Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Keletheryl]

Asdf.
My friend that I really like is coming over soon, how should I feel about this?

Can I suggest... happy? xD
Before we started dating, my boyfriend would come over to my house and we'd just hang out. ^^ I liked him a ton... so I was a bit nervous, but also really happy. xD

Okay X3

I was just nervous today for some reason, at least he can see our new hamster <3

This is like exactly what happened to me lately.
My friend who, at that point, was more than a friend but not really boyfriend yet, he came over to my house to see my new gerbil xD Be happy and don't be too nervous or you'll say something stupid like I did o.o

[soreii]

Well, I don't really talk because I can't.
He'll be here in a few minutes actually, anyways thanks for the help :3

[harlical]

I've heard rumors that if you crack a pathetic/over-used joke that no one thinks is funny anymore, and your crush laughs, is it true they like you?
idek know where I got that, but that's what people say to me.

it kind of depends on their personality ; u ;
my crush [ who likes me back ] used the "time to get a watch" joke when i asked what time it was, i just kind of scoffed, idk xD
you could try it though, if that's what you wanted to know, because it seems possible :D


aaaaa my god so much stress right now > n >
my crush [ lets call him Z i guess lol ] likes me back and he even kissed me yesterday at the movies ; A ;
the problem is, he's moving out of state in the near future [ they dont know when ] and it seems like he doesn't want to get too attached or anything...
but now he wants to meet up again today and idk im just a nervous wreck because i cant tell if he wants to get together but is afraid to or if he just wants to kiss me but not start anything ....
we've been texting all day and stuff and just aaaaaa
idk what to do ; A ; should i push the whole 'going out' thing or should i just wait and see what happens ? ; - ;

I know I want advise but here is some advise.

Well, if you have his number, it's not like you can't arrange to meet up ?
Idk, anyway, if he is moving, he has a 99.9 chance he is going to crush on some one from his new school, so on, so I suggest just to go for it and If he dosent like the ideas, there are plenty of people in the world, even if no one is like him, you will probably find some one even better :)
Sorry if this dosent go we'll for you.
Fingers crossed !!

haha, well, yes i do have his number, but it turns out that he probably can't come over today anyways xD
yeah i figured that, and im sure he knows that too, but he likes me and i like him so even if its short, it would still be good while it lasted... v u v
thanks for the feedback though !! i really appreciate it a lot <3

[[x]]

K so I just got back from a thing I had at school where we just like, played games and stuff and my somewhat old crush (Somewhat as in I still kinda liked him) was in my team. One of the games was where we had 3 newspapers and using them we had to get our whole team across the room. The first newspaper was full and it was just Jaxson and I and so I told him to hop on the next one. Me being wimpy and it was far away I was either going to ruin it for everyone, or friggen' jump on Jaxson. I jumped and landed on the newspaper but I looked and I saw that I was... hugging Jaxson XDD Wellll... He pretty much had no reaction whatsoever to it and just kept on going. Throughout the night I was also touching him a lot and still, he had no reaction to them. Last year he let me pet his hair a lot too...
Does he just think of me as a friend and didn't think anything about me touching him or do you think he likes me and kinda enjoyed it

[Dia.]

K so I just got back from a thing I had at school where we just like, played games and stuff and my somewhat old crush (Somewhat as in I still kinda liked him) was in my team. One of the games was where we had 3 newspapers and using them we had to get our whole team across the room. The first newspaper was full and it was just Jaxson and I and so I told him to hop on the next one. Me being wimpy and it was far away I was either going to ruin it for everyone, or friggen' jump on Jaxson. I jumped and landed on the newspaper but I looked and I saw that I was... hugging Jaxson XDD Wellll... He pretty much had no reaction whatsoever to it and just kept on going. Throughout the night I was also touching him a lot and still, he had no reaction to them. Last year he let me pet his hair a lot too...
Does he just think of me as a friend and didn't think anything about me touching him or do you think he likes me and kinda enjoyed it :o

He might just not mind people in his space.
My boyfriend doesn't let anyone touch his hair or face. Except me.
If this boy lets other people get that close to him, it probably doesn't mean anything that he also lets you. However, if he doesn't let anyone except you, it might mean something.
It just depends on the guy.

[Bye.....]

