Twitter or Myspace and so on. Anyone, including "creepy" people, can access that information with a click of a button. This guy could've easily hacked into one of your friend's accounts (trust me, I'm not tech savvy but I know how easy it is to do it) and got your information. That sort of information should only be known to your closest real life friends, and if they were as close as friends should be then they should know where you live anyway. If they wanted to know, they could've asked you by text, phone or face-to-face. I would take all that information off of Facebook if I were you; you'd just be inviting other "creepers" to harass you like this man is.

If he is harassing you, don't take it lightly. You were right in saying you'll contact the police and, if what I get from this is correct, he is now sexually harassing you and I can only assume you're a minor. That is an offence worth a caution or a heafty fine of money. If this other girl called the police and pressed charges against him, then if you do it too that recorded incident should come up on their computers. If it gets any worse in your case (such as him trying to grab your arm and drag you away in the streets, him coming to your front door or anything similar like to aggressive physical contact) then phone the police and have him detained because he is a threat to you, your family and your community.

Unfortunately you can't press charges without physical proof, and trust me a text or two isn't sufficent. What you can do is keep a lookout and always have someone with you if you can (this is good; if he approaches you and harasses you, then you have witnesses on your side). Try to keep your life going as normally as possible; if he knows how scared he's made you then it'll just feed his thrill of stalking his "prey", so to speak. Tell your parents everything immediately, including the "I won't stop til I HAVE you,". Those are warnings that your parents should take seriously even if nothing comes from it. Their underage (again, I'm guessing) daughter is being sexually harassed by a mentally-unstable man.

Your parents will probably shout and scold at you for doing it when you tell them, and trust me I know they will, but that anger is there because they're worried about you. It's better to tell, accept your mistakes and have their support than not having it then something very bad happens.

[KimSueKimmy]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

First off, why was your address on Facebook? That was a huge mistake; sharing private information like that is serious and leads to incidents like this. In future, don't share information like mobile numbers or home addresses on social networking sites like Facebook or Twitter or Myspace and so on. Anyone, including "creepy" people, can access that information with a click of a button. This guy could've easily hacked into one of your friend's accounts (trust me, I'm not tech savvy but I know how easy it is to do it) and got your information. That sort of information should only be known to your closest real life friends, and if they were as close as friends should be then they should know where you live anyway. If they wanted to know, they could've asked you by text, phone or face-to-face. I would take all that information off of Facebook if I were you; you'd just be inviting other "creepers" to harass you like this man is.

If he is harassing you, don't take it lightly. You were right in saying you'll contact the police and, if what I get from this is correct, he is now sexually harassing you and I can only assume you're a minor. That is an offence worth a caution or a heafty fine of money. If this other girl called the police and pressed charges against him, then if you do it too that recorded incident should come up on their computers. If it gets any worse in your case (such as him trying to grab your arm and drag you away in the streets, him coming to your front door or anything similar like to aggressive physical contact) then phone the police and have him detained because he is a threat to you, your family and your community.

Unfortunately you can't press charges without physical proof, and trust me a text or two isn't sufficent. What you can do is keep a lookout and always have someone with you if you can (this is good; if he approaches you and harasses you, then you have witnesses on your side). Try to keep your life going as normally as possible; if he knows how scared he's made you then it'll just feed his thrill of stalking his "prey", so to speak. Tell your parents everything immediately, including the "I won't stop til I HAVE you,". Those are warnings that your parents should take seriously even if nothing comes from it. Their underage (again, I'm guessing) daughter is being sexually harassed by a mentally-unstable man.

Your parents will probably shout and scold at you for doing it when you tell them, and trust me I know they will, but that anger is there because they're worried about you. It's better to tell, accept your mistakes and have their support than not having it then something very bad happens.

