The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

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So my school (former school now -.-) has an academic team and my friends and I made it on the team. One of the guys on the team I like. A LOT. He's In 7th grade and I'm in 8th (I know you'll say "Oh you're just a kid, you don't know anything about relationships.") He's just my friend right now, but I'm waiting for a spark. I thought he was close to liking me, buuut that's when I got kicked out of school. I still text him and talk to him on the phone, but he only talks to me as a friend and almost never shows any signs of liking me. A few times I thought I saw something in his eyes or heard something in his voice that miiiiiiight have hinted something, but it's probably just wishful thinking. I get to go back to my school in January, but I doubt we'll have anything but friendship. Any advice?

[boodles]

Gah! I can't believe I'm doing this but....I have a teency question:

I need to know if he like likes me, likes me as a friend or is just hanging out with me because theres nothing else to do.....

We met about 3 months ago at kids scouting, both being leaders. Now, becasue of scouting we spend about 2 hours together each week and I can't seam to figure out if he is a flirt in genneral or if he is just flirting with me. He always texts me...in-fact, he ran my cell phone bill up 200$ last month lol. I absolutely love everything about him and that makes it even harder. He can't keep his hands off me, he's always touching my shoulder or tickling me or jokingly poking me. We had to go camping together and he made me go everywhere with him, I couldn't even sit at the table and eat with out him sitting right next to me and joking around. He broke up with his ex 2 week after I met him and now laughs and jokes about her stupidity everytime he's around me. He calls me things like 'beautiful' or 'smart' when very few other people have... Then today was a snowday from school and he came to my house to hang out with me all day then went the extra mile and walked with me to go get my brother afterwards. The whole trip walking we played around in the snow together and I would normally think nothing of that but my extreme crush on him is blinding me. I've never spent time with him and his friends to see how he acts with other girls he always hangs out with wich is why I don't know if he is a general flirt or just flirts with me. I've never been in this situation before and could really use another opinion.

I could never go as far as to ask him out, but if I know he likes me without actually asking him that then I know I can flirt bck and give him the hint that I like him that way. All I need is a second opinion and I would really appriciate the voice, even if I'm against asking these questions on the internet

Thanx,
boodles

[boodles]

Could I possibly get you to send me a quick PM when you reply to my post? Chances are I'll forget to check back..lol

[sad magic]

Try and be a better friend and hang out with him more. Then you two will get to know each other better, he might start to like you. But remember, don't push it and be around him 24/7. If you do, then he'll know you like him. Instead, say hi and smile when you walk by each other. If you two have a chance to talk and have a common interest, let's say it's football, then talk about football. If it's drawing, then talk about drawing. Basically, talk about anything you both enjoy. Then in a few months, you should know if he likes you or not.

I'm posting this here too.

I would have had a boyfriend today.

If my ex best friend hadn't been mad at me for moving tables to sit with someone else, because I was having no fun, and was being ignored. Would you guys like to hear the events on how I ended up and broke down crying? I don't care. I'm going to explain anyway.

My ex best friend, Let's call her.. 'R'. Last night R made a huge deal about this morning. How something was going to happen. Yet, I had no idea what. So I instantly assumed the worst. Guess what? Nothing happened this morning. So yeah, you would be a little ticked too. So then there was lunch. As I explained earlier, I sat with someone else today because I was ignored and not feeing very welcome. So my punishment? My friggin punishment was that: She told him, told him, not to ask me out. She told him not to. Because I was pissed. So now, why am I here? My best friend is now my ex friend, and now my crush won't talk to me. Great. Whoop-dee-doo. What a great day. I miss talking to him already. I'm hurt. I've been crying. She really went too far this time. After all the crud she pulled, this is by far the worst. Because it was just mean. I am SO hurt. And now she's trying to blame it one me. No.

What do I do about my crush?

Explain to your crush what was going on. If he was going to ask you out in the first place, after you explain it to him and he understands, he should ask you out again. If he's avoiding you too, then get one of your friends to tell him or find a way so he'll have to lisen to you. If he won't talk and isn't avoiding you, then all you have to do is find him and tell him. The fact that he was going to ask you out in the first place means he likes you back, and he'll probably want to listen to you and go out with you.