K so I just got back from a thing I had at school where we just like, played games and stuff and my somewhat old crush (Somewhat as in I still kinda liked him) was in my team. One of the games was where we had 3 newspapers and using them we had to get our whole team across the room. The first newspaper was full and it was just Jaxson and I and so I told him to hop on the next one. Me being wimpy and it was far away I was either going to ruin it for everyone, or friggen' jump on Jaxson. I jumped and landed on the newspaper but I looked and I saw that I was... hugging Jaxson XDD Wellll... He pretty much had no reaction whatsoever to it and just kept on going. Throughout the night I was also touching him a lot and still, he had no reaction to them. Last year he let me pet his hair a lot too...
Does he just think of me as a friend and didn't think anything about me touching him or do you think he likes me and kinda enjoyed it

It depends on the person. If they don't like other people touching them, then he probably likes you, but there are people who are fine with others in their personal space.

[Faymutt95]

Hello, this is my first time on this thread & I really need some advice/closure.
(I tried the internet many times but it didn't help).
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I have an ex I cannot get over.
He was my first true love - It was online/long distance, and I met him in real life twice.
He was so handsome; he was even a junior model.
We seemed so perfect together - both as lovers & bestfriends, & he was so sweet, even gifting me the first day he met me.
We dated for almost a full year, then I heard his mom grounded him because she didn't want him to be with me, so he was 'forced' to breakup with me.
It's been nearly 4 years, and I cry every time I think of him.
Even today, I was lying down cuddling with my recent bf (Of 9 months) and I randomly thought of my ex and felt so depressed;
Almost like I shouldn't be here.
I feel like what happened should have never been - I moved on out of loneliness & he came back to me explaining what happened, but it was too late & I utterly regret it to this day.
I feel even worse that I have no chance with him again because shortly after, he turned gay.
I just don't know how to get over him. It's still eating my heart up and the pain feels so fresh and real every time I think of him.
I STILL feel like we would've been perfect together and I can't shake the feeling.
Can someone help me?

[[x]]

He might just not mind people in his space.
My boyfriend doesn't let anyone touch his hair or face. Except me.
If this boy lets other people get that close to him, it probably doesn't mean anything that he also lets you. However, if he doesn't let anyone except you, it might mean something.
It just depends on the guy.

It depends on the person. If they don't like other people touching them, then he probably likes you, but there are people who are fine with others in their personal space.

He only really lets his guy friends touch him and get near him.
He has plenty of lady friends and doesn't like them touching him...

[Keletheryl]

Hello, this is my first time on this thread & I really need some advice/closure.
(I tried the internet many times but it didn't help).
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I have an ex I cannot get over.
He was my first true love - It was online/long distance, and I met him in real life twice.
He was so handsome; he was even a junior model.
We seemed so perfect together - both as lovers & bestfriends, & he was so sweet, even gifting me the first day he met me.
We dated for almost a full year, then I heard his mom grounded him because she didn't want him to be with me, so he was 'forced' to breakup with me.
It's been nearly 4 years, and I cry every time I think of him.
Even today, I was lying down cuddling with my recent bf (Of 9 months) and I randomly thought of my ex and felt so depressed;
Almost like I shouldn't be here.
I feel like what happened should have never been - I moved on out of loneliness & he came back to me explaining what happened, but it was too late & I utterly regret it to this day.
I feel even worse that I have no chance with him again because shortly after, he turned gay.
I just don't know how to get over him. It's still eating my heart up and the pain feels so fresh and real every time I think of him.
I STILL feel like we would've been perfect together and I can't shake the feeling.
Can someone help me?

This isn't your question and it's a sensitive topic but I wouldn't feel right not pointing it out; people don't 'turn' gay, they are born gay. I could tell you how (science) but that's not important so I wont.

When you feel depressed about this, just think about all the good things about your current boyfriend. And take your mind away from him by doing something. Watch a movie you're really into. Read a really good book. As soon as you start thinking of him, say to yourself. "Nope. Okay, thinking about something else now.. music! I really like this new song, maybe I should download it to iTunes..." I have trouble thinking about things bad too with my severe anxiety of death, so whenever I start thinking about death I just do that and it usually works. My brain has a mind of it's own (haha).

You will always have feelings for your first, no matter what. I still have feelings for my first, even though I have a boyfriend. I just disregard it every time I see him and think about my boyfriend instead

[northern downpour ;;]

Guys help meee (I don't actually need help)
I'm dying of feels
Like seriously
So many feels
Why is that boy so sweet