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by caf. » Sun Dec 13, 2015 5:32 am
overcaffienated. wrote:overcaffienated. wrote:i'm sorry guys, i know i've been posting a lot, but life is spiraling south these days, aha
if you remember, my (severely depressed and highly anxious) best friend has been on my mind a lot. well, i kinda didn't mention that she also desperately wants and needs therapy but her parents think it's 'just a trend' and a waste of time. i feel horrible about it, knowing that she's been suffering like this for years with no light at the end of the tunnel
so just today i was at the doctor's to get a prescription for anxiety meds (another thing i was feeling guilty about), and the pediatrician asked me what sorts of things caused my anxiety. after running through the school and home situation, i mentioned my friend (not a name, of course), and her whole situation, and the doctor said 'well i hope her pediatrician...'
well, my pediatrician's also hers, so my mom asked her if it was legal for us to tip her off so she could talk to my friend privately and just maybe talk some sense into her parents, and after a bit we agreed that, since the doctor wasn't sharing any of her information with us, we were fine
so my friend's got a physical this month and i'm honestly really nervous, because i feel like this might go really far south really fast if her parents suspect she's being 'brainwashed' or something (they have severe misconceptions about mental illness and therapy), and our friendship might be terminated if they suspect someone tipped the doctor off (which very well might send me over the edge, just the thought of her going to college makes me die inside), and i really can't take that
i'm just really anxious about this because i want her to get help and i'm happy she has a chance but there's so many things that could go wrong and i just
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by grapebats » Sun Dec 13, 2015 6:17 am
My dog got hit by a car.
I don't think it's bad. His foot is bleeding and his leg is hurt (minorly from what I can tell). He's just kind of laying there where I sat him on my bed and he's not moving anything but his head, and he's sort of shaking so I put my blanket over him.
I'm still upset and I'm still crying. I have no idea if he could be hurt worse than I can see because I didn't see him get hit. No one did.
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by Thalassic » Sun Dec 13, 2015 6:23 am
Prongs. wrote:My dog got hit by a car.
I don't think it's bad. His foot is bleeding and his leg is hurt (minorly from what I can tell). He's just kind of laying there where I sat him on my bed and he's not moving anything but his head, and he's sort of shaking so I put my blanket over him.
I'm still upset and I'm still crying. I have no idea if he could be hurt worse than I can see because I didn't see him get hit. No one did.
Today's been an A+ day overall.
Even if the damage doesn't seem major, it's best to call a vet over to have him checked out, just in case. (You could bring him to a vet, but it's safer to not move him a lot, in case there's some damage of the spine or something similar)
For the shaking, he might just be scared and in shock after what happened. Do whatever you can to make him comfortable and safe, and don't make him move around a lot just yet.
I hope it's nothing major, but it's best to still make sure there's not some other, less visible damage as well.
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by EncyOf » Sun Dec 13, 2015 7:17 am
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by XDreamerX » Sun Dec 13, 2015 8:14 am
BioWolf wrote:BioWolf wrote:I get these headaches that evolve into attacks where my mind goes numb and I loose some control over my body (random shaking) my friends saw it. Made fun of me for it and kept making it worse and I told them they were making it worse. And my one friend tells the one I can't trust about the mental breakdowns she helps me through. And she started mocking me. I was already incredibly embarrassed, people were giving me angry looks. And they were insulting me for telling them not to punch, kick, tackle and scream in public. Then they leave me out. What I heard was right, 3 is a bad number for a group of friends. And the one I trusted is hanging out with this girl who is mean to me and beats my friend up.
It is going to be okay. Things like this happen, and I know it can be hard. If the breakdowns get any worse, you may want to contact a professional about it. And I know, friends are difficult. They're honestly the reason why I like animals better than people, haha. I know how it feels when people insult and make fun of you for something that you can't control. It feels terrible. People just don't know what they're saying. They don't think about what they're doing. They just don't realize that the person they're making fun of probably cannot control what is happening. They don't realize how much it may be hurting them. People are honestly just plain stupid. And maybe the friends you have right now aren't good ones. Based on what you just said, you may have to look for some new people to hang out with. Look, you just have to try to ignore it. Try not to care too much what people say. Their words shouldn't matter. I promise you, it will be just fine. Now keep pushing through, it will get better.
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by Montgomery Gator » Sun Dec 13, 2015 11:54 am
opaque, wrote:my dad just kicked me out of the house saying he doesnt want to see our faces.
including my sister and my mom, i dont have anything but my laptop i stupidly grabbed
and now im at starbucks, and starbucks doesnt stay open forever.
i give up.
call 911 or stay ina hotel tonight DONT SLEEP OUTSIDE!!!you can get kidnapped or robbed..
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