So I talked to him and such. It helped a little, thank you. But now he's kinda acting all weird. Thank you for your help though. C:

[Mysterious_Viking]

Ok, so I don't have really a problem (ok, actually, i have humongous guy problems, but that's not what I need help with, I'm sorting them out on my own for now), so much as something I would like some advice on. So here's my predicament:

So there's this guy in my class, Logan, and we both used to really like each other two years ago (we never told each other, but it was obvious he liked me and I really liked him), and I still like him a tiny tiny bit. Well, anyways, I was in the classroom at lunch time, and Dylan, one of my guy friends, told me that Logan likes me. It wasn't really a just kind of straight-up "Logan likes you", it was more, well, why don't I just explain it? It was just me and Dylan in the classroom, not an unusual occurence, especially under the current circumstances (which I will not take the time to explain). Dylan was explaining how our seating arrangement would be in a perfect world. He put himself by Lexi, the girl he likes, and me and Logan beside each other. Why I asked why he did that, he said, "Because he likes you.", rather matter-of-factly. I was kind of in shock for a couple of seconds, because I honestly didn't think Logan was interested in me anymore, but then I thought about it, and it did explain some things, not all of them directly having to do with Logan (again, not going into detail).
Ok, so anyways, after all that explaining here's the situation: I want to ask Logan if he actually does like me, just so I can know for sure. I don't really need advice on how to bring it up, I'm pretty sure I'll be able to bring it up out of nowhere at some time when it's just us (which should happen sometime soon, i mean, we're in the same class, we both lifeguard), but my problem is rather how to phrase it. My original thought was to mention that Dyl brought it up, but that could get Logan ticked at Dylan, and I wouldn't want to be the cause of that. So I was just wondering what would work best, if I asked "Dylan mentioned you like me, is that true?", or instead, "I heard ypu like me, is that true?", or "Someone said you like me, is that true?", or just straight-up " Do you like me?". Straight-up do you like me?" is kind of direct and really catches a person off-guard, in my opinion, but "i heard you like me" sounds kinda like it could be a rumour or something. I know I'm probablh fretting too much over little details, but I think the right wording really counts to get the right answer, and I want advice from someone who's probably been there.

You should go with, "Somebody said you like me, is it true?" That way, you don't give up Dylan, but him knowing somebody knows (if he really does like you) will make him feel like telling the truth.

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

Ok, so I don't have really a problem (ok, actually, i have humongous guy problems, but that's not what I need help with, I'm sorting them out on my own for now), so much as something I would like some advice on. So here's my predicament:

So there's this guy in my class, Logan, and we both used to really like each other two years ago (we never told each other, but it was obvious he liked me and I really liked him), and I still like him a tiny tiny bit. Well, anyways, I was in the classroom at lunch time, and Dylan, one of my guy friends, told me that Logan likes me. It wasn't really a just kind of straight-up "Logan likes you", it was more, well, why don't I just explain it? It was just me and Dylan in the classroom, not an unusual occurence, especially under the current circumstances (which I will not take the time to explain). Dylan was explaining how our seating arrangement would be in a perfect world. He put himself by Lexi, the girl he likes, and me and Logan beside each other. Why I asked why he did that, he said, "Because he likes you.", rather matter-of-factly. I was kind of in shock for a couple of seconds, because I honestly didn't think Logan was interested in me anymore, but then I thought about it, and it did explain some things, not all of them directly having to do with Logan (again, not going into detail).
Ok, so anyways, after all that explaining here's the situation: I want to ask Logan if he actually does like me, just so I can know for sure. I don't really need advice on how to bring it up, I'm pretty sure I'll be able to bring it up out of nowhere at some time when it's just us (which should happen sometime soon, i mean, we're in the same class, we both lifeguard), but my problem is rather how to phrase it. My original thought was to mention that Dyl brought it up, but that could get Logan ticked at Dylan, and I wouldn't want to be the cause of that. So I was just wondering what would work best, if I asked "Dylan mentioned you like me, is that true?", or instead, "I heard ypu like me, is that true?", or "Someone said you like me, is that true?", or just straight-up " Do you like me?". Straight-up do you like me?" is kind of direct and really catches a person off-guard, in my opinion, but "i heard you like me" sounds kinda like it could be a rumour or something. I know I'm probablh fretting too much over little details, but I think the right wording really counts to get the right answer, and I want advice from someone who's probably been there.

