*~.Imagination.~* wrote:The American Association of University Women has found that college students still “view science and math as male fields and humanities and art as female.” And that girls have more positive feelings about reading than boys do.
Well, right, but what I was saying before, a lot of that can be attributed to gender stereotyping and segregation, which we've inevitably grown up with probably the majority of our lives, from the not-so-subtle(when you go to the toy store, and the entire toy section is divided up by "girls toys" and "boys toys") to the extremely subtle(seeing males and females portrayed or working in particular professions either in real life or in media).
And as for the media, even when they put female characters into positions that are considered "masculine" or "a man's profession", they're stereotyped in a certain way, like in crime shows where there's a woman investigor, a lot of the women usually have skirts(extra point dedaction if they're short!) and primped up lots of make-up. Being someone who has family and family-friends in Law, I can tell you that real women who are detectives and the like don't dress at all like how the media portrays them, a lot of them dress and act even more masculine than the men in the force do, which includes pants, not skirts(skirts really aren't practical for their line of work, anyhow!)
I know quite a number of other guys(and myself) who are very in-to the arts or the things that are stereotyped as being "girl things"(and are not gay, closet or otherwise!) who usually just don't pursue it because of things like having pressures from their family(usually fathers) to do "more manly things", or because society imposes a belief that "Men only do certain things, and women do others".
Again, a large part of it is gender-stereotyping and segregation that society imposes and expects, and if people stray from that and try to do what they want outside-the-box, they're treated as an "outlier" or even bullied and put down, like if a guy likes things that "only girls are supposed to like", instead of simply
liking what they like, they're labeled "gay". And such. And these societal expectations of "How guys should think and feel" and "How girls should think and feel" are reinforced by both genders throughout society, constantly pressuring people to be a certain way.
There was actually a story I saw the other day(someone's Tumblr) about how a little boy wanted to get a drawing pad, but his father refused to buy it, saying "Art is a girl's thing" and making the boy cry, so the checker gave it to the boy for free, and then when she walked outside later, found the drawing pad ripped up and scattered across the sidewalk just outside and abandoned(by the father), just to use one example. Another I read on another site was how a bunch of students in a summer camp drama club, boys and girls, did make-up and threw glitter all over each other, and one boy's father got furious, wiping off the glitter and make-up and basically saying "It's not a proper boys thing", completely ignoring that his son had been having a blast before.
To use two other(strikingly similar) examples, when I was a young kid, one girl in my neighborhood liked to play with some of the transformer-type stuff I used to have, and at one point she said her mother wouldn't let her get any herself because "those were boy's toys, she should be playing with girls stuff like Barbies!". Another girl had her mother get her stuff no matter what "section" it was in, but the mother told me about how she had been told by the cashier she couldn't buy some of the stuff she got one day because "Girls won't like that kind of toy, you have to get something for a girl!" and she had to request a manager before she was allowed to buy it for her kid.
And things like that aren't a rarity.
Over time, those kinds of experiences
would affect how male and female brains develop to think and do things differently than their opposite gender, is what I was saying.