The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[Static.]

Okay. This is really embarrassing; I'm kind of just venting here.
So there's this guy, he's a little more than two years older than me, and he's one of my best friends. I met him in grade school, and we just kind of stuck around each other. He's just really, really funny and smart, and has a witty response to everything, and he's really awesome (I can give you some hilarious examples). Lately though, I've begun to feel stuff about him that I haven't before. Majorly. And it's been that way for about a month now. We're really close friends, and I definitely feel like if I asked him if he wanted to go out or something, he'd say yes. The problem is, both my best girl friends, who I love, have a crush on him too (although they're not nearly as close to him as I am). Which I understand, he's really hot. XD The thing is, if things did work out between him and me, I'm worried it would ruin my relationship with my two best girl-friends. And if it didn't, where would that leave him and me? I love him as a friend, too.
Please help.

[Bellamy]

@~Pseudonym - hm, well whenever I like a guy I wait and see what he does. It just seems to go a lot smoother when the guys asks the girl, that way you know he likes you like that back :3 And your girl friends probably won't mind much if he's the one who asks you. So maybe you could just see what he does for a little while, I think that's what I'd do ^^ I have that problem all the time, where me and my friends all like the same guy X3 It's tough, but my girl friends are usually pretty cool about it. However, I have had my friends get a little mad at me over that. It just depends on my friend, my bestie would be totally supportive and never mind at all, but other than that i would just say to tell you friends that you really like this guy. If you guys are close friends it should work out good :3 I had a BF last year that I dated for four months, he asked me out and I said yes and eventually we broke up, two days before valentines day. Me and him talk and hand out every day, it's like we're closer friends now :3 But I had another BF that I dated for five months, I really liked him and stuff, but eventually I broke up with him. He asked me out again and I said no, and it's been a year and we haven't even said one word to each other But like I said, since you guys are close friends I don't think dating will change your friendship ^^

Sorry for writing a novel XD

[Static.]

@~Pseudonym - hm, well whenever I like a guy I wait and see what he does. It just seems to go a lot smoother when the guys asks the girl, that way you know he likes you like that back :3 And your girl friends probably won't mind much if he's the one who asks you. So maybe you could just see what he does for a little while, I think that's what I'd do ^^ I have that problem all the time, where me and my friends all like the same guy X3 It's tough, but my girl friends are usually pretty cool about it. However, I have had my friends get a little mad at me over that. It just depends on my friend, my bestie would be totally supportive and never mind at all, but other than that i would just say to tell you friends that you really like this guy. If you guys are close friends it should work out good :3 I had a BF last year that I dated for four months, he asked me out and I said yes and eventually we broke up, two days before valentines day. Me and him talk and hand out every day, it's like we're closer friends now :3 But I had another BF that I dated for five months, I really liked him and stuff, but eventually I broke up with him. He asked me out again and I said no, and it's been a year and we haven't even said one word to each other But like I said, since you guys are close friends I don't think dating will change your friendship ^^

Sorry for writing a novel XD

Good advice, but I don't think we're allowed to give it out without staff permission! ^^;; Lol, I think he likes me back. :3 I'm not usually good at telling stuff like this, but let me give you a scenario. There's one girl I know, let us call her "F". She tries hard to be nice, but she's really insensitive. And, let's face it, she's pretty dang stupid. But, she's really pretty, so she's used to all the boys at school totally falling for her.
I'll be me.
My crush will be "W".
F will be, F.
So we're having a gaming session (yes, like dorky role-playing). I don't really like F, but she's the older sister of a friend of mine, so she made me drag her along (she knows all the guys I RP with are cute). So we're in the room, and she sees W. And because she's stupid and he's really hot, she, yeah. Okay, so she's flirting with him at first (really obviously) and he's kind of just ignoring her. So she gets really desperate, and tries to freaking SIT ON HIS LAP. He just keeps pushing her off without saying anything (he can be a jerk, but hey, that's one of the things I like about him ;]) and she's just being super ridiculous, trying to rub his shoulders and kiss him and stuff, all while I'm DM'ing. So eventually, W just pulls his chair over by me and smiles and starts talking to me and being really sweet, and F is still trying to sit on his lap and flirt with him. W's just givin' her this look like "Why are you talking to me?" and turning back to mahself. ID On the drive back, F is just like, "~Pseudonym, why'd he like you and not me?" in this really sulky voice. I wanted to say, "I don't know F. Maybe he just doesn't like stupid girls." I didn't but still. I wanted to.

[Vaera Playrite]

Now,I'm sure this must be a 'different' case for you guys,but I only went to you because I need some help.

