Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[classi]

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

So that boy texted me and kept asking who I liked and ug. So I had to go because I was fixing to ride and after I get off I look at my phone...
AND HE TOLD ME HE LIKES ME A LOT.

How in the hell do I reply? I'm thinking something like, "That's so sweet, and I really appreciate you telling me, but I just like you as a friend. (:"
But I just have no clue. Please someone tell me something to say. I've never had to text this before I'm so stressed out. I thought I scared him away yesterday apparently not. /:

[Crum]

I was recently asked to go to a movie by a guy I like but IM SO NERVOUS TO GO ALONE!!!!!
I have really bad nerves and I throw up or get sick if im too nervous
I feel more comfortable around my friends but everyone is saying its weird for me to bring one..
how do I not be so nervous?!??! I really like him I just why

[raezel]

I was recently asked to go to a movie by a guy I like but IM SO NERVOUS TO GO ALONE!!!!!
I have really bad nerves and I throw up or get sick if im too nervous
I feel more comfortable around my friends but everyone is saying its weird for me to bring one..
how do I not be so nervous?!??! I really like him I just why

first off, on the topic of bringing a friend: if it will make you feel better and less of a nervous wreck, it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks is "weird", just do it!! trust me, things will be much more enjoyable if you dont have as much anxiety nagging you down while youre at the movies. while it may be strange to have a third person there, thats surely better than having a panic attack from being so darn nervous. just take some deep breaths and relax. youre just going to be there for an hour or so, hanging out with a guy you like to spend time with, so whats the worst that can happen? when it happens, just remember to ease your nerves and let everything just happens as it happens. youll have much more fun if you dont dwell on nerves and whatever anxiety you may be getting over this
thats just my advice, but regardless, i wish you the best of luck!! uwu

[Dia.]

I was recently asked to go to a movie by a guy I like but IM SO NERVOUS TO GO ALONE!!!!!
I have really bad nerves and I throw up or get sick if im too nervous
I feel more comfortable around my friends but everyone is saying its weird for me to bring one..
how do I not be so nervous?!??! I really like him I just why

Double date?
Do you have a friend who is in a relationship who would want to hang around? This way, there isn't an awkward third wheel.

[Crum]

I was recently asked to go to a movie by a guy I like but IM SO NERVOUS TO GO ALONE!!!!!
I have really bad nerves and I throw up or get sick if im too nervous
I feel more comfortable around my friends but everyone is saying its weird for me to bring one..
how do I not be so nervous?!??! I really like him I just why

Double date?
Do you have a friend who is in a relationship who would want to hang around? This way, there isn't an awkward third wheel.

XP I dont actually, which is why it sucks lol

and @jänis she doesnt want to go any more anyway, so i kind of have to go alone XD

Im starting to feel a little better about it but still like i cant stop thinking of all the things i could do wrong lol ive never gone out alone before only with other people

[vanilla kitten]

is it possible for heartbreak to come back..?

like, yeah, i know for a fact i'm not and i wasn't over him. but all of sudden, i saw a picture of him in my newsfeed. and a hole that's been in my chest (and was previously patched up) has come back and i just don't understand how. everything hurts.

does this normally happen?

[Delah]

Does anyone else get mean when they're away from their significant other for a while? My boyfriend has been in basic training for three weeks and I find myself alternating between sad useless lump and angry she-beast.
I think not having him around makes me a terrible person XD
Even one of my co-workers said something to me today like I'm really moody or something.
Girlfriend, you'd be moody too if your better half was ten hours away with no contact! I can finally understand that better half term because it's like all of my empathy and humor and sanity hopped on that freakin plane with him.
My default response had pretty much been 'Screw you, that's why/what/how'
Except I don't say screw you....
And I have five weeks to go.
Will probably destroy the city by then.
Oh well, they deserve it for being in the general 10 mile radius of me.

