Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[yoohoo]

Okay. Right now, I have this kind of GIGANTIC problem. I like this one guy, but at the same time think he's a total jerk. He barely ever notices me, and when he does, he's always correcting me for something I did. He's kind of full of himself. He's always commenting on his pics, ''Ooh, I look hot in that pic'' or, ''Ooh, bring the water, cause I'm on fiyahh!!!'' and the problem is... I agree with him. And I hate myself for it. Sure, I like other people, but he's the one guy I can't get over. I hate him, but I like him. And, what's even worse, is that, to my information, he only dates short girls! And I'm the tallest girl in my whole grade! DX Little help, please?

[autumnsoundtrack]

I'm back... again. I finally had the guts to tell my best friend that I still like L, but she says that since we don't talk much I am only in love with his looks! He is very, very cute, but I don't constantly say he's "soooo hot" or anything like that. But she claims that I can't be in love with him still since I don't know him very well. I am one of those people who believe in love at first sight, but she is not, and I am wondering if anybody else thinks that I only like him for his looks.

Before you take a quick time to judge, however, take these notes into consideration:

The last time we walked partially home together was last November. (Volleyball schedule has been cruel to my walking home days.)

During that short walk, we laughed a lot. He kept on mimicking my every move and every word in a voice that is nowhere near mine.

He kept trying to look into my eyes during the walk.

And lastly, and the most memorable of them all, when we were walking, he lifted his shirt up to "wipe" something from his face. But of course there was no sweat, dirt, or anything else on him; and he kinda smiled when I had a swooning look on my face for a short while.

Please help?? Thank you!

[Arkas]

Uhh, I need some help. There this guy, I've known for a LONG time, and I have/ed a big crush on him. He's adorkable, sweet, yet a bit of a nerd. He started "going after" this popular girl (she's popular, but really nice, i really like her), but she's dating this other guy. I told myself then and there that there is someone else for me and kind of forced my self to stop liking him. I'm still trying, but every time I see him my heart flutters and starts to race and I act a little awkward arouund him. He knows I like him, too. (Longer story). Oh, and there's a dance this friday. What should I do?

I think you should aks him to the dance, but be sure to add friends in there, maybe along the lines of,"Would you like to go to the dance with me,like friends?" You may as well take a shot or he will get away from you, trust me you dont want that to happen. :/ Better to regret something you did than something you didnt. </3

THANK YOU!!! I'll try it!

Your very welcome, iv'e been there and its not fun a fun road and i regret not telling him, i missed my chance. But i would love to know how i went, if you dont mind that is? ^-^

Edit: Spelling error xD

[peachie.]

Hello friends! I need help!

Just incase you get confused here is a table to help you out.

Me - female
D - my boyfriend
R - one of my best friends/guy
C - one of my best friends/girl/D's ex

Okay a lot has been going on lately. D and I used to be best friends. We both liked each other and decided to start dating. It was going great until he started fading away from me. He is usually a very chatty person but now we only have two or three short conversations a day. Not even on the weekends, we only talk at school.
His ex, C, is a great friend of mine. I learned that she still has feelings for D. She said she would never do anything to effect D and I's relationship. But the thing that distrubs me the most is he talks to her more than me. He goes and talks about me to her. I am thinking he still has feelings for her two. But I don't want to end hour relationship because one, I dont know for sure if he likes her and two because I don't want to end our friendship.
On the other hand I have a guy in my life who is great. We shall call him R. We text 24/7, laugh, hangout all the time, cheer each other up and have a lot in common. We hang out when other people are around and alone. Today we hung out at my house. We watched a movie, talked, went uptown and got slushies. It was a lot of fun. The thing that bugs me is that my mom and his mom thinks we got the 'hots' for eachother. There must not have been guys and girls being best friends when they were young.
Okay back on topic, D knows R and I hang out. He seems fine with it. But I have a feeling he is thinking I am cheating on him but I am not. He doesn't come to ne with his problems though, heprobably justtalks to his ex.

[Chirai]

Smart idea, Amour. XD i hope you don't mind if i borrow the idea.

M- Me
T- The guy me and C like
C- My friend who thinks she is, but she is my worst enemy
Ma- Some guy who has a crush on me and stalks me >.<

So, i like T and so does C. I met T not so long ago, and so did C, since T is a year younger and we just met in orchestra and C sits next to me in orch. And he sits to the other side of her >.<

So, T is really funny, somewhat flirty to the girls, but to any girl, not just one, and does it in a good way, and i just wanna die with happiness when he looks at me <3

So, both C and i like him, but since i will problably never see him in 4 years, since i am going into high school, i plan on giveing him my number and HOPING that he will actually text me. But i never really see him, and when i do, its in orchestra, which C is in my class. Do you think i could possibly give it to him a Hawaiian Falls, which is a place the whole orchestra go at the end of the year, with a chance that he is not going and C might not notice, or at the Spring concert, which i know for sure he will be there and C will see?

