The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[livingdeadhorror]

Hi,

My cruah has broken upo with his gf.
Now about 7 girls like him.
Me,
H,
r,
d,
And some others aswel.

I feel ticked off that they like him, I think my crush is somewhat ignoring me?
He stares sometimes and i just smile and wavem he smiles back etc etc.
My friend told me to play hard to get and be all flirty but be yourself?

Plus i have a new phone, i ahve no idea how to get his number Help please?

[WolfWhisperer]

Hi i used to have a farely big crsuh on 5 boys but i have feelnig for this new boy and this other boy,so i only fancy one boy,one of these boys,he is a bit of a joker but he is fairly understadning and every time he walkes past me he always shouts"Sophie"In a funny accent and runs off,i always blush every time i see him and i think he has started to find out that i have a like huge crush on him but i don't know whether i shopuld ask him out or get my freidn to ask him out for me as his feidn said"Do you want to go out with Steven!?"And i said"Ew no way you wiredo!"So i kinda lost a chance and i had a dream that when he sad that i said "Maaybe...next tiem you see me i'll give you a yes or a no and it ends!" So should i ask this guy out or get my friend to ask out for me?

Well maybe it wasnt a good thing to say 'eww no' and I think you might just want to talk to him about it, you can do it online or texting if it makes it easier for you. That is how my boyfriend asked me out, he was so afraid to ask me out in front of my face so he asked me over facebook chat

Ok I need help!

There is this guy I REALLY like! He is perfect! He is EXACTLY what I want in a guy.The problem is I dont have any classes with him, I dont really know his name (because hes a twin) and I havent talked to him once. I dont think he knows who I am... I would be suprised if he does. I REALLY want to date him! But im afaird to talk to him. I need to talk to him before I date him. I rarely see him and when I do see him its in the halls going to my next class. We have lunch at the same time also.

What should I do? I need help!

Well, what you said about talking to him before you think of asking him out, because if you don't know if he likes you, I think it would be akward if you went up to him and asked him out and he said no. So be careful about what you do. And if you have lunch at the same time as him maybe you should speak to him then, it will make things easier as well. And maybe if he has friends around him, you can ask if you can speak to him by himself or something.

[vanilla.soda]

Okay. Well, I have a BF, but my best friend is a guy, (I'll call him J.) He had a break-up with a snobby cheerleader named E, cause he got annyoed with her. Now, it seems like he flirts with me. We always talk and stuff, he tries getting my attention in stupid ways, he's loud around, and loves to show off. But then another girl, C, seems to flirt with him and he sorta flirts back. But, C is a tom-boy, so i can't tell if it's just her because she does that with all boys she hangs out with. I just get concered about J because hes my BFF, outgoing and I like to know what his relationship status is so i can help in. (PS, my BF knows that J and I are BFFs.)

Can anyone tell me if it seems like he likes me? Cause then I'd like to talk to him about it???

[WolfWhisperer]

Hi,

My cruah has broken upo with his gf.
Now about 7 girls like him.
Me,
H,
r,
d,
And some others aswel.

I feel ticked off that they like him, I think my crush is somewhat ignoring me?
He stares sometimes and i just smile and wavem he smiles back etc etc.
My friend told me to play hard to get and be all flirty but be yourself?

Plus i have a new phone, i ahve no idea how to get his number Help please?

It really depends on who it seems that he really really likes. You cannot force a guy to love you because it makes things a lot worse. And the only way you are going to get it, is to ask him, or one of your friends that have it or one of his friends.

