Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[WalkerNom]

Well... I need to watch my language.
So my stepsister is graduating from college on Saturday. I thought I would invite Glasses to the party to help us out and have fun.
Turns out one of Glasses's sisters is graduating the same day.
I feel like such an idiot. He told me that his sister was graduating this year, I know most colleges graduate around the same time, I should have known that his sister would be graduating that day! And besides that, I was told by Glasses's mother that Saturdays are their days for working on their big yard and big house and taking care of their many animals. And there I was, trying to get him to go out, on a Saturday. I didn't mean for it to look like I was trying to take him away from his family, but now that's exactly what it looks like.
He claims he isn't angry, but he sure looked it.
Just thought I'd ask if anyone here has any words of wisdom for me. :C

Don't feel bad! We all make mistakes.
If Glasses seemed mad, just be sure that he knows you really didn't mean to upset him. Honestly, it's not that big of a deal.
You were just trying to hang out with him. Perhaps next time you talk to him, say sorry (perhaps for a second time) and make
plans to hang out another day to make up for it. I'm sure he'd be more then happy to forgive you.

I'm not so sure. We're having an awful disagreement about it. He wants me to visit on Friday, but his family has a lot of preparing to do for Saturday. If I visited after school, I would be the useless obstacle that I usually am. I don't want to get in the way and I definitely don't want to intrude on his family's time together.
I want what's best for him, and that would be helping his family, not wasting time with me. But I also know that I should do what he wants, and I would love to spend time with him.
I just can't decide what would make me feel worse: Visiting and being a trespasser, or not visiting and upsetting him.

Hmm, can't you help his family "prepare" for Saturday? If you can't do that, maybe you and Glasses could go to your house or you can go somewhere else to hang out? I know it is good for him to help/be with his family, but it's also good to get out and be with your friends. Maybe for this one time you could take him away from his family? The best time would probably be Friday after school. At least that way, he can be there to help his family take care of the yard/house.

And if your reading this thinking, "Gosh, Hipster is an idiot..." Maybe you could wait until one night next week to hang out with him after school? You know, a day when you both aren't busy? Anyways, I know that when I visit a friend and their parents/family are doing something, I feel like I am a useless stranger. Perhaps if you are like me in personality, you'd just wait until next week.

Today was... a bit bumpy. In every relationship, there are fights and arguments.

Not trying to argue with you or anything, but this first sentence made me think about me and B. [Of course it did, what doesn't make me think about B??] We've been together for 6 months and have never [*knocks on wood*] had a fight. I mean, there was a point where I was off in my own little world and didn't talk to him much that made us both very unhappy...but we didn't fight about it. We simply told each other what we didn't like and we did our best to improve it. And it went very well!

Honestly, I don't think I could ever be mad at him. Never truely upset at him anyway. I think I'd always forgive him right away. It's funny, today I thought, Wow, I apologize to him A LOT! I do. I am always saying sorry for the stupidest things. The fact is, he's the only person I've ever met that I've never had a fight with and that amazes me. I'm usually the type of person to state the problems I have with someone, but never him. It's like he's my only weakness, hahaha!

[KimSueKimmy]

Ok someone tell me if this is a sign.

What does it mean when one of your crushes stairs at you for bout 2 mins and then looks away and then at random times just looks at you and then looks away? Im kinda freaking out here, PLEASE HELP!!!!

[~IronRose~]

This happens alot, what I would tell you would to just be cool and go along with it. Also you may try to hold his gaze, if he looks away he probaly has a crush on you.

[KimSueKimmy]

This happens alot, what I would tell you would to just be cool and go along with it. Also you may try to hold his gaze, if he looks away he probaly has a crush on you.

Ok well we did kinda hold a gaze. But then he looked away and I just kinda melted. LOL!!! anyway. I gave him complements on his acting (Because of our school musical. He plays Lumiere) and his voice. But other than that we havent spoken to each other.

[Acidic]

dat moment when your crush is talking to another girl and you feel like a murderer :/

anyway, me and J had an actual conversation today instead of the usual, awkward 'hi.' !!
me: So, are you walking home tonight??
J (oh gorgeous one x3): I've got detention (xD he said it in a funny way)
me: oh, dang it! Who with?
J: Mrs. Selby she ga-
me: Oh, you told me this, she gave you detention for not knowing what to do? haha.
J: Yes. xD
me: Well, are you walking home tomorrow?
J: I think so.
me: 'Cause we haven't walked home in ages, i thought we really should soon..
J: *nods*
me: If i ask you again tomorrow and you say you can't, i will get really annoyed! (joking)
J: *grins*
me: Bye!
J: See ya'!

omg yay. we are walking home tomorrow :'D finally.
if you think of the possibilities (negative and positive {well, i can only think of positive xD}) he might be trying to build up the courage to ask me out !! haha, i doubt it though. i had to roll up my sleeves to my blazer aswell (to make me look more attractive), and it was like -5 degrees out there- so when he went, *rolls down sleeves* ah, warmth, it feels goooood

[VanVia]

I like this guy and we have known each other since we where little are dads are like best friends but he doesnt go to my school I only see him once a month or not even and he acts like he likes me its really hard to tell! He said he liked someone else and I think i might cry because I have like no chance to be with him because whoever he is she must be super pretty because he so cute

[bugiscool]

When a guy pinches/squeezes your waste or play fight with you or all of the above does that mean he likes you?