Keyword for me is Mangos so i can find this again >.<

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

I finally got out of a rut I'd been in for about three years, guy-wise, and it was beautiful and wonderful and my life was great. I started having a small crush on another guy about three weeks ago (just before I got out of the aforementioned rut). I told a few people, maybe a few more than I should've told because I'm much too trustowrthy of people. After they found out, my friends Mackenzie and Emma appointed themselves as my wingmen, since I apparently need wimgmen since I don't actually have any classes with this guy and don't know him all too well. Emma did a fine job of it, but one day into the job (which happened to be today), Mackenzie decided being a wingman meant sending him a small paper airplane with my name and his name in a heart stating "Gale loves you". Real subtle. That was in third period, and when she told me during lunch, I kindasorta accidentally made a scene in the hallway. Like, a real honest-to-goodness scene. Everyone was watching me for a good minute, which is a lot longer than it sounds. I didn't mean to. But that's not the point. It took him until abut fourth or fifth period to figure out who I was (apparently the word he used was energetic, which is a lot better than what some people use). Then after school Mackenzie, another friend and I were hanging out in the commons area, and Mackenzie was trying to take pitures of me, which she claimed were for another friend so she could show her who I was, which was complete and utter crap because I'm in choir and youth group with the friend in question, so after the events and conversation of the day I was pretty sure they were for Darren (the guy I like). She didn't get any real good pictures, but he was standing outside waiting for his bus, and Mackenzie had to go and show him the pictures and I had to yell at her to SHUT THE EFF UP but I didn't create another scene because I'm done with that. Then, as the other friend and I walked home, his bus passed us and my friend swore she saw him looking at me and I was tempted to flip him the bird, but realised that was a stupid idea. Then as we walked farther, a few of the guys from my grade were walking out of Dairy Queen as we passed, and oneof them just had to say "Hey Gale, how's Darren going?" because I wasn't already worked up enough over this without half the school knowing (apparently he was just one person though, because he sat beside Darren in third, but I can guarantee most of our grade will know about it by the end of the week) and I had to yell at him to SHUT UP (which is becoming my slogan for the day).

It seems to most people right now that I'm making too big a deal of this and maybe I am a little bit, but it was just a small crush, and not many people, especially not Darren, were supposed to know about it. Also, besides "energetic", this now pretty much his first impression of me. And I realise now that yelling at people and creating a scene in the middle of the hallway wasn't the best way to deal with this, but I was pretty worked up at the time. And now things will probably be awkward. We'll see how things go at school tomorrow. Maybe I'll just avoid him for the next while. It can't be hard.

**EDIT** Mackenzie said he seemed kind of impressed when he saw the note, although I'm not sure how that could be. Also, no one should feel any obligation to read this, or anything else I post on this thread. I'm really rambly, and this is a good way to get my thoughts and feelings out, better than a diary because maybe some poor schmuck with nothing better to do will actually read this and care.

[admires last delight]

Last night I had a dream my crush -that likes me- was a doctor. He was around 16 and he was an animal doctor. We brought in a sheep and he was my boyfriend. He took a look at our sheep and said he needed medication and kissed me goodbye...? Going to bed hoping that if I have a dream about him it'll actually make sense, which seems impossible because I've had wierd dreams about him for the last 3 days...

[Refugee]

I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that a long-term crush is bad, or an obsession is good? Or something else? Anyways, an obsession is different than being careful. When I write obsession, I mean a bit nuttily, for example, one of my friends bought a pen because her crush touched it. That's a little odd, no?

Oh yeah your friend there... that's not healthy XD I meant like if you've liked the guy for a long time, know his faults and can deal with them... that's fine. A crush that lasts a while can be a good thing. My advice is to trust your gut. '

Admires Last Delight: I have dreams about my Brian all the time, too. Mostly me being his girlfriend (he likes me too) but I hate waking up... then I remember he has a girlfriend in a different school.

[admires last delight]

I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that a long-term crush is bad, or an obsession is good? Or something else? Anyways, an obsession is different than being careful. When I write obsession, I mean a bit nuttily, for example, one of my friends bought a pen because her crush touched it. That's a little odd, no?

Oh yeah your friend there... that's not healthy XD I meant like if you've liked the guy for a long time, know his faults and can deal with them... that's fine. A crush that lasts a while can be a good thing. My advice is to trust your gut. '

Admires Last Delight: I have dreams about my Brian all the time, too. Mostly me being his girlfriend (he likes me too) but I hate waking up... then I remember he has a girlfriend in a different school.

Haha aren't they just weird? But last night I didn't have a dream about him.

& agreed, that's completely not good. xD

[Trick;]

If anyone remembers me, allo ^^

Well, you see, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and one day, now. I guess it's kind of awkward, but everyone seems to be inserting their opinion, especially about one topic.
You see, we don't really walk in the hallways together, or sit with each other at lunch. Basically, the only time when we're together and actually talking is when we're playing Ping-pong, or out of school. Everyone seems to have a problem with this, but I'm just like, meh, whatever. I keep trying to explain that I have my friends, and he has his, but they keep going 'blah blah blah mingle sit together pay attention to each other'.

So I was wondering, is it really that bad if we really don't pay that much attention to each other during school? ono