hainu wrote:i've dealt with being called by female pronouns in real life for a long time but?? trying to talk my guardians into letting me wear something other than a dress and having them directly stare at me and tell me that i am a girl and girls wear dresses was probably one of the most painful times, i was trying not to cry infront of them but when they left the room i started crying god i'm pathetic
i just,, i want to be told i am a boy. i am not a girl please do not call me a girl.
do you have a Person you can trust...a grandma or grandpa? your mom or even dad?
Then talk to them, openly.
Do inform yourself together with them what it means what you are-feel, a good doc can help to give bether info to your parents, ist important to get help, i think you are still Young and at home...yes?
then ist even more important, the earlyer you get help, and them to accept that life will Change the bether it will be, when it gets to bad there is always youth wellfare Service that can help you.
im really no pro in this case...but try to get all the help you can, and more People on your side!
you may be Born as Girl but feel as Boy, there are many many People like you...dont let anybody tell you something else.
and dont hold crying back, it can help you, ist stress reliefe too...ist a natural reaction of the Body...happiness saddness and so on can make one cry...man or women Boy or Girl ist all the same...and it Shows that you are strong.
and you are also strong as you stay to what you are and how you feel....dont Change how you are.
find you the help you Need to go where you Need to go.
there are Forums onine where you can get bether info, help, to find a doc that can help you Change from Girl to Boy...when its that what you really want.
a mind doc can help you with your parents too.
i wish you good luck, and when you Need somebody to talk or ask write me, i can try to help a Little bit, and when ist only that you rant about something...^^.
--> and im a Girl and still dont need to wear Dresses...only when i want to and feel like it....why should a Girl wear Dresses...maybe we also should not work or become a Pilot or doc or pressident....
...so go and wear Pants when you feel bether in them...maybe start with some slightly feminin looking ones and go to the Point of clothing that you like in slow steps so that your Guardians feel more comfortable accepting the Change.
You must see...its not easy for them too,they have a Little Girl...and now have a Girl that wants to be a Boy...but you are unhappy with it as it seems,maybe you say you feel like in the wrong Body so they may needto learn to accept it with time, a peacefull talk with exact info for them can help too. maybe ask them that you like to have a talk with them. when you say all the hows and whys it can help them understand you and your Problem.