Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Wild.One]

There just..just..too many guys! XD

We have been taking tests all week at school and today I caught starfish dead on staring at me. I see him do it quite often too... I think I kinda like him... I'm not sure XD

And there's this other guy who I used to be really good friends with. I want to be friends with him again but it's hard when all the other girls are obsessed with him. I'm not kidding. Obsessed. And I hate it. I just want to talk to him but I can't with all these other girls. I don't even like like him, I just really want to be friends. Ugh. It's weird though because his other friends like me... He's friends with the guy above too. ^

[Buuuuugjuice]

Ok so this guy (call him H) according to his friends he is going to ask me out. He even kinda hinted he was going to ask me. I've had crush on him for awhile now. Rumors keep spreading across the school and a girl (call her E) has a HUGE crush and on him found out. E is very upset and mad also E hate me now and is being creepy. E started to sit at my lunch table and she just sat there quietly without talking and stared me and him. From what I've seen/heard she is very talkative and happy. I understand you can be painful for this to happen but she has gotten really possessive over him. She found out from his friend that he didn't like her and she just blew up with emotions. I hardly know her but is she is way more popular than me and is very possessive over people. I know this because well I've seen her get mad then our mutual friend decided to sit at my table and not hers. She keeps popping up out of know where when ever I try to talk to H. I don't want to be mean and still her to "Stop." I want to be polite about but I'm not sure what to do. I want to be able to talk to H without her interrupting. This has been going on for days now.

[Anuran]

So.. I'm happy and irked at the same friggin' time because of him.

My crush and I - thankfully - share a mutual attraction. At least, that's what it seems. We flirt like stupid crazy all the time, everyday, and I really like him. I hadn't seen him since, like, monday, and even then it was only for a few minutes. :c Today, for the first half of the day - usually the only times I see him - he was on a field trip, but I guess he came back because after sixth, I saw him. I got that happy, warm fuzzy feeling and sped up to talk to him (I hurt myself playing soccer and now I'm stuck in a brace so I'm not too fast lol) but when I did get close enough to him for him to hear me say hello, I swear I wanted to lose it. He was hugging on some other girl, laughing and walk-hugging her, and uuurrrgh. Thank goodness it wasn't for a long while (I woulda said something to him) and she left, and so I ran over and he hugged me and such and walked me to my class then went back to his, and sent me cute texts all that period. I hadn't really felt jealousy over him before, because I'd only really seen him around people I'm friends with too, or just other guys and his football bros. What if he texts other girls like how he texts me, too? :c Maybe that's why he hasn't asked me out in the, like, month we've been like this. Am I overthinking this? Does he even like me? Like, this is the first time I'd really seen him hugging on another girl like that that isn't me, and I do not like it, even if he isn't my boyfriend. Is he leading me on? I don't wanna ask him, because we're nothing official and I don't wanna freak him out, but I don't want him being all 'over friendly' with other girls, either. -sigh- I dunno. I told myself in the beginning that I wouldn't become attached to the thought of him and I together, but now that I had been positive that it would happen, it's like I notice all of the bad things, too. I don't like it. At all. :c

[RemyLittleChef]

Okay so my friend told me in a Skype convo my crush told her he was going to ask me out. And I'm going to be meeting him at the park on Friday...I really need advice on what to do when I get there and what to do when he asks me well...if he asks me.

[.yuanfen]

I'm so lost.
I want to just curl up into a ball and cry but I promised myself that I'd never do that again. I have to stay strong.

Long story short, I became really good friends with a guy, and we hung out throughout the summer pretty much every week. We talked more than I do with my best friends. I had a huge crush on him that I never said anything about, and I feel like he might have liked me too- my other friends certainly believed that he did.
The last time we smiled together was the first day of school.

After that day, suddenly, he wouldn't answer my texts, or any of my messages. He'd answer everyone else except for me. He'd avoid me in school, avoid talking to me in class, everything. Obviously I couldn't help but wonder what I'd done wrong. We don't even make eye contact anymore. We used to talk every day.
I don't think I've said a word to him in two weeks.

It's not like I haven't tried to regain contact. I texted him several times over the course of two weeks, hoping for an answer, but received none. I've tried to talk to him in school, but it's like he never notices me.

I just want to know what I did wrong. All I remember is the very first day of school, when he was so happy that we were going to be in two of the same classes, and after that...all of a sudden, it was gone. All of it. All of the summer that I spent getting to know a person who I considered a best friend. Now it's like we don't even know each other. I have no idea what I could have done to prompt this, and I feel like I must have done something terrible, but I don't know what it is.

I'm upset because I like him, yes, but what's breaking my heart is that I'm losing a friend. I'm so lost...I have no idea what to do anymore except for lay in bed and cry, like a shallow teenage girl. I hate myself for wanting to cry, to admit that I'm so weak that I'm hurt by the loss of someone who probably never even liked me. For some reason, I feel like this is all my fault, but I don't know what I did to make it this way.