Okay, well here goes-

I think am i love with my best friend. Im just really confused about this whole thing, It maight be wierd but we have been friends for about 4 years now, and all of the people whom i am friends with, we always fake flirt with each other and stuff, we think its pretty funny and it can start awesome conversations.. (we are Really Weird) But it seems inbetween the two of us, the flirting as become quite a bit more serious, but its not just with me.. its with her too, shes the one who i really noticed before i ended up doing it as well without noticing... but now it seems like verytime we talk.. well its akward for our friends, and my other friend is always over there making hearts with her hands when we talk and its embarrasing ^.^'' so, it just really seems like there just seems like the tension between us is so thick you could cut it with a knife.. Both of us our too shy to ask each other out directly, but yet we both talk to the same people about it. Uwaaahhh, Im just so scared, but i really want to ask her out T.T
Please help if you can!~

-Crytpid

Well the other way you can ask her out, in the way my boyfriend did, is go online and talk to her, then bring up the question, and if it REALLY does seem that she likes you, then is your chance to ask her

Okay, boy problem. c:

So I met this really nice, funny guy in my Band Class, and we started going out. It was really fun hanging out with him, spending all my time thinking about him, and when I'd see him next. Then one day I decide to draw him a picture, and when I gave it to him, he seemed as if he didn't want it. I disregarded it because he was in a bad mood that day anyway. Then, a couple days later, I made him a little wooden heart in my Shop class, and I wrote his name on it in Sharpie. When I gave it to him, he tried to erase the name, and I laughed thinking it was a joke. When I went home that might, I did my routine; read, homework, dinner, then shower. Then as soon as I was getting in bed, my phone got a text. I picked it up, and he had sent me a message saying: 'I don't really like it when you make me things. It makes me feel like you are obbsessing over me and I don't like it. Hope you don't take this the wrong way.' I wrote back, okay, and thanks for telling me the truth. He said goodnight, and I layed in bed, crying. I was just trying to make him feel as if I was thinking about him, and I loved him.

Then a few weeks later I got up the nerve to tell him I really liked him. He said he'd known that, but I shouldn't get too attached. I asked him if he felt the same way about me, and he said he didn't know. I really hope our realshionship lasts. <3

Could you Love Doctors help me understnad what he means and what I should od next?

Thanks! :3

Well I think he likes having his space, but you need to tell him that you do these things for him because you really love him and that it did upset you because you want to do these things for him, you don't over obsess about him and you need to let him know that. If you were over obsessed with him you would always be around him and up in his face, not letting him hang out with other girls and his friends and whatnot. I would of also gotten upset if my boyfriend had said that to me, but he loves it when I make him things because it shows him that I do love him, and you should tell him that as well.

And I know it is hard, but if he doesnt like that, then you two are not right for each other

[marimoon]

I've got my problem with a guy!
Okay, he sits behind me in school, and he acts like he likes me.
Now, I don't know, If he does.
Now, I need help with signs that show if a guy likes you or not.

Please help? You are the love doctors!!

[WolfWhisperer]

I've got my problem with a guy!
Okay, he sits behind me in school, and he acts like he likes me.
Now, I don't know, If he does.
Now, I need help with signs that show if a guy likes you or not.

Please help? You are the love doctors!!

There are many ways a guy can flirt. But you need to give me the details on what he does. Then I will probably be able to help you

Okay. Well, I have a BF, but my best friend is a guy, (I'll call him J.) He had a break-up with a snobby cheerleader named E, cause he got annyoed with her. Now, it seems like he flirts with me. We always talk and stuff, he tries getting my attention in stupid ways, he's loud around, and loves to show off. But then another girl, C, seems to flirt with him and he sorta flirts back. But, C is a tom-boy, so i can't tell if it's just her because she does that with all boys she hangs out with. I just get concered about J because hes my BFF, outgoing and I like to know what his relationship status is so i can help in. (PS, my BF knows that J and I are BFFs.)

Can anyone tell me if it seems like he likes me? Cause then I'd like to talk to him about it???

