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[legendari]

Very very stressed out right now ;n; homework and studies piling up, plus I have to still make time for violin. On top of that, I recently bombed an audition to a prestigious orchestra and I didn't make it.
Really bummed out :c

[Kazin]

Sorry I think I lost the battle..
I am pretty sure this is depression.

I almost cried four times in dance, and literally almost burst into tears at one point.
I can't even say what I've thought about myself..

Not everyone will be good at everything, and dance is one of those things that has a wide variety of aspects to it. Pointe is just one of many. There must be an area you excel in, even if its not on pointe. I had this same problem, specifically that I was not doing well at all on pointe and we all knew it, but instead of focusing too much on being bad, I practiced and instead focused on what I was good at; I could do fuete turns decently, grasped them better than the rest of the class, and I did well in tap and jazz.

Even though you are struggling with it now, there is always something else to look forward to in the world of dance! Don't focus so much on the pointe work (by that I mean thinking about it, not practicing, obviously you should still do your best in practicing it and focus on it) and think about the things you do well.

I wasn't chosen for a hip hop routine and I was devastated because I worked so hard at trying to get into it. In the end, even though it didn't work out, it made me realize maybe I should still work on my hip hop skills, but mainly try to focus on the things I found I was decent at and enjoyed, like tap and jazz.

Keep your chin up! But don't try to force yourself into things that make you feel like crap, because in the long run it won't be worth it.

[Lyren]

Well that just went worse. Fortunately the girl didn't show up but my friend (the one who promised to help) well she's been complaining. I offered a solution she said she might talk to the consular about her schedule. I said that was a good idea. She said wow you're desperate. I tried to explain I was just trying to help since she kept talking about it. I haven't got a response. (she usually responds quick) She's gonna talk to the girl tomorrow. So know I have 2 people to worry about and I have 1st period with my friend. Why do I trust people? This all ends up the same. I miss the days when I was numb. When I couldn't feel the pain. I miss those days

[❝Agateophobia❞]

hey...
i'm finally comfortable with displaying this issue publicly.
i told one of my friends that i liked girls and thought i was bi,
and the next day he decided to brag to one of my good friends
that he knew something about me that she'd didn't.
now she won't leave me alone, trying to figure out what i told him.
but she's told me that she was against lgbt rights.
just a week ago i told her that a character in our book ended up coming out as gay,
and she told me that it totally ruined the character :'c
then one time i tried to tell her i liked this girl,
but she said it was wrong and to just stay friends.
and i'm upset because she's getting angry that i won't tell her,
but i don't have the courage to lose my friend.

[Guest]

hey...
i'm finally comfortable with displaying this issue publicly.
i told one of my friends that i liked girls and thought i was bi,
and the next day he decided to brag to one of my good friends
that he knew something about me that she'd didn't.
now she won't leave me alone, trying to figure out what i told him.
but she's told me that she was against lgbt rights.
just a week ago i told her that a character in our book ended up coming out as gay,
and she told me that it totally ruined the character :'c
then one time i tried to tell her i liked this girl,
but she said it was wrong and to just stay friends.
and i'm upset because she's getting angry that i won't tell her,
but i don't have the courage to lose my friend.

I know it can be hard to lose friends. unfortunately I don't have much advice except that you need to tell her. I know it will be difficult, but if she's a true friend, she will understand and support you and still love you. I know that's what everyone says, and perhaps it will be very bad if you lose a friend, but keeping it bottled up like this won't help, it will only cause more stress and pressure. eventually if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore you can realize perhaps she never really was a true friend and it doesn't matter. I've never been in the situation myself so I don't understand completely but I can try my best to help. I hope it goes alright for you. ^^

[anathema]

hey...
i'm finally comfortable with displaying this issue publicly.
i told one of my friends that i liked girls and thought i was bi,
and the next day he decided to brag to one of my good friends
that he knew something about me that she'd didn't.
now she won't leave me alone, trying to figure out what i told him.
but she's told me that she was against lgbt rights.
just a week ago i told her that a character in our book ended up coming out as gay,
and she told me that it totally ruined the character :'c
then one time i tried to tell her i liked this girl,
but she said it was wrong and to just stay friends.
and i'm upset because she's getting angry that i won't tell her,
but i don't have the courage to lose my friend.

i'm gonna be honest with you and tell you that this girl is not a true friend if she doesn't support and accept you for who you are. if i were you, i wouldn't tell her because it seems like she's the type who'd freak out and tell everyone by the way you described her. imo, you should only come out to her if you know it's safe.

