| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

I-I'm scared. I'm with my cousins and something is wrong with my grandma but nobody will tell me. I've lost so much in so little time, I don't think I can handle it. Nobody knows how I feel. Nobody knows what's in like. I'm invisible, just like my mom and my dad.

"Don't let anybody push you down. Don't let anybody's words get to you. But why can't I see that in myself?"
~Panda_Luver

Aww I'm so sorry Panda :C I wish I could do something! Try to get their attention and try to tell them to tell you what's wrong <3

[epsil]

Hi...so,
I might be needing some help?
So one day, I get this cool idea that will take weeks to complete. It's a game, I'd decided to create for fun.
So I spend three weeks designing, drawing, and working my butt off of my spare time doing the layout for. I note that it's sort of designed for a certain friend, because I feel like he'd understand it best. So he sees it, and he loves it. He constantly wants to play it, and I am so flattered.
The next day he comes to me and tells me he's making one exactly like it, to give me that feeling that I gave him.
Okay...if you'd know me in real life, you'd understand that I'm an originality/copyright freak. So of course, I was very offended.
I spent over 20 days of my time working on this beautiful project for him, so much time working to make it original...and...he steals the idea to "give me that feeling"? And to do that he's making his own version, exactly the same as mine?
Thanks, buddy.
What's EVEN WORSE is that;
I can't get involved in other people's projects. I don't know why. I just...can't. I have an overwhelming urge to do something myself. My stupid domination to be independent. I don't really pay attention to other people's stuff anyhow, so dude, I won't even GET that feeling. If anything, I'd feel dismay, because you freaking took my hard work and idea.
You took my work because you don't understand.
And I can't tell you this because you've already started working on yours.
I'M SORRY THAT I HAVE A LOW TEMPER BUT,
once again,
thanks.
That totally made me feel great.

What do I do?

okay.
i ended up throwing mine away because his was apparently more important
because i worked on mine for 3 weeks and he worked on his for 2 days
i kept arguing that there could ONLY BE 1, because if the other existed it would make the alternate one unoriginal
and i was so so hurt and i just wanted his gone but he would hurt from that
and i told him "i only want what you want. why does my opinion matter against yours?"
and he said "fine...i want you to throw yours away then"
and though i played cool, like it was okay,
oh my god that hurt. that hurt. it really, really hurt.
and so i ended ripping apart something i spent so, so much time developing and working on specifically for this person...
and i tore apart the papers and all of the files and slammed my fists on the table and it was really hard
and i cried my eyes out. he couldn't do that.
how was he okay with that?
he knew i was going to die from it, right?
my hard work-replaced by his two-day thing?
he showed me over camera and he did everything the exact same way like he formatted everything and copied all of the drawings
i think i might just...
i don't know. there's no solution. i want to die basically.
this will take forever to get off my shoulders. HOW? how could he be okay with replacing my original thing, which he loved so much, which his copied version???
what hurts the most is,
i made it specifically for him to enjoy and it was designed for him
and now he's using it to have fun with his, what, 25 friends?
i hate you and your ideas.
maybe it's better you're gone.

help me.
this isn't going to be better for a long time.
and i'm sorry i'm not using caps,
i do that when i'm with a certain friend (it's one of my personalities),
or when i'm extremely discomforted and unsettled.
obvious to tell which one.
help.

[Khrusolophos]

Hi...so,
I might be needing some help?
So one day, I get this cool idea that will take weeks to complete. It's a game, I'd decided to create for fun.
So I spend three weeks designing, drawing, and working my butt off of my spare time doing the layout for. I note that it's sort of designed for a certain friend, because I feel like he'd understand it best. So he sees it, and he loves it. He constantly wants to play it, and I am so flattered.
The next day he comes to me and tells me he's making one exactly like it, to give me that feeling that I gave him.
Okay...if you'd know me in real life, you'd understand that I'm an originality/copyright freak. So of course, I was very offended.
I spent over 20 days of my time working on this beautiful project for him, so much time working to make it original...and...he steals the idea to "give me that feeling"? And to do that he's making his own version, exactly the same as mine?
Thanks, buddy.
What's EVEN WORSE is that;
I can't get involved in other people's projects. I don't know why. I just...can't. I have an overwhelming urge to do something myself. My stupid domination to be independent. I don't really pay attention to other people's stuff anyhow, so dude, I won't even GET that feeling. If anything, I'd feel dismay, because you freaking took my hard work and idea.
You took my work because you don't understand.
And I can't tell you this because you've already started working on yours.
I'M SORRY THAT I HAVE A LOW TEMPER BUT,
once again,
thanks.
That totally made me feel great.

