Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[LittleSparks]

HI!

I have a question:

Well, recently, I had this really awesome Bf. He was so nice to me, and he said all this nice stuff to me, but it was all through text. Then I would say hi to him in the hallways and he barley acknowlegded me. I asked him why he never said hi to me in the hallways when I said hi, and he said he never saw me. And we have this thing called four areas at my school, it's where you can go to any teachers classroom before the bell. And so I would always invite him to go with us a lot. He would either not show up, or come, but be all awkward and sit like, 4 tables away. But if you say it was shyness, it wasn't, I know the difference between being ignored and shy. He was avoiding me. But then he'd say all these nice things to me through texting....I was just torn. So being the bigger person instead of breaking up with him through text, I did it like a normal person and did it in person. Did I do the right thing? I still really like him!!!!

I will congratulate you on doing it in person. Sadly, not many people do. Did you let him explain? Give him a chance? He may have really loved you, but he was too afraid of what the others would say. Talk to him to find out. Maybe he was embarrassed and if his friends found out he would just die. Anyway, you could tell he was as torn and confused as you.
If things do not work out smile and keep going.

There's another thing I didn't mention, he invited me to a four areas room and so me and my friend went there for him, and then he walked in the room and didn't even say hi to me, and then went and sat with this kid on the otherside of the room. Then afterschool I was really upset with him because he had done it multiple times. So I texted him about it and he said he didn't want his friends to know because he said they wouldn't like me. That really hurt.

[LittleSparks]

Ah, so one of yours was what is your top three things in life?[/quote]

Haha!! No, the top 3 girls that he likes! ) I'm going to ask him that!! Omg that was funny! [/quote]

XD ohhhh i knew that!

Haha, i agree![/quote]

LOL I'm still laughing!

[garnet.]

Well, it's not the norm for guys to teach someone the watlz if they didnt like them XD
And if my crush did that, i would be passed out on top of him, happy and shocked at the same time

i nearly did, i was so happy, then once i was out of sight from him I was so hyper it was unbelievablr! 3 of my friends are really angry coz, although i wasnt the only one he taught, the others he taught were already patnered up, i was the only one who got to dance with him, i died

[LittleSparks]

Well, it's not the norm for guys to teach someone the watlz if they didnt like them XD
And if my crush did that, i would be passed out on top of him, happy and shocked at the same time

i nearly did, i was so happy, then once i was out of sight from him I was so hyper it was unbelievablr! 3 of my friends are really angry coz, although i wasnt the only one he taught, the others he taught were already patnered up, i was the only one who got to dance with him, i died

Represent!!!!!!!

[garnet.]

Well, it's not the norm for guys to teach someone the watlz if they didnt like them XD
And if my crush did that, i would be passed out on top of him, happy and shocked at the same time

i nearly did, i was so happy, then once i was out of sight from him I was so hyper it was unbelievablr! 3 of my friends are really angry coz, although i wasnt the only one he taught, the others he taught were already patnered up, i was the only one who got to dance with him, i died

Represent!!!!!!!

what do you meen?

[LittleSparks]

Oh it's just something everybody says at school when we do something awesome

[garnet.]

okay, what do u think of my situation

[LittleSparks]

If he just wants to randomly teach you how to waltz, its pretty obvious that he likes you! Or if hes like, the jerk type, which he most likely isn't it's a dare. But the only reason I say this is because I've had it happen to me!

[garnet.]

hes 4 years older than me... does that make a difference

[LittleSparks]

Well yes...well actually it depends. If its a highschool then is he a senior and your a freshman?