[trip ♡]

hey, if anyone has any issues or troubles at all i just want you to know you can message me.. not only am i eager to help, but i am a very lonely person and love talking to people. separation anxiety sucks. ;w;

[❝Agateophobia❞]

hey...
i'm finally comfortable with displaying this issue publicly.
i told one of my friends that i liked girls and thought i was bi,
and the next day he decided to brag to one of my good friends
that he knew something about me that she'd didn't.
now she won't leave me alone, trying to figure out what i told him.
but she's told me that she was against lgbt rights.
just a week ago i told her that a character in our book ended up coming out as gay,
and she told me that it totally ruined the character :'c
then one time i tried to tell her i liked this girl,
but she said it was wrong and to just stay friends.
and i'm upset because she's getting angry that i won't tell her,
but i don't have the courage to lose my friend.

i'm gonna be honest with you and tell you that this girl is not a true friend if she doesn't support and accept you for who you are. if i were you, i wouldn't tell her because it seems like she's the type who'd freak out and tell everyone by the way you described her. imo, you should only come out to her if you know it's safe.

okay... thank you.
it's doesn't feel safe telling her,
i'm actually terrified that she will find out.
and she tells her mum everything,
and her mum doesn't agree with these things either,
so she'll probably tell my mum.
and i don't believe that she supports lgbt rights either.
ex: one time i was at my neighbor's party,
and they were discussing how caitlyn jenner was nominated for
woman of the year. they kept saying how she wasn't a women,
and what shocked me scared was that they kept calling her 'it'
like she was less than human...

[anathema]

hey...
i'm finally comfortable with displaying this issue publicly.
i told one of my friends that i liked girls and thought i was bi,
and the next day he decided to brag to one of my good friends
that he knew something about me that she'd didn't.
now she won't leave me alone, trying to figure out what i told him.
but she's told me that she was against lgbt rights.
just a week ago i told her that a character in our book ended up coming out as gay,
and she told me that it totally ruined the character :'c
then one time i tried to tell her i liked this girl,
but she said it was wrong and to just stay friends.
and i'm upset because she's getting angry that i won't tell her,
but i don't have the courage to lose my friend.

i'm gonna be honest with you and tell you that this girl is not a true friend if she doesn't support and accept you for who you are. if i were you, i wouldn't tell her because it seems like she's the type who'd freak out and tell everyone by the way you described her. imo, you should only come out to her if you know it's safe.

okay... thank you.
it's doesn't feel safe telling her,
i'm actually terrified that she will find out.
and she tells her mum everything,
and her mum doesn't agree with these things either,
so she'll probably tell my mum.
and i don't believe that she supports lgbt rights either.
ex: one time i was at my neighbor's party,
and they were discussing how caitlyn jenner was nominated for
woman of the year. they kept saying how she wasn't a women,
and what shocked me scared was that they kept calling her 'it'
like she was less than human...

that's absolutely terrible - stay safe! if you need any more help, don't hesitate to pm me <3

[Lyren]

Well that just went worse. Fortunately the girl didn't show up but my friend (the one who promised to help) well she's been complaining. I offered a solution she said she might talk to the consular about her schedule. I said that was a good idea. She said wow you're desperate. I tried to explain I was just trying to help since she kept talking about it. I haven't got a response. (she usually responds quick) She's gonna talk to the girl tomorrow. So know I have 2 people to worry about and I have 1st period with my friend. Why do I trust people? This all ends up the same. I miss the days when I was numb. When I couldn't feel the pain. I miss those days