What do I do?

okay.
i ended up throwing mine away because his was apparently more important
because i worked on mine for 3 weeks and he worked on his for 2 days
i kept arguing that there could ONLY BE 1, because if the other existed it would make the alternate one unoriginal
and i was so so hurt and i just wanted his gone but he would hurt from that
and i told him "i only want what you want. why does my opinion matter against yours?"
and he said "fine...i want you to throw yours away then"
and though i played cool, like it was okay,
oh my god that hurt. that hurt. it really, really hurt.
and so i ended ripping apart something i spent so, so much time developing and working on specifically for this person...
and i tore apart the papers and all of the files and slammed my fists on the table and it was really hard
and i cried my eyes out. he couldn't do that.
how was he okay with that?
he knew i was going to die from it, right?
my hard work-replaced by his two-day thing?
he showed me over camera and he did everything the exact same way like he formatted everything and copied all of the drawings
i think i might just...
i don't know. there's no solution. i want to die basically.
this will take forever to get off my shoulders. HOW? how could he be okay with replacing my original thing, which he loved so much, which his copied version???
what hurts the most is,
i made it specifically for him to enjoy and it was designed for him
and now he's using it to have fun with his, what, 25 friends?
i hate you and your ideas.
maybe it's better you're gone.

help me.
this isn't going to be better for a long time.
and i'm sorry i'm not using caps,
i do that when i'm with a certain friend (it's one of my personalities),
or when i'm extremely discomforted and unsettled.
obvious to tell which one.
help.

Awwwwwww...
-hug shower- this is awful! It seems to me you're not using the best way to deal with it, as you seem to have a passive aggressive tone? I really relate to this. I used to be like this until a sudden 180 last year that made me very standoffish, blunt, and if someone did something that bothered me, I very well make sure they know it. So if this were me I'd go straight up to him and call him out, but that's also not the best course of action. I'd say you should talk to him and say that he took your idea, and even though he meant it to be for you, it didn't come off that way to you and it wasn't the best thing for a friend to do. Tell him how him telling you to throw yours away made you feel, but don't sugar coat things. Explain the main point of how you made it specifically for him, but that doesn't give him the right to take it/make changes to it at all. I really do hope things work out! <3333 feel better!

[indebted]

i just feel like im really apathetic all the time and im literally the worst????
like,,, someone will get hurt and ill stand there??? i know i should go and
comfort them but its so hard for me to put emotion into my words....and
sometimes i dont even go over, i just stand there??? its hard as heck for me
to feel sympathy in this kind of situation, for some reason?? i usually go over
but its always because i feel obligated to do so and i hate that im like this??

ugh

tldr; im the worst

[tsunami,]

i just feel like im really apathetic all the time and im literally the worst????
like,,, someone will get hurt and ill stand there??? i know i should go and
comfort them but its so hard for me to put emotion into my words....and
sometimes i dont even go over, i just stand there??? its hard as heck for me
to feel sympathy in this kind of situation, for some reason?? i usually go over
but its always because i feel obligated to do so and i hate that im like this??

ugh

tldr; im the worst

you're not the worst, i can assure you that. and i hate to see you put yourself down
like that, i'm sure you're a wonderful person. <3 i can understand the point of view
you're coming from, seeing that i have the exact same problem sometimes, and i
just feel a bit helpless, y'know? but to be quite honest, once you finally manage
to go up to them, the words can just come out, and you may just be able to make
that person's day. to me, that feeling i get after i know i've done something good
to help someone else feel better is the best feeling in the world. i get that it can
be a bit hard at first, but by taking that small chance, your one step closer to help-
ing not only that peron, but yourself. and if you really can't think of something to
say, hugs can always help too. <3

[my sweet piano]

I need help I'm about to cry
I can't fin my drawing app in the app store
I deted it cause I thought I cold get it back
Please

[Saina Belaire]

I need help I'm about to cry
I can't fin my drawing app in the app store
I deted it cause I thought I cold get it back
Please

Go look through your purchased apps and you should be able to find it again, even if it's been removed.

[Emma Swan]

my mom just yelled at me, "i hate you," and stormed off to her room, slamming the door behind her. she gave no reason and i don't know what i've done... now i'm alone and crying in my room. i don't know what to do, i want to runaway, i want to be anywhere but in my house...

[Chrysalism]

Why me
Haven't I suffered enough

[emoji movie]

Why me
Haven't I suffered enough

You're a wonderful person, you're strong, beautiful,
and amazing. I'm sorry for whatever has happened, but I know
you can survive. You're a strong person, and after all, after all
the blood, sweat, and tears, you'll become a stronger and a
truly special person, more special than now.

'If you're going through hell, keep going.'

I try and help more of you once school ends- remember to be strong.
You are all enough, you are all beautiful, you are all loved.