You should go with, "Somebody said you like me, is it true?" That way, you don't give up Dylan, but him knowing somebody knows (if he really does like you) will make him feel like telling the truth.

Thanks a ton!! I still haven't got the chance to ask him, don't really know when I will, but I'm going with the if it happens, it happens, if it's meant to be, it'll find a way philosophy.

[WolfWhisperer]

Looking at this topic makes me miss Michael even more... D':

[WolfWhisperer]

Looking at this topic makes me miss Michael even more... D':

[Dream of Eternity]

Glad I found this thread, right when I needed help!


There's this dude Anthony. At the beginning of the school year he really liked me, and I kinda liked him back. Even though we talked more on Facebook then we did in real life, when he asked me out (over facebook) I still said yes. However, I freaked out the next morning and didn't want a boyfriend, so I broke up with him and told him to move on. Now we talk a lot more and I feel much more comfortable around him and kinda like him, but I'm afraid he's already moved on, etc.

[Twix :3]

Ok, well obviously, im here to ask if a guy likes me. xD So, yeah. Here I go...Sorry if this gets long, by the way!

Well, let me start off by describing my crush. Cole has blonde hair that just barely reaches his eyes, hes short (almost 5 foot), has braces, his eyes are blue, and he is one of those 'boyishly cute' type guys. Im around 5'3, brown hair, hazel eyes, and kinda chubby, if you know what I mean--a bit of extra weight. So were not exactly the most matching pair when were together. But anyway, enough of describing myself and him. ( were in 8th grade by the way, and hes in almost all my classes.)
It started off at the beginning of the school year. I joined cross-country along with my two brothers. (im a triplet. Its a joy being the only girl. -_-) Cole is in cross-country as well, because hes friends with my brothers. After the season was over, my school hosts a fall sports awards(which happened to be last month). So I went with my family. The athletes had to sit with their team, and the girls were right in front of the guys. I was behind my brothers and their friends, my crush being one of them. So during the whole thing, they cheered my name for every award; even the sports I wasnt participating in! While it was embarrassing, I guess that was the turning point. He started talking to be a lot more after that night. The following month he gave me high-fives every day and we talk on a daily basis.
Hes friends with the 'cool kids', if you know what I mean. Those complete jerks that are always being obnoxious. But he doesnt make fun of anyone the way they do; his friends even make fun of me because of one guy who im friends with. I think I over-heard Cole one time telling them to stop being jack@$$es towards me. xD
He has a really great sense of humor. He tells me jokes everyday that I strangely find hilarious; One of them being, "What did the pickle say to the banana? "Hi, Sue!" I guess we find that really funny because thats what he says everyday.
Oh, and it seems that he always has an excuse to talk to me. Like, he needs a pen/pencil, or he forgot to do his homework and wants to see mine. Its really cute, actually. He ends up giving me back my stuff anyway. xD And one day he stole my lunch while passing me in the hallway. He took out all my snacks and hid them in his jacket pocket. A couple seconds later he gives everything back to me, but I let him keep a bag of cookies. Now he asks me every day for my cookies. ;3
And now im switching to a different time frame. Well, yesterday on the school announcements, they said that spirit week is next week. One day you get to be your best friend's "twin" like, dressing the same and I guess acting the same. So after the announcements, he asked me if I wanted to be his twin. xD I said yes, of course. He blushed and gave me a high five and went back to his real seat.
Today, he was being really funny. He gave me a super high five today that stung both our hands, so we were screaming and moaning about that during gym. xD During social studies, my last period class, he stole my book because I called him Swiper the fox. So then I said that I would have to swipe my book back because I needed it, and that made him laugh.
Also, he called a girl in the class "Jack"; her name is Jackie. We start cracking up about that for God-knows-why.

The thing is, I dont know if he sees me as just a friend or if he has a crush on me. What do you suggest I do to hint that I like him?