Lol, oh yeah. That's adorable. xD

But yes, when a guy likes you he will play fight with you. A lot. :3

Cool. Okay so this is going to look simarlar to fireworks thing with the pros and con about the guy I like and I think he likes me as well.

A= crush
C= friends/ random people.

Pros on A:
•nice
•sweet
•funny
• know I exist (but sometimes A acts like I don't exist. )
• pinches my waist ( well before he sprained his arm now all that play fighting is over till his arm is healed.)
•same grade level as me

Cons about A:
• sometimes he's a jerk face
• goes a bit far on the rough housing (only once where he almost pushed me over)
• not in any of my classes. ( he has a most the axact same classes as me but at different times )






Okay so here are some clues that I got that made me think that A likes me.

So C (friend) had a b day party at a beach. You would think it would be all girls. But C invited two guys. One showed up and the other didn't. The one that showed up was A. Seeing that he kinda didn't know me I was the first person he talked to. When we wantedto go in the water I took off at a sprint towards the sea. I turn around to see all my Friends were slowly walking in the water as they claimed it to be cold. But here I am thinking I'm the only one about to dive in when I look over to see A right beside me. Like he never moved from my side since we stopped talking. We both dived in a splashed very one of my friend. *lol* when I surfaced A was still next to me. At first I was a bit creeped out then I kinda liked having him around. So after we slashed every one we laughed so hard in the water that we didn't see that our friends were about to have their revenge. So padre fly one of my taller friends that were at the party swam behind A and me and totally duncked us under water while we were still laughing. I swam a bit away to prevent getting duncked again and when I resurfaced out of the water A was still next to me. He laughed at me when I couldn't touch the bottom of the ocean floor when he could. So he took the opertunity to dunk me. When I resurfaced again I got this bright idea that I could dunck a guy that was standing flat foot with his head above the water. When I tried he grabbed my arm and somewhat flipped me into the water. (I can never win) then this time when I resurfaced he was gone. Then I saw him about to dunk me so a swam to shore as fast as I could and he was still following me. When we made it made to dry land we played sort of a tag game with just the two of us. My friends didn't care that I was hanging out A more then them because they were more interested in sunning them selfs then actually getting extrsize. So when it was lunch time me and him ate together. Strangely no one joined us do after A was done eating he went over to all the girls (friends) and they all said "uuuuuhhhhh!" like in a strange creepy way. You know when you tell your Besty you have a crush on this guy or girl and every time you pass them in the hall they make this weird sound. Well yay that's what they did. A looked so clueless it wasn't even funny. When I walked over they made the exact same sound except I knew what it ment. So of course A stared at me blankly as if to say that he was totally lost. Then when the party was over all my friend went up to A and asked him if he liked me. Of course I had no idea about it so now I was clueless. He said he didn't like me but he said it in a lieing tone and his face was cherry red. Ever since that party me and him are buds but somewhere deep down I think we both have feelings for each other but I maybe wrong. So do you think I should wait to. Be asked out or ask him out. Myself. He has my number but I don't have his. Oh and also I hope that A will txt me but I give him some slack since he does of course have a sprained arm.

[VanVia]

The guy I like plays fight with me to like one time my sister said I can beat you up to him and he was like nah you cant but trust me she can O_O and yeah then she was like how about you fight him i was like no no im good but anyways he took me down we where so close to kissing xD

[arcticwolf]

Since the guy I may or may not be falling for goes to church with one of my friends (we've been friends since preschool, I believe), I think it would be nice to start going. My parents and I went to church when I was younger, but I caused chaos and we kinda got kicked out (lmao), so we never went back. My mom would like to start again, but my dad doesn't so it would be a good oppurtunity for me to spend time with my friend who I very rarely see out of school, see Michael, and have the experience of church.

Problem is, the guy knows I like him (thank you so much, friends. Love you too). I don't think he even knows my last name, and I just found out his the other day. I had never seen him before this year, and never even spoke a word to him until last week. He's given me high fives (he's the kind of guy who gives out free hugs); once when we passed each other in the hall. :'3 Err, sorry; Didn't mean to ramble. To get to the point, I'm afraid I'll seem like a stalker/creepy girl if I start going to church out of the blue because I sort of like him, when I barely know him. (Does that make sense?)

I don't know if he's allowed to date. His parents work at a Christian school so they may be strict on such things(not stereotyping, I'm Christian myself), and he's a grade younger than me. Yet he absolutely dwarfs me in height. He's got to be almost, if not, 6 foot tall while I'm 4'9". xD

(As a side note, yesterday I found out he's 5'11". Geez xD)

We're going out now, as of yesterday! I went to church with my best friends and he of course was there. He asked me out :'3

[Pangali]

I need some help.

What do you do if your at school and you fancy a guy who's seven years older than you who. Works at your school(but not a teacher) . And he's everything you look for in a person and more. (Don't take this wrong he'd never like me ever or do anything, weird)

Help?