[five.six.seven]

Well, there is a boy in my class that I like, and he is really kind, funny, smart, fast...he excels in almost every class. We've been friends for a few years, and only recently have I felt like he is more than a friend to me. Only one of my 3 best friends, other than my crush, knows. One of them because I don't think she'd be too interested and the other because we just became friends this year, and I'm not sure how she'd react, though I'll tell them both eventually. Anyways, I'm not sure how he feels about me, and since we all go our different ways next year, I'm not sure what to do. I'm way to shy to ask him out, and I truely just want him to know how I feel. I don't have the guts to tell him, though I'm considering asking my only friend who knows if they can say something like "Y'know, I think _______ may have a crush on you" and get them to say how he reacts. He may just mask his emotions, and may try to be awkward IF he does like me. If not, It really will be awkward for him . Is it worth a try, or is it too risky? I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I really like him. Any ideas?

[Dia.]

Does anyone else get mean when they're away from their significant other for a while? My boyfriend has been in basic training for three weeks and I find myself alternating between sad useless lump and angry she-beast.
I think not having him around makes me a terrible person XD
Even one of my co-workers said something to me today like I'm really moody or something.
Girlfriend, you'd be moody too if your better half was ten hours away with no contact! I can finally understand that better half term because it's like all of my empathy and humor and sanity hopped on that freakin plane with him.
My default response had pretty much been 'Screw you, that's why/what/how'
Except I don't say screw you....
And I have five weeks to go.
Will probably destroy the city by then.
Oh well, they deserve it for being in the general 10 mile radius of me.

I do. xD
Even if he's in a poor mood and I can't help him feel better I get pretty sour as well.
Or if we haven't been able to hang out for a few weeks alone even if we see each other at school everyday.
Or if one of us goes away on a trip.
I get really moody and irritable and I don't want to talk to anyone since he's the only one I want to talk to. >.<
And then it doesn't help that my friends say something like, "Oh poor you, he's away for three days. You actually have to talk to us." or "Yay, we finally get to talk to the real you!" (when realistically it's really not the real me xD)

[Anuran]

is it possible for heartbreak to come back..?

like, yeah, i know for a fact i'm not and i wasn't over him. but all of sudden, i saw a picture of him in my newsfeed. and a hole that's been in my chest (and was previously patched up) has come back and i just don't understand how. everything hurts.

does this normally happen?

I get what you mean. I dumped my boyfriend of two years back last December because of pretty bad reasons, and felt I was over him. I had good friends and other, better guys I could be with, not to mention the fact I lived in Hawaii at the time, and he on the East Coast. Then, just last week, I was trying to find something on Youtube and came across a video my friend posted of him singing and playing Piano. Hearing his voice for the first time since December was like murder, hah. The only thing you can do is persevere. Distract yourself, keep yourself busy. For me, photography and art and running keeps my mind from him, and moving on to other guys helps too, though I don't mean this by throwing yourself at just any guy, haha. Anywho, point being, stuff like that is completely okay, as long as you strive through it with your head high.

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So today, at pep rally, I was sitting with my group of friends and talking and what not. The guy I like (we'll call him Blondie) is vars. on the football team and had to sit a few columns down with the rest of the team. The teacher narrating the rally started going on about homecoming here in two weeks, and says, 'I hope ya'll be askin' that special someone? Yeah, guys?" And at this, one of my friends screams, "YEAH BLONDIE, MAN UP AND ASK HER."
For the whole school.
Oh dear.
Anywho, I'm so irked. I really don't wanna ask him, but I really wish he'd ask me out like, now. I don't wanna ask him, but he hasn't done it and I don't wanna wait forever - there's this super cute senior in my eighth period that I wouldn't mind hangin' with, if you know what I mean. Haha. Anywho, yeah. I wish Blondie would ask me. :C I know he likes me, he's always flirting super hardcore when we're together and gets super possessive over me. He won't let anyone touch me when he's with me, and I kinda like that, haha. c: He's always calling me 'his cutie' and all that gushy chizz, and kissing the top of my head and giving me long hugs in between classes. Heck, I can still smell his cologne on my sweater, lol. So, why doesn't he pop the question? It's so irritating. Everyone thinks we're already going out that's seen the way we act together - only thing is, being around him ties up my tongue and makes me blush like a little cherry. I hate it, baha, but I love being around him. x3 Hraghdbfjbfjewbfjwnsf.

Anyways.

Hopefully we'll chill this weekend. Last weekend, he wanted me to come over and watch scary movies and cuddle with him, but I had already made plans with my friend to go see the magician movie, lol. ;c Watch, I'm gonna make no plans this weekend, and he'll be busy as anything, lol.
<3,
Mwah.