It also depends on who he flirts with more and seems to like more, you or her. And that, you kind of have to look at if he says anything about you that may seem to you that he really likes you. But there is another thing, he could be a player… this is kinda confusing but I am giving you the best of my knowledge

[AshtonLA]

Ok, so I'll just put this out there and state my problem.
There's this guy I like (lets call him A) and I he used to flirt with me but now he doesn't even talk to me. I still like him because he's cute, funny, nice, but it's really hard for me to talk to him. Then there's another guy I like (we'll call him B) and he's in 5 out of my 7 classes, walks home the same way as me, and is friends with a couple of my friends. and is similar to A- cute, funny, nice, but we almost never talk to each other. I've only talked to him once for an actual conversation and he started it and we have an inside joke about squids now (but I guess that doesn't matter) but that was WEEKS ago and I can't find any reason to talk to him anymore. Plus, even if he DID like me, he hasn't dated ANYONE at all. I can't tell if he likes me but A probably doesn't. But what are some ways we could start a conversation and talk to each other more so we can maybe become friends and MAYBe if he likes me go out? I'm just not sure how to even start conversation with him or actually talk to him now.

[Luvtomfelton!!!]

Hi i used to have a farely big crsuh on 5 boys but i have feelnig for this new boy and this other boy,so i only fancy one boy,one of these boys,he is a bit of a joker but he is fairly understadning and every time he walkes past me he always shouts"Sophie"In a funny accent and runs off,i always blush every time i see him and i think he has started to find out that i have a like huge crush on him but i don't know whether i shopuld ask him out or get my freidn to ask him out for me as his feidn said"Do you want to go out with Steven!?"And i said"Ew no way you wiredo!"So i kinda lost a chance and i had a dream that when he sad that i said "Maaybe...next tiem you see me i'll give you a yes or a no and it ends!" So should i ask this guy out or get my friend to ask out for me?

(Please help,you are the lvoe doctors after all!)

[WolfWhisperer]

Hi i used to have a farely big crsuh on 5 boys but i have feelnig for this new boy and this other boy,so i only fancy one boy,one of these boys,he is a bit of a joker but he is fairly understadning and every time he walkes past me he always shouts"Sophie"In a funny accent and runs off,i always blush every time i see him and i think he has started to find out that i have a like huge crush on him but i don't know whether i shopuld ask him out or get my freidn to ask him out for me as his feidn said"Do you want to go out with Steven!?"And i said"Ew no way you wiredo!"So i kinda lost a chance and i had a dream that when he sad that i said "Maaybe...next tiem you see me i'll give you a yes or a no and it ends!" So should i ask this guy out or get my friend to ask out for me?

(Please help,you are the lvoe doctors after all!)

I already answered for you sophie

Ok, so I'll just put this out there and state my problem.
There's this guy I like (lets call him A) and I he used to flirt with me but now he doesn't even talk to me. I still like him because he's cute, funny, nice, but it's really hard for me to talk to him. Then there's another guy I like (we'll call him B) and he's in 5 out of my 7 classes, walks home the same way as me, and is friends with a couple of my friends. and is similar to A- cute, funny, nice, but we almost never talk to each other. I've only talked to him once for an actual conversation and he started it and we have an inside joke about squids now (but I guess that doesn't matter) but that was WEEKS ago and I can't find any reason to talk to him anymore. Plus, even if he DID like me, he hasn't dated ANYONE at all. I can't tell if he likes me but A probably doesn't. But what are some ways we could start a conversation and talk to each other more so we can maybe become friends and MAYBE if he likes me go out? I'm just not sure how to even start conversation with him or actually talk to him now.

Just as you would with anybody, just begin with basic conversation, like "hi, how are you?" and just talk about random things and possibly get up to the relationship thing after talking for a bit. But also, maybe its a good idea if you don't bring up any relationship related conversations until you guys start talking more and more. And if he begins to show any signs of liking you in that type of way, maybe slowly climb up to that sort of talk with relationship and love with him

[Vaera Playrite]

Now,I'm sure this must be a 'different' case for you guys,but I only went to you because I need some help.

So,I have this friend.We've known each other for like,ever.So one day,he walks up to me and asks me if I'll go out with him.I'm like,What the heck?!No!(Well not exactly like that,more like *evil glare*NO!)For another year he keeps asking me.I've told him,and all of my other friends that I hate dating people.No offence love birds,I just don't like it at all.It's starting to effect our friendship,in a negative way.What advise do you guys have,what should I do to get him to quit asking me out easily without harming our friendship or his feelings?