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by blackoutTaxonomist » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:50 pm
Funsized Kitkat wrote:Ok well before you read this i would appreciate it if you didnt hate on it,
Ok well im dating this guy, the best ever, honestly im in love. Well, i wanna change for him. He didnt ask or anything but i do want to slim down a bit. I was wondering if anyone here had any advice? someone told me to starve myself and to drink lots of water, but would that work?
Okay, just wondering: Are you out of your mind? Normally I don't even read text posts that are so faintly coloured, but it's still early and I decided "Hey what the heck, one post isn't going to hurt" and I am glad I read this (and took off the colour for others to see more clearly). Maybe I am mistaken and misread this or something. Did you really just ask if starving yourself will make you slim down? You know--it might. Or it might not, depending on genetics. Either way, it doesn't matter, because starving yourself for another person is just stupid. If you want to lose weight, eat healthier and get more exercise--or consult with your doctor about the best plan for a diet at your age. If you can't do that, you probably shouldn't be dieting.
I'm all for girls wanting to look their best, but this whole idea of losing weight to please someone who is not yourself is beyond me. In all honesty, if your boyfriend thought you were unattractive he wouldn't be around. He probably thinks you look gorgeous just the way you are. Before you jump on this whole dieting/weight loss kick, maybe you should talk to him about it. I have a sneaking sensation that he wouldn't recommend starving yourself as an option. I'm still having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that you've even considered it enough to mention it.
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by ~IronRose~ » Wed Mar 21, 2012 1:18 am
I agree with Blackout, starving yourself will not work well for you or anyone. When you don't eat your body goes into surviel mode, so the next time you eat your body will store most of that food as fat. that is why you NEED TO EAT at least 3 square meals day. But talk to your doctor and ask but the best way to slim down is exersize.
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by marimoon » Wed Mar 21, 2012 1:36 am
Questionnnn :D
If a guy sings 'Sugar Sugar' *A song by The Archies* And comes up to your face, and continues...What does it mean? Basketball *what I call my crush* did that. :D Soo...Yeah. Oh, Thanks to the people who answered my other post. :3 Anyhootles.
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Fluid as water, as unharnessed as flame.
Contradiction of our own nature, preserved in primal fury."
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by Arkas » Wed Mar 21, 2012 1:56 am
Yea i know....I sorta told him, i told him that i have eaten aanything in awhile because i havent had an appetite,he just said,"I hate it for ya...I hope you feel better." then started laughing at a remark his buddy said so i left him with his buddies, so im still concederning this?...
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by greysilence » Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:25 am
Funsized Kitkat wrote:Yea i know....I sorta told him, i told him that i have eaten aanything in awhile because i havent had an appetite,he just said,"I hate it for ya...I hope you feel better." then started laughing at a remark his buddy said so i left him with his buddies, so im still concederning this?...
Don't starve yourself, it's pointless. You're most likely perfect just the way you are. ;3
If he wanted you different, he probably wouldn't be your boyfriend then. Don't change because you think it will appeal to him. If you're actually doing it for yourself, then go for it. But if you're doing it for him, it's not worth it.
On the bright side, (yes, I'm done being a b***h, XD) that conversation was cute. XD haha If he's saying all those cute things, it means he loves you for you. 
Okay, so I was texting with J again yesterday, and we were just talking. Finally, I said, "How long have you liked me?" and he sent back, "Forever." though I knew he was just kidding. ;3 Then he said "Just kidding. I don't know, like when we started being friends." I was like o_o. Because we've been friends for a couple months now. I don't know how I could have been so oblivious! DB I mean he stole my pencil bag several times, but I didn't really think much of it. Plus, he has his girlfriend, so I didn't even consider that he would like me. XP Then I sent, "You're good at hiding your emotions." and he sent back, "Yeah, I know:)" XD
I still haven't decided if I like him yet or not.
And no, he hasn't asked me out, but would it be weird for an 8th grader to date a 7th grader? He's a year younger than me. And if you say "he's a year younger than me" instead of saying one of us is in 8th and the other's in 7th, it doesn't seem as...odd, I don't know. Anyways, would it be? And yes, I know, age is just a number. XD And no, he hasn't asked me out.
Just wondering for future reference too. X3
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by bast, » Wed Mar 21, 2012 8:17 am
Today, my crush M texted me asking for my address again. We told each other our addresses a while ago, but he had to delete messages since his inbox was full. So, I asked him why he wanted to know and this is how it went;
Him; Where do you live again? I had to delete that message because you text me so much.
Me; lol. It's [mailbox number and street here], you little creeper. :P
Him; I'm not a creeper! I't snot my fault you fill up my inbox so much! :P
Me; Well why do you need to know again, hmmm??
Him; BECAUSE I HAD TO DELETE THAT OTHER MESSAGE BECAUSE MY INBOX COULDN'T HOLD IT!!!!! D:<
Me; BUT WHY DO YOU WANT TO KNOW IT AGAIN??? XD
Him; Because I had to del......... You know what, I'm not saying this again. You know why.
Me; Ugh. Never mind then... You don't get what I'm asking. We're both confused!
Him; I'm not going to stalk you home if thats what you mean.
Me; Then why'd you need to know? :P
Him; Because I game youj my address and I didn't have yours and I had to delete the first time you told me.
Me; Uh huh...
He wouldn't tell anybody why he needed my address. I don't see why he needed it either. I mean, it's not like he's coming over to my house any time soon. Another guy friend of mine tried asking why he needed it, and he just said cause he deleted the message with it. Why do you think he cares about it so much?
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