So,I have this friend.We've known each other for like,ever.So one day,he walks up to me and asks me if I'll go out with him.I'm like,What the heck?!No!(Well not exactly like that,more like *evil glare*NO!)For another year he keeps asking me.I've told him,and all of my other friends that I hate dating people.No offence love birds,I just don't like it at all.It's starting to effect our friendship,in a negative way.What advise do you guys have,what should I do to get him to quit asking me out easily without harming our friendship or his feelings?

Could someone please help me?!Sorry about this,but I seriously do not know what to do,and it's me my friends usually go to for relationship advise,so I feel out of place here.

[marimoon]

I've got my problem with a guy!
Okay, he sits behind me in school, and he acts like he likes me.
Now, I don't know, If he does.
Now, I need help with signs that show if a guy likes you or not.

Please help? You are the love doctors!!

There are many ways a guy can flirt. But you need to give me the details on what he does. Then I will probably be able to help you

Well, he's super-friendly, he ALWAYS wants me to hi-5 him, he looks at me, looks away, then looks again, every time I turn around because he says something, he looks at the teacher, then me, and it's back and forth like that, he also stays around. Is that enough? Or should I give more? Does he like me? O-o

[Rainbow & Storm]

Okay, I have a crush on two boys. Arnesh and Donovan.
I have had a crush on Arnesh for almost the whole year, and I only recently started liking him.
I have alot of history with Arnesh. Awkward history.
And with Donovan it's weird history. Like... I went out with his brother last year, but we are all good now. And he used to go out with my bestie Amy. She doesn't like him anymore though.

Arnesh's best friend Mike told me that Arnesh likes me.
Donovan has been hanging out with me and my friends alot lately, and he told my friend Kristina that he liked me.

Now, I have two boys that I like that like be back, and I dont know what to do.

With Arnesh I have personal history, but I dont know if he is in the dating place at the moment, after his last girl friend dumped him really hard...
And with Donovan, he has history with my best friend and I went out with his brother.

I really need some help because I am in an awkward place with both of them because they both know that I know they like me, and that I know they like me. I want to be friends with both of them. But I like them so much it's almost impossible!

Please help!
I am so confused.

-Dreamer

[Chloe <3]

Ok, ok - so I guess this is my first real crush that I have decided to do something about.

I have a really good guy friend and he and I hang out a lot together. But although I have a very feminine side, you could only describe me as a tomboy. So to him, I think he sees me as one of the guys, (I have proof! ) rather than a girl...

So I dont know what to do!! And I really like him! (Eek! Cant believe I just submitted all that!!!)

Please help!

[Rainbow & Storm]

Okay, I have a crush on two boys. Arnesh and Donovan.
I have had a crush on Arnesh for almost the whole year, and I only recently started liking him.
I have alot of history with Arnesh. Awkward history.
And with Donovan it's weird history. Like... I went out with his brother last year, but we are all good now. And he used to go out with my bestie Amy. She doesn't like him anymore though.

Arnesh's best friend Mike told me that Arnesh likes me.
Donovan has been hanging out with me and my friends alot lately, and he told my friend Kristina that he liked me.

Now, I have two boys that I like that like be back, and I dont know what to do.

With Arnesh I have personal history, but I dont know if he is in the dating place at the moment, after his last girl friend dumped him really hard...
And with Donovan, he has history with my best friend and I went out with his brother.

I really need some help because I am in an awkward place with both of them because they both know that I know they like me, and that I know they like me. I want to be friends with both of them. But I like them so much it's almost impossible!

Please help!
I am so confused.

-Dreamer

[hipster_sweg]

I like this guy and i have already gone out with him but i still like him. What do i do?

[dapperblook]

Okay... this is kinda long... sorry.Cliche time! I literally started liking this one guy the moment I saw him. I thought he was completely adourable and I made it my mission to talk to him. About a month went by and still no conversation had passed between us until rumours started being spread about him. People said that he had been badmouthing a teacher who had died a year before he had even come here. Naturally, everybody else instantly turned on him, but I asked him about it and he looked me in the eye and told me that he didn't do it, so I trusted him. From there our friendship really blossomed and he acted like he liked me all the time. Unfortunately, I was blind to his advances at the time. And, while he was doing all of this, he kept trying to get the attention of my best friends as well. Over the summer we kind of drifted apart, so just recently I tried talking to him again. He started yelling at me saying that I had been the problem all along, that I was the reason everybody had avoided him last year.

I am so confused... even if he doesn't like me, I still want to be his friend. (Maybe more if he would ever allow it.)

What should I do?