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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dia. » Wed Sep 24, 2014 12:00 pm

~5sos~ wrote:Hello darlings, I think I need some advice on my day today...

Today in school we took a "field-trip" to the Museum so we could do a project in school and I hung out with my crush, E, a lot. We kind of talk awkwardly because I like him and (I dont know for sure) I think he likes me. It was a great day.

BUT...

During my show choir practice one of my best guy friends, G, admitted to liking me accidentally... I really don't know how I feel about him, honestly, and I have a feeling he is going to ask me out. What do I do?? I feel really bad because I ranted about E to him before I knew he liked me!! Oh lordy I am over-reacting again, lol.


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If you don't like G, don't say yes if he asks you out. You'll only end up hurting him.
If he knows that you like this other guy, he probably won't ask you out... And if he does, just turn him down nicely saying that you appreciate him and he's a great guy, but you aren't sure you feel the same way and you don't want to ruin things.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby EclipticChaos » Wed Sep 24, 2014 1:00 pm

So I Get Into a Fight Because A Guy Insulted My Friend/ Crush/ GF Mentioned Earlier, I Was Apparently A "Fighting Machine" After Getting My Butt Handed To Me. A Girl Asks Me Out Because She Likes "Guys Who Can Fight", I Obviously Said I'll Think About it. Then I Get Home And In My Inbox Is An E-mail From My Long-distance GF Reading:
I Cant Do This Anymore.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Warriors13lover » Wed Sep 24, 2014 1:16 pm

DanTDM wrote:So I Get Into a Fight Because A Guy Insulted My Friend/ Crush/ GF Mentioned Earlier, I Was Apparently A "Fighting Machine" After Getting My Butt Handed To Me. A Girl Asks Me Out Because She Likes "Guys Who Can Fight", I Obviously Said I'll Think About it. Then I Get Home And In My Inbox Is An E-mail From My Long-distance GF Reading:
I Cant Do This Anymore.
Heart Broken </:\3

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby EclipticChaos » Wed Sep 24, 2014 6:50 pm

G = My Crush/GF
B = Girl That Asked Me Out.

I Got Into A Argument With G Becuase I Got Into The Fight Then Apparently B Knew G And Told Her That She Asked Me Out, And She Reeled That In So Long Story Short, I'm Single, And Definitely NOT Ready To Mingle. 0^0
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby thunderofthedrum » Thu Sep 25, 2014 3:17 am

DanTDM wrote:G = My Crush/GF
B = Girl That Asked Me Out.

I Got Into A Argument With G Becuase I Got Into The Fight Then Apparently B Knew G And Told Her That She Asked Me Out, And She Reeled That In So Long Story Short, I'm Single, And Definitely NOT Ready To Mingle. 0^0
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That was definitely hard to follow.. would it be possible to only capitalize things that ought to be capitalized? (Beginning of sentences and proper nouns)

It SOUNDS like B withdrew her interest and G broke up with you?? I thought she already had before but you listed her as girlfriend.

Sounds like your options were taken away - whether or not you have options does NOT define whether you are 'ready to mingle'. Someone could have several people interested in them yet not be ready to mingle; those are independent things.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Taylor-Rae » Thu Sep 25, 2014 8:40 am

Ok I made a big mistake today and I don't know what to to do next!
So my friend K and I have been txring a lot lately, and he really likes me but I had just gotten broken up less than 2 weeks ago. But when we got to school, we walked to my class and dropped my stuff off then walked to his and dropped his stuff off. I'm not ready to be in a relationship, not for a while, but he held my hand. K just slipped his hand into mine and held it. I was surprised and didn't see it coming. But now everyones talking about how I have a new boyfriend and I don't know what to do! Help please!!!
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby DaydreamNarrator » Thu Sep 25, 2014 8:43 am

I'm Done Pretending wrote:Ok I made a big mistake today and I don't know what to to do next!
So my friend K and I have been txring a lot lately, and he really likes me but I had just gotten broken up less than 2 weeks ago. But when we got to school, we walked to my class and dropped my stuff off then walked to his and dropped his stuff off. I'm not ready to be in a relationship, not for a while, but he held my hand. K just slipped his hand into mine and held it. I was surprised and didn't see it coming. But now everyones talking about how I have a new boyfriend and I don't know what to do! Help please!!!

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Taylor-Rae » Thu Sep 25, 2014 8:44 am

I told him that but he just likes me a lot. I'm scared that ill fall for him and be worried about my heart getting broken again :(
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby intristin » Thu Sep 25, 2014 9:16 am

I'm Done Pretending wrote:I told him that but he just likes me a lot. I'm scared that ill fall for him and be worried about my heart getting broken again :(


That's tough. Situations like that, it's hard to get the guy to understand that you don't/can't be with him. You need to pull him aside, make sure he knows you are being entirely serious, and let him know, as The Vampiress said, that you aren't ready for another relationship. If he continues to try and hold your hand and such, you need to repeat that you aren't ready for a relationship, and that if he keeps doing this, you might have to take a break from hanging out with him for a bit. Most of all, I think you should avoid falling for him. You've had a recent heartbreak, and though the relationship might last for a bit, in the end, it will probably just hurt you more. I hope this helps you.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dawnbreeze10210 » Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:07 am

I'm Done Pretending wrote:I told him that but he just likes me a lot. I'm scared that ill fall for him and be worried about my heart getting broken again :(


I know it's tough trying to let your heart be in the hands of another again. It's hard, difficult, and most of all, scary. But if you two break up (if it comes to that) perhaps he wasn't really the one. Life is full Of ups and downs, otherwise it wouldn't really be life. Just realize that you'll have others around you who do care for you, whether you're dating someone or not. When you do feel ready to date, it's okay to be a little afraid, it's natural. C:
If you're not ready for another relationship, don't push yourself into one. Get over the first thing first, just one step at a time.
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