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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby SpyroMello » Sun Sep 25, 2016 9:58 pm

WastedSpace wrote:
~Porpora wrote:whyy
I haven't told my mom that I'm dating my boyfriend (sounds weird without saying his name or something pff) because I was sure she'd ask or figure it out but she ?? hasn't said anything??? like she used to ask every single time I mentioned a boy if I liked him or whatever and now that it's an actual thing she's just
agh
I am not good at explaining these things so I can't really just tell her


Write her a note? Text her? Email her?

No. NO. NO! Seriously? Text your mom that you have a boyfriend? If your mom hasn't been asking about boys then she probably already figured it out. She's just waiting for you to tell her. Just tell her face to face. I know for teenagers it's hard, but it's best that your mom knows. Most parents won't ground you or try and break you up, they'll just want to meet the kid. It's more respectful and honorable to say it to their face than to write a note or text them though.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Karia » Sun Sep 25, 2016 10:09 pm

eek.

like everyone sitting around us think we're perfect for each other.

he doesn't like it.

it's kinda getting uncomfortable, and i've told him that he can say that he doesn't like it to them. he's even told me to just stop talking to him 2 times (but we still talk and laugh a lot) and to stop poking his arm when i want to talk to him.

should I tell him i like him? I seriously don't want it to go all downhill and we start hating each other ;-;
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby ♥GingerSnap♥ » Sun Sep 25, 2016 11:01 pm

Karia wrote:eek.

like everyone sitting around us think we're perfect for each other.

he doesn't like it.

it's kinda getting uncomfortable, and i've told him that he can say that he doesn't like it to them. he's even told me to just stop talking to him 2 times (but we still talk and laugh a lot) and to stop poking his arm when i want to talk to him.

should I tell him i like him? I seriously don't want it to go all downhill and we start hating each other ;-;


I've been in this situation before and I understand it may be slightly annoying where when you want to talk to him but somethings just blocking you both from doing that. Go for it, if you really like him, you should take this chance and personally tell him your true feelings and how you felt towards to him honestly. He's one of your friend after all, I'm sure he'll definitely listen to you and not hate you for telling him.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby nikiforovv. » Mon Sep 26, 2016 7:28 am

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ℓєт'ѕ ʝυѕт ѕαу ωє ∂αтє∂. нє ιѕ α gяα∂є нιgнєя тнαи мє, вυт 2 уєαяѕ σℓ∂єя тнαи мє. ι нєαя ρєσρℓє ѕαуιиg "иσ, тнαт'ѕ вα∂!" вυт ι αℓѕσ нєαя ρєσρℓє ѕαуιиg "σиℓу ιf уσυ ℓσνє єα¢нσтнєя". ωнι¢н ѕι∂є ωσυℓ∂ уσυ вє σи?

go for it. no other words.

DogLife. wrote:Well, I need some help.

A year ago I got a crush on one of my best friends, a guy, lets call him W. I am a girl btw. Anyway, me and my friend W were and are still really close, but I guess it made things awkward for a while. I asked him out, cringe, and he said no. Not to hurt my feelings, but because we were so close as friends, that it would be awkward.

So, over that year, I still had a crush on W, and we stayed as close as we had been before, something that ment lots to me. The crush faded, and now I love him like a brother, life wouldn't be the same without him! We have three other close friends, M (girl), A (girl) and J (boy). They all ship us, and we are used to it by now.

I don't have a crush on W anymore, but recently W has been looking at me in a weird way, laughing more then ever and has even hugged me, he never did that before (W is not much of a hugger). So now what do I do? According to M, A and J, W like likes me now. It might be another joke, but still. Any advice?



I swear, this happened to me for like three years. I had a crush on some dude who was my best friend and he 'tutored' me in middle school. I swear we had something but then he started to drift away and just be my distant friend instead. I overheard him talking about some girl he was going to ask out and made a fool of myself by yelling 'no' across the bus going home. He and I were both really uncomfortable about being near each other after that, so he kind of left the little squad we had with two of my other greatest guy friends.
it's still like that today. He knows I'm dating someone and he's freaky about it, he'll diss my boyfriend but he knocks it off after awhile. I think I really screwed up our friend relationship that way, but hey, not all friendships last. Anyways, yeah. I think you should trust yourself, not what others say, even though it's hard to veer away from the advice of others. I suggest doing whatever makes you most comfortable about the situation. It should play out from there.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby WastedSpace » Mon Sep 26, 2016 11:10 am

SpyroMello wrote:
WastedSpace wrote:
~Porpora wrote:whyy
I haven't told my mom that I'm dating my boyfriend (sounds weird without saying his name or something pff) because I was sure she'd ask or figure it out but she ?? hasn't said anything??? like she used to ask every single time I mentioned a boy if I liked him or whatever and now that it's an actual thing she's just
agh
I am not good at explaining these things so I can't really just tell her


Write her a note? Text her? Email her?

