♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[skunkiii]

So.. It's been a few days since I've last heard from my boyfriend. He works, but doesn't take like 10 seconds to tell me that he's working or will be busy. It's really upsetting to me and I get really worried if I don't know what's happening. Like I'm so worried he is out with some other girl..

[Star Flight]

don't know if posting w/o asking for advice is allowed but
yesterday my boyfriend and i celebrated our three years together and i'm honestly speechless. i can't believe i spent that long with who i consider to be the love of my life. through all the ups and downs we've made it work this long and i can't believe it.

best part is, i'm aiming to meet up with him this october. it's finally happening since i have a working income now and all the puzzle pieces are falling into place. everyday i fall more and more in love with him, even on the worst of days. the idea of within a few months being able to finally be held and touched by my best friend really, really gives me butterflies. <3

That's Awesome! Congratulations on the three year anniversary! That truly is amazing and I send hope that there are many more to come!
(And side note, it's good to hear about things like this, so thanks for posting!)
I hope that when you next meet up it will go very well! Congrats again!

[critter]

I like my bestfriend, I want to ask him out, but I dont want to ruin our relationship?
Should I go for it?

[Star Flight]

Well, if you truly feel an attraction or romantic feelings for him, tell him exactly what you said here. If he's truly a best friend he will understand and be willing to hear you out!
However I have say it. Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best. It will be his answer no matter what, and if you are friends you will work through it if it is a no!
Tell him that you have feelings possibly beyond friendship for him, but you were nervous to ask about it because you didn't want to ruin your friendship, and talk through it with him. Good luck overall and if anyone has a second opinion it would be good to hear other opinions!

[Bunny!!]

I like my bestfriend, I want to ask him out, but I dont want to ruin our relationship?
Should I go for it?

Honestly, I had this problem before. It didn't end well but it was because if the way he treated me. At the time I wasn't 'allowed' to date, and he would make me do stuff for him, if I didn't do it he would say 'If you don't I will tell your parents. ' and I can't believe he has been my friend for so long, my whole life. But he is one of those guys who just wants to date the prettiest girl. The only reason we broke up is because I told my friend we where dating, and he got mad because he planned to cheat on me with her. So, what I'm trying to say is it depends on the guy, and I want to add that when you start dating you may learn stuff about each other you didn't know. Honestly, I say go for it, but be cautious. :3 hope this helped.

[ghostcraft33]

So.. It's been a few days since I've last heard from my boyfriend. He works, but doesn't take like 10 seconds to tell me that he's working or will be busy. It's really upsetting to me and I get really worried if I don't know what's happening. Like I'm so worried he is out with some other girl..

If you feel this way, I think you should talk to him about it, preferably in person or over Facetime, hopefully this helps! Good luck :3

[killua.]

so, i am in quite the predicament.

i have a boyfriend at the moment. we have almost been dating for a month
BUT
there is this girl that i have been having a crush on for awhile. i really like her and she just told me she likes me.
i don't know what to do... should i go for her and break up with him, or should i stay with him?
i don't know who i like more, either...

[/////]

so, i am in quite the predicament.

i have a boyfriend at the moment. we have almost been dating for a month
BUT
there is this girl that i have been having a crush on for awhile. i really like her and she just told me she likes me.
i don't know what to do... should i go for her and break up with him, or should i stay with him?
i don't know who i like more, either...

Umm..

Let your heart decide. (:

Well.. it's kinda hard but you think first about them and then decide who you want ^^

[arabella !!]

so, i am in quite the predicament.

i have a boyfriend at the moment. we have almost been dating for a month
BUT
there is this girl that i have been having a crush on for awhile. i really like her and she just told me she likes me.
i don't know what to do... should i go for her and break up with him, or should i stay with him?
i don't know who i like more, either...

Honestly we all get unexplained feeling for people, even if you're in a relationship. If you truly love your boyfriend, but like someone else, then there is something definitely wrong. Don't be afraid to take risks and like what leopardess 12 mentioned, follow your heart. If you choose to go with the girl, your boyfriend deserves to know. But you might regret everything later, so why don't you wait it out a bit before stressing yourself out.

[Youngalita]

so, i am in quite the predicament.

i have a boyfriend at the moment. we have almost been dating for a month
BUT
there is this girl that i have been having a crush on for awhile. i really like her and she just told me she likes me.
i don't know what to do... should i go for her and break up with him, or should i stay with him?
i don't know who i like more, either...

This may help you with your problem. I actually do this method when I'm making a hard decision. When I have to chose between something I see which one I think about the most. In this case you have to chose between 2 people. Just ask yourself which one do you think more about?