Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[JamBlack]

Got to see Badger for the last time for 3 weeks today :'( We went to our friends house and just chilled. Then we all watched a film (well, most of a film) Me and Badger were all cosy on one sofa, our friend 'E' was practically asleep on the other. I was wearing Badgers cap becuase its freakin awesome and I think he likes it when I wear it

Anyways, we were all cosy, he had his arm wrapped around me. Then he took of the hat from my head. I looked at him and he held eye contact with me. Then he leaned in and kissed me :'D

But now I dont get to see him. For 3 weeks. Gonna be torture ;><;

[okamishiranu]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

Ask her exactly what freaks her out about him, and get a straight answer. If it's something that should concern you, talk to him about it, and same thing, get a straight answer. And, like Angel said, it could just be because she's jealous. It's good to have others opinions, but don't let them dictate your relationships.

DQ: Oh heck, a long time. With one of my previous crushes, Ryan, I'd go almost a year without talking to him. With Michael, well, there was from the time we were in piano together until the time he joined swimming, but that's completely irrelevant, I didn't like him until about a year after he joined swimming. But, I pretty much go from the start of August until May every year not seeing him. To be exact, from when swimming ended last year on the August long weekend until it started this May, I saw him once at the pizza/awards thingermerbobber we do every year a week later, then I saw him at the Disco Ford grand opening sometime in early September/late August (where we played bloody knuckles for hours), and then briefly at a hockey game sometime in the winter. So, pretty much, a long time.

@Cali: If it's just physical attraction to looks, don't fret too much about it. Michael's cousin is uber-hot, he was at Nipawin with them today, and me and my best friend Avery basically spent the whole day drooling over him (until Avery found out he was a freshman, she has a no-dating-freshmen rule). And I can't count the times Avery's it on my cousins. It's just looks, nothing deeper than that. It's all good.

i tried to get her to tell me what exactly freaked her out about him and she said "i dont know, he just does." those were her exact words. i had thought that she could be jelous but i just forgot about it because no one is ever jelous of me it seems like. well no one that i know of....

[okamishiranu]

Got to see Badger for the last time for 3 weeks today :'( We went to our friends house and just chilled. Then we all watched a film (well, most of a film) Me and Badger were all cosy on one sofa, our friend 'E' was practically asleep on the other. I was wearing Badgers cap becuase its freakin awesome and I think he likes it when I wear it

Anyways, we were all cosy, he had his arm wrapped around me. Then he took of the hat from my head. I looked at him and he held eye contact with me. Then he leaned in and kissed me :'D

But now I dont get to see him. For 3 weeks. Gonna be torture ;><;

omg AWESOME! <33333333333333

and awws three weeks!

[JamBlack]

Got to see Badger for the last time for 3 weeks today :'( We went to our friends house and just chilled. Then we all watched a film (well, most of a film) Me and Badger were all cosy on one sofa, our friend 'E' was practically asleep on the other. I was wearing Badgers cap becuase its freakin awesome and I think he likes it when I wear it

Anyways, we were all cosy, he had his arm wrapped around me. Then he took of the hat from my head. I looked at him and he held eye contact with me. Then he leaned in and kissed me :'D

But now I dont get to see him. For 3 weeks. Gonna be torture ;><;

omg AWESOME! <33333333333333

and awws three weeks!

I know, Im gonna cry. Since the first time I met him I don't even think I've gone three weeks without seeing him Im texting him every day and he got a new sim card so can text me without running out of credit on the first day xD But hes freaking out because the sim card hasnt come yet and he leaves tuesday <3

[Julia]

I wish I had a crush, just that I can really start dreaming of someone who's not Tom Felton. xD

[spaceferrari]

Daily Question (Saturday, July 23rd)
What's the longest you've gone without talking to your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

Eh... I really try not to go long without contacting Glasses somehow. ^^; Since we traded phone numbers, I think the longest I'd gone without speaking to him in some way (In person, over the phone or by email) is maybe five or six days when I was in the Carolinas with my sister. Lately though he's been emailing me when he wakes up to say good morning, since he basically lives in his home office; it's the room with the air conditioner. X3 It makes my day just to see "Just saying hello and good morning as usual" in my inbox.