No. NO. NO! Seriously? Text your mom that you have a boyfriend? If your mom hasn't been asking about boys then she probably already figured it out. She's just waiting for you to tell her. Just tell her face to face. I know for teenagers it's hard, but it's best that your mom knows. Most parents won't ground you or try and break you up, they'll just want to meet the kid. It's more respectful and honorable to say it to their face than to write a note or text them though.


. . . I was always the "in person" kind of person, but my sister admitted a lot to my mom over text. There's nothing wrong with it. She's got anxiety levels through the roof and so text was always just easier for her. It's not like OP has gotten married and informing her mom that it's already done and "sorry she wasn't invited". She's just admitting she has a boyfriend, something - as I thought and you wrote - her mom probably already figured out. No need for a big freak out if she wants to text it instead of say it, lol.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby regular; » Mon Sep 26, 2016 3:26 pm

ohh no.

I've been on here a few times, but have been able to figure things out. Until now.
soo basically, I've liked this guy R for nearly 2 and a half years & he's always liked me back. (I'm a girl)
I have a close friend, T (girl), who's always tried to get him to ask me out, shipped us, told everyone we were meant to be. Pretty much just tried to make the ship come 100% true.
I didn't mind that he didn't ask me out most of the time, unless I feel like he belonged to me & was my property. Well, now, T confessed to liking him a lot since last year. Now, I seem to notice how close they've been lately, and it's making me hurt physically because I'm so jealous. Most negative emotions for me are heightened, meaning I experience bad feelings (envy, anger, sadness, etc) a lot stronger. Usually, I get this striking pain, constant nerve or the unending feel of throwing up for most feelings. For jealousy, I usually experience the stomachaches. T and R are very close now, and I'm in a different class then them. I'm trying to push it away but I feel like crying. My eyes get really watery, but I don't normally end up with tears. My best friends know, but they don't seem to understand. They care a lot, but are sort of confused with the whole ordeal.
Now, to make things even more difficult, I think I'm falling for R's cousin, C. I thought I only loved C as a best friend, but lately I'm doing things to/for him that I wouldn't for others, including R and my female friends. I gave him my sweater when we were forced to run outside in the drizzling rain even though I was freezing. I let him have my Pepsi which I was eager to have myself and I give him a lot of food out of my snacks/lunch. I don't feel anything mentally, but I'm questioning it.
Third and last thing, R is saying that one of my other guy best friends, K, likes me. Everyone shipped me and K last year, and still do. K's parents and my parents have always thought we'd make a good couple, and my mom thinks whenever I'm around K, he makes me laugh and does things unusual. I've noticed it, but never thought much of it. I used to like K, but it stopped after R confessed he liked me too.

Any advice?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby nana » Mon Sep 26, 2016 5:03 pm

I like my best friend.

I've liked them for a while but I'm so deppressed, and hurt that I'm worried to tell them.. I don't want anything to happen... I'm already extremely deppressed.. I don't want to get more deppressed from Them not talking to me anymore, I'm worried I'll fall over the edge.
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Postby storm coming. » Mon Sep 26, 2016 5:09 pm

DestielHell wrote:I like my best friend.

I've liked them for a while but I'm so deppressed, and hurt that I'm worried to tell them.. I don't want anything to happen... I'm already extremely deppressed.. I don't want to get more deppressed from Them not talking to me anymore, I'm worried I'll fall over the edge.



      i worry a lot too so i can understand. it's okay to worry sometimes c:
      i'm sure if they are your best friend that they will want to continue
      being your friend no matter what. that's what best friends are for.
      i say go ahead and tell them if you want, but don't do anything that
      you will regret. and if you think you will regret not telling them
      then go right on ahead. you aren't pressured to do anything that
      you do not want to do, follow your heart and do whatever you want.

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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby kittykore » Mon Sep 26, 2016 5:17 pm

Okay. I like this guy, he likes me. He asked me out on a date, i want to go and the more i think about it i don't think i wan't a boyfriend, advice?
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Postby storm coming. » Mon Sep 26, 2016 5:23 pm

MimiBitz wrote:
Okay. I like this guy, he likes me. He asked me out on a date, i want to go and the more i think about it i don't think i wan't a boyfriend, advice?


      maybe you just want him to be your friend and are confused about your feelings? anyways i don't think this guy deserves to go on a date with someone that he likes if they don't like him back, so i think you should tell him the truth. i'm not saying you're the bad guy or anything, not at all, i just think honesty is the best option in this situation.
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