I've tols my mom about the "I wont stop until I have you part" But she doesn't think I shud do anything just like my dad says. And This guy doesn't even know how many conections I have to the police. I have a state policemen living near my house, My dad has city police friends, My dad is in the fire department, and so on. But i don't know

[PurpuraPapilio]

Do everybody like ignoring my posts or am I just invisable as usual?!!!!
I need help!!!!
My friend tried to hook me up with this guy that I didn't even know. We started texting each other and he really likes me and hae asked me a very inapropirate question. So I told him to leave me alone and delete my number or else I'm ganna get the state police to arrest you for beaking the law. He deleted my number (Or at least his bother had to take his phone and delete it himself) But now my friend tells me he knows my address and he's not ganna stop untill he HAS me! I'm freaking out cuz he got my address off of Facebook and I have blocked anyone BUT my friends to see it. So I don't know how he got my address cuz he's blocked off. This guy went to the medical hospital 5 times to get councilling and that didn't even work. I've heard storries about this guy. I was told that he did the same exact thing to another girl without knowing any information on where she might be but he found her and she called the cops. Why I wasn't told this before we started talking, I don't know. But all I know is is that I'm really scarred and I have no idea what to do about it. I had the idea of pressing charges, but I don't have any proof of what he did or what 'he's going to do!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!

First off, why was your address on Facebook? That was a huge mistake; sharing private information like that is serious and leads to incidents like this. In future, don't share information like mobile numbers or home addresses on social networking sites like Facebook or Twitter or Myspace and so on. Anyone, including "creepy" people, can access that information with a click of a button. This guy could've easily hacked into one of your friend's accounts (trust me, I'm not tech savvy but I know how easy it is to do it) and got your information. That sort of information should only be known to your closest real life friends, and if they were as close as friends should be then they should know where you live anyway. If they wanted to know, they could've asked you by text, phone or face-to-face. I would take all that information off of Facebook if I were you; you'd just be inviting other "creepers" to harass you like this man is.

If he is harassing you, don't take it lightly. You were right in saying you'll contact the police and, if what I get from this is correct, he is now sexually harassing you and I can only assume you're a minor. That is an offence worth a caution or a heafty fine of money. If this other girl called the police and pressed charges against him, then if you do it too that recorded incident should come up on their computers. If it gets any worse in your case (such as him trying to grab your arm and drag you away in the streets, him coming to your front door or anything similar like to aggressive physical contact) then phone the police and have him detained because he is a threat to you, your family and your community.

Unfortunately you can't press charges without physical proof, and trust me a text or two isn't sufficent. What you can do is keep a lookout and always have someone with you if you can (this is good; if he approaches you and harasses you, then you have witnesses on your side). Try to keep your life going as normally as possible; if he knows how scared he's made you then it'll just feed his thrill of stalking his "prey", so to speak. Tell your parents everything immediately, including the "I won't stop til I HAVE you,". Those are warnings that your parents should take seriously even if nothing comes from it. Their underage (again, I'm guessing) daughter is being sexually harassed by a mentally-unstable man.

Your parents will probably shout and scold at you for doing it when you tell them, and trust me I know they will, but that anger is there because they're worried about you. It's better to tell, accept your mistakes and have their support than not having it then something very bad happens.

I've tols my mom about the "I wont stop until I have you part" But she doesn't think I shud do anything just like my dad says. And This guy doesn't even know how many conections I have to the police. I have a state policemen living near my house, My dad has city police friends, My dad is in the fire department, and so on. But i don't know

Try to tell your father too; if both your parents know, then thats better than one knowing and the other being completely in the dark. If your mother and father think that you "shouldn't" do anything about it, then take matters into your own hands. I know all too well what that feels like, and only you know how scared and panicky you feel.

If you want someone to know, then I'd suggest popping into your local police station to ask a professional what to do, and take someone older with you that you trust. They will have come across cases like this hundreds of times a year (it's rather common now these days sadly). Ask to speak to someone when you get there, and tell them everything. Be attentive, give them eye contact and re-enforce how concerned you are. Lots of adults won't take a minor seriously so it's important that you tell them how it makes you feel and that you don't know what to do. If they can't do anything legal, then at least they can advise you. Or you could find their number to give their office a call, and obviously not use the emergency number.

[Dobby_1999]

I don't know what to do about my crush on Russain hat dude. I sit next to him first lesson tommorow. What should I do? I'm starting to ask some of my really close friends now I'm more comfortable about telling people but I'm still wondering if anyone has more advice?