I had the best night ever with him on Friday when we went to the carnival. I blew $10 on a game where you try and knock down three cups with a wiffle ball shooter. I missed the first shot by a mile which made me feel pretty lousy, so I gave Glasses the second shot and he ended up getting the top cup on one stack and ricocheting the ball to knock two more cups over on another table. XD I picked out an alligator and told him he could have it since he won it, but he wanted me to keep it. I named him Charles. Later when we were done with the games and food and just relaxing for the rest of the night, we hung out by the stage listening to our favorite local singer (Dean Crawford and the Dunn's River Band, look him up!), and he put his arm around me for the love songs and didn't mind my dancing to the others. X3 I didn't get to kiss him on the ferris wheel like I'd hoped, but it was still a really great night.

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[JamBlack]

Daily Question (Saturday, July 23rd)
What's the longest you've gone without talking to your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

Eh... I really try not to go long without contacting Glasses somehow. ^^; Since we traded phone numbers, I think the longest I'd gone without speaking to him in some way (In person, over the phone or by email) is maybe five or six days when I was in the Carolinas with my sister. Lately though he's been emailing me when he wakes up to say good morning, since he basically lives in his home office; it's the room with the air conditioner. X3 It makes my day just to see "Just saying hello and good morning as usual" in my inbox.

I had the best night ever with him on Friday when we went to the carnival. I blew $10 on a game where you try and knock down three cups with a wiffle ball shooter. I missed the first shot by a mile which made me feel pretty lousy, so I gave Glasses the second shot and he ended up getting the top cup on one stack and ricocheting the ball to knock two more cups over on another table. XD I picked out an alligator and told him he could have it since he won it, but he wanted me to keep it. I named him Charles. Later when we were done with the games and food and just relaxing for the rest of the night, we hung out by the stage listening to our favorite local singer (Dean Crawford and the Dunn's River Band, look him up!), and he put his arm around me for the love songs and didn't mind my dancing to the others. X3 I didn't get to kiss him on the ferris wheel like I'd hoped, but it was still a really great night.

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Aww thats sounds so cute :3 Shame about the ferris wheel but sounds like you had a great time!

[spaceferrari]

Aww thats sounds so cute :3 Shame about the ferris wheel but sounds like you had a great time!

Thanks, I had a blast. ^^ We're going out to see Cowboys & Aliens when it comes out Friday (or possibly Saturday), but we might go up my stepdad's house to swim during the week too.

Anyway, good luck with your man, I'm sure he'll miss you while he's away. Hopefully you can stay in touch with the texts; but trust me, besides seeing someone in person, nothing beats a good old fashioned phone call.

[Pangali]

I have a crush on this amazing boy but we haven't spoken properly in years, we talked on msn but he blocked coz my friend hacked my acount and he thought it was me and we haven't spoken since. This person who was my best friend at the time went all physco on me and started chasing everywhere and stalking him so he hates me. But he so cute his eyes are realy deep and dreamy.

He's going it with a girl from his school(he goes to a mixed school- I go to an all girl school) and it realy gets me mad seeing him with her, but saying that he's devoted to her and they certainly seem to be in love. We used to go to the same junior scho so I know him quite well be I realy miss him. I can't talk to him because I get all nervous and start spewing out utter twaddle(laughs)
Seriously!

Has anyone got any idea how I can start a conversation with him considering we haven't spoken in so long? And how can I tell him I realy want to be his friend(I don't mean girlfriend as id hate to break the two of them up)??
Thanks.

Well, you might want to consider meeting him in person, or purposly accident. it means you pretand its an accident, but its really not.

thanks i will try

[JamBlack]

Aww thats sounds so cute :3 Shame about the ferris wheel but sounds like you had a great time!

Thanks, I had a blast. ^^ We're going out to see Cowboys & Aliens when it comes out Friday (or possibly Saturday), but we might go up my stepdad's house to swim during the week too.

Anyway, good luck with your man, I'm sure he'll miss you while he's away. Hopefully you can stay in touch with the texts; but trust me, besides seeing someone in person, nothing beats a good old fashioned phone call.

Phone calls are too expensive otherwise I'd call him everyday xD I think Badger wants to go see Cowboys and Aliens and so do a few of our friends so we'll probably end up going all together

Have fun cinemaring and swimming ^^