[saturday.]

I'm so lost.
I want to just curl up into a ball and cry but I promised myself that I'd never do that again. I have to stay strong.

Long story short, I became really good friends with a guy, and we hung out throughout the summer pretty much every week. We talked more than I do with my best friends. I had a huge crush on him that I never said anything about, and I feel like he might have liked me too- my other friends certainly believed that he did.
The last time we smiled together was the first day of school.

After that day, suddenly, he wouldn't answer my texts, or any of my messages. He'd answer everyone else except for me. He'd avoid me in school, avoid talking to me in class, everything. Obviously I couldn't help but wonder what I'd done wrong. We don't even make eye contact anymore. We used to talk every day.
I don't think I've said a word to him in two weeks.

It's not like I haven't tried to regain contact. I texted him several times over the course of two weeks, hoping for an answer, but received none. I've tried to talk to him in school, but it's like he never notices me.

I just want to know what I did wrong. All I remember is the very first day of school, when he was so happy that we were going to be in two of the same classes, and after that...all of a sudden, it was gone. All of it. All of the summer that I spent getting to know a person who I considered a best friend. Now it's like we don't even know each other. I have no idea what I could have done to prompt this, and I feel like I must have done something terrible, but I don't know what it is.

I'm upset because I like him, yes, but what's breaking my heart is that I'm losing a friend. I'm so lost...I have no idea what to do anymore except for lay in bed and cry, like a shallow teenage girl. I hate myself for wanting to cry, to admit that I'm so weak that I'm hurt by the loss of someone who probably never even liked me. For some reason, I feel like this is all my fault, but I don't know what I did to make it this way.

awh, I'm going through pretty much the same thing right now. I hope it all gets better and that he begins to talk to you again.

if you ever need to talk about this I'm here, because I feel your pain ;o; I don't know why he's doing this but I hope you can find out soon!!

[book.]

Someone please help. I have had a crush on this guy, let's call him.. Red, for a few weeks now. I love everythig about him pretty much; his hair, his eyes, voice, style in clothing is like mine. We sat in the same group in my second hour science for a while, but he probably thought I was a freak because one of his friends, a jokester, would make me seem like one. So I don't sit by him any more, but here's my major crisis; He found out I like him because of one of my blonde friends. Every time I see him I don't know what to do, Smile? Say hi? Stare? I feel like He is embarrassed because the "freak girl" likes him. I'm also afraid he will tell others and they will start bugging me about it. Last year some kid liked me and the word got out and everyone called me "Mrs (kidslastname)" . Anyway, I don't know what to do about this. Someone please PM me a response.

If it's really bugging you on what could possibly be going on inside his head, calmly approach him and ask. When you do, keep you composure neutral- try not to show emotion. Whether or not his response will please you, I don't know. Just be prepared for anything. If you feel like the kid's harassments are too much for you to bear, notify a teacher. That way a full stop can be put to the matter and your anxiety will be eleviated. Remember that boys are vastly different to girls, as perplexing as their motivations, actions ect are to us, we are just as incomprehensible to them. Also take note that a good guy will respect you for who you truly are, don't let him distort you, be yourself. If he likes that- great. If he doesn't- move on. I hope this helps one way or another.

Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you for the advice, Genie!!! I really appreciate it!!! <3 <3


But i failed. i just... i cant talk to him, i just.. im so embarrassed.. Im thinking about messaging him on Fb or something.. Plan B?

[book.]

^^^^^ continued from up there ^^^^^^
Also, today something happened. We were doing a project in science (Red is In my science) and my group asked me to go ask the teacher something. So I walked over to her but she was helping HIS group. So I was standing by her, waiting for her attention, and he was sitting right in front of me, and he saw me, I saw him, we made I contact, ad it was so awkward.. UGGHHH anyone have further advice for me?!

[Ashley Renee]

Alright, so there's this really cute guy at my school, we'll call him Z.

I sit next to him in one of my Algebra classes, so I know his general personality.
He's pretty goofy and makes me laugh, plus he's pretty helpful when I ask him if my concealer is even, and he's honest about it. I mean, I know these can all just mean he's a nice guy, but I really really wish he'd like me back.

Anyways, it makes me so sad that I just know he'll probably never like me back, and ugh.
I'm not that into dating, seeing as dating is stressful and I'd rather be focused on my schoolwork, you're life basically depends on how well you do as a teenager, which is really scary and I don't want to mess this up.

But still, I long for a boyfriend; someone who can come to my house and watch movies with me; someone whom I can cuddle and giggle with.

Sigh.

[pandas<3green]

So there's this guy who I thought like me last year. And I like him. And so I'm trying to ya know... Get the ball rolling. So I try texting him. The only problem is I have no idea what to talk about, I think he's a bit creeped out, and he doesn't add to the conversation. He just replies yes or not to my questions. It's killing me! Any ideas on what to say/do?