Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[meerkatgirl]

Daily Question (Saturday, July 23rd)
What's the longest you've gone without talking to your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

I think it will be exactly three months since I saw D last. I don't like him anymore, though. I haven't seen C in 29 days, though, and he's the guy I currently like. I still don't know if I even liked NG, but I haven't seen him in 29 days either. I still have 39 more days until I see C next. I really miss him...

[okamishiranu]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

[~*Angel*~]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

Ok, if she's your friend she would support you and get to know the guy first BEFORE saying she doesn't like him. The reason she says she doesn't like him is because she's jealous:
1. because you have a boyfriend and she doesn't.
2. because this means she'll have to share you. Meaning you guys can't always have sleepovers all the time because you'll have dates with B. This is ok though, that is what makes a healthy relationship and she needs to get used to that and stop being selfish.

[CaliDutchess]

Uh oh... I'm attracted to my cousin's step-brother. My cousin is a guy and close with his step-brother, who I'll call S. I've never met S in person, but I've seen him in pictures with my cousin. This isn't good... *Smacks self in head*

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

Ask her exactly what freaks her out about him, and get a straight answer. If it's something that should concern you, talk to him about it, and same thing, get a straight answer. And, like Angel said, it could just be because she's jealous. It's good to have others opinions, but don't let them dictate your relationships.

DQ: Oh heck, a long time. With one of my previous crushes, Ryan, I'd go almost a year without talking to him. With Michael, well, there was from the time we were in piano together until the time he joined swimming, but that's completely irrelevant, I didn't like him until about a year after he joined swimming. But, I pretty much go from the start of August until May every year not seeing him. To be exact, from when swimming ended last year on the August long weekend until it started this May, I saw him once at the pizza/awards thingermerbobber we do every year a week later, then I saw him at the Disco Ford grand opening sometime in early September/late August (where we played bloody knuckles for hours), and then briefly at a hockey game sometime in the winter. So, pretty much, a long time.

@Cali: If it's just physical attraction to looks, don't fret too much about it. Michael's cousin is uber-hot, he was at Nipawin with them today, and me and my best friend Avery basically spent the whole day drooling over him (until Avery found out he was a freshman, she has a no-dating-freshmen rule). And I can't count the times Avery's it on my cousins. It's just looks, nothing deeper than that. It's all good.

[icarusAbstracted]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

Ok, if she's your friend she would support you and get to know the guy first BEFORE saying she doesn't like him. The reason she says she doesn't like him is because she's jealous:
1. because you have a boyfriend and she doesn't.
2. because this means she'll have to share you. Meaning you guys can't always have sleepovers all the time because you'll have dates with B. This is ok though, that is what makes a healthy relationship and she needs to get used to that and stop being selfish.

May I also point out, that it might not be jealousy? Your friend could be getting a bad 'vibe' from him. Or he could have said something to her. Love is blind. You could be missing things he is doing, things that aren't that great. Your friend is most likely trying to protect you.

[xXFoxfaceToastXx]

I agree with Ananda Regalia, it's not just simple if your bff doesn't like your boyfriend then she's jealous. There's always different sides to situations and not just two sides like a coin.

[Midnight_Shadow18450]

Had such an awesome day with my boyfriend yesturday <3

[okamishiranu]

I REALY NEED YOUR HELP. i have a realy good friend (lets call her rawr) and rawr doesnt like my boyfriend (lets cal him b) and b doesnt know why she doesnt like him. rawr doesnt have a boyfriend. but rawr said the reason she doesnt like b is because he freaks her out or something, but i dont think that he said anything to freak her out or offend her in any way. because as far as i know he has only talked to her a few times... i REALY need your help because i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to tell b when he ask why rawr doesnt liek him (like him as a friend of course). and i know that this is hurting him AND me. and i cant just stop being Rawr's friend, and its not because she will spread bad rumors about me or anything, its because she was my friend befor he was my b and i dont want Rawr mad at me or upset at all. PLEASE REPLY

Ok, if she's your friend she would support you and get to know the guy first BEFORE saying she doesn't like him. The reason she says she doesn't like him is because she's jealous:
1. because you have a boyfriend and she doesn't.
2. because this means she'll have to share you. Meaning you guys can't always have sleepovers all the time because you'll have dates with B. This is ok though, that is what makes a healthy relationship and she needs to get used to that and stop being selfish.

May I also point out, that it might not be jealousy? Your friend could be getting a bad 'vibe' from him. Or he could have said something to her. Love is blind. You could be missing things he is doing, things that aren't that great. Your friend is most likely trying to protect you.

yes i know she could be trying to protect me, but she is the type to get a bit jelous though. the only thing i could point out about this is that it might make her think different of because of him being older then me. not just 1 or 2 years its a rather big age difference, but dont get me wrong he isnt like 10 years older or something. and me and him are a realy good matched couple. and he doesnt freak out the rest of my friends at all. she is the only one who has said she didnt favor him. and i will admit since i got a boyfriend rawr and me havent been together that much...

by the way thank you all so much for helping me as much as you all have this means a lot more then you would think to me.

[okamishiranu]

Had such an awesome day with my boyfriend yesturday <3

im glad you had fun and i hope you have just as an awesome time with him today