| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[Totty]

So... He's never gonna realize that he doesn't really love her. He likes her because she's pretty. That's not how it works. It just cuts me to the core to watch him claim he's in love when it's all just an opinion, especially since he has a place in my heArt that no one else will ever earn. So if I was pretty he'd like me. It hurts. Please help me... It's so unforgettable... I'll never move on...

[my sweet piano]

I feel like when I am alone I am mostly emotionless, except for greed and anger and sadness.

[Angel's Whisper.]

So for the past week or so, I've been thinking about intelligence.

And it's dawned on me that everyone around me is miles better than me at everything. I feel so dumb and useless, and everyone scores higher on the reading tests [SRI, ahem, not sure if anyone here knows about that] everyone gets the answers to math problems quicker than me, all the people around me are just smarter than me.

And it bothers me. I wasn't "arrogant" or anything like that, but I hadn't really thought of it before. I thought that I was fairly unintelligent, but now that I've started to compare myself to other people, I feel so mediocre, and it feels like being left in the dust. Even my younger sister is better than me at math [quite literally.]

I don't know, I feel so terrible about all of this, and everyone here has larger problems than me and I just sorta wanna crawl in a hole and die.

[StarScream12]

I don't know if I am a real friend...
I was just thinking, I have a ton of secrets I keep from my friends, and family. The only person I have told are some people online and my sister. I-I am just too shy to tell them. To tell them I have anxiety and bipolar, to tell them I'd rather be a boy, to tell them I am asexual, to tell them I am aromantic....
Then again, if I did, they might just leave me....then I'd have no one...

[Atomic Samurai]

I don't know if I am a real friend...
I was just thinking, I have a ton of secrets I keep from my friends, and family. The only person I have told are some people online and my sister. I-I am just too shy to tell them. To tell them I have anxiety and bipolar, to tell them I'd rather be a boy, to tell them I am asexual, to tell them I am aromantic....
Then again, if I did, they might just leave me....then I'd have no one...

Trust me, you're a fine friend. I myself am an Anti-social Pansexual Iners, and I have no told my friends ( Or family ) of any of this, but I am still a good friend to them, hang out with them, talk to them happily alot. You're fine, trust me, you're a great friend.
( I apologize if this doesn't help, again with the whole Anti-social thing )

[Thalassic]

So... He's never gonna realize that he doesn't really love her. He likes her because she's pretty. That's not how it works. It just cuts me to the core to watch him claim he's in love when it's all just an opinion, especially since he has a place in my heArt that no one else will ever earn. So if I was pretty he'd like me. It hurts. Please help me... It's so unforgettable... I'll never move on...

You can never get inside another persons head to know if they "really" love someone or just like them for their looks or some other reason, but you have to learn to respect that choosing to be with someone for ANY reason is their choice, and you have no say when it comes to their choice.
I know that one-sided attraction is terrible, but putting yourself in the position that you are now, is just going to extend the pain for you. You have to learn to let go - there are going to be a lot of people that you like, and that don't like you back, just as there will be ones that like you, but you won't like them back. That's just something that happens in life. And you'll have to learn to let go until you find that person whose feelings are mutual.

[mandalorian]

i dont know
i feel like they all dont even care about me
maybe what i think is the truth and they do all hate me
they hate me they hate me they hate me
their lives would be so much better without me if i just maybe hadn't posted on that one thread hhhh

[qwyzxv7]

ok so like, my girlfriend got grounded and her parents took her phone, they found out we were dating by looking through her phone
they're telling her to break up with me
she's not allowed to text me or anything and that's the only way i get to talk with her basically

considering things have been exceptionally well lately
she told me she isn't going to break up, she never will unless something were to occur in the relationship

but i just feel so ugh
like they didn't like me to begin with, in fact they hate just about everyone she associates with (especially me)
they might take her out of our school

i'm getting pretty depressed, moping around all day and oversleeping

i just need advice man

[compass;]

ARE YOU KIDDING ME??

ARE YOU KIDDING MEEEE???

I WAS WORKING SO HARD ON THAT ART AND THEN

'internet explorer has stopped working'

THE PAGE REFRESHED

AND THEN IT'S GONE

*picks up computer and throws*

edit* also I'm really nervous I worked really hard on my form and the art and... idk :C

It happens to us all, it is such a horrible feeling, am I right?! Don't take your anger our on the poor computer though. All I can say is try and draw something different, but don't feel pressured into it. It would feel horrible that your art has been ruined but at least if you draw it again or try something different you can do it even better!

ok so like, my girlfriend got grounded and her parents took her phone, they found out we were dating by looking through her phone
they're telling her to break up with me
she's not allowed to text me or anything and that's the only way i get to talk with her basically

considering things have been exceptionally well lately
she told me she isn't going to break up, she never will unless something were to occur in the relationship

but i just feel so ugh
like they didn't like me to begin with, in fact they hate just about everyone she associates with (especially me)
they might take her out of our school

i'm getting pretty depressed, moping around all day and oversleeping

i just need advice man

I had a friend with this EXACT problem. It was exactly the same not even kidding here. She took it pretty hard when her parents said the two had to break up, and she never actually did it. They secretly stayed together and told everyone they broke up. You could do this, but be very, very wary and make sure no one knows if you do. If not, then you guys could still be friends because to be honest, her parents can't decide who is and isn't her friend. Best of luck.

i dont know
i feel like they all dont even care about me
maybe what i think is the truth and they do all hate me
they hate me they hate me they hate me
their lives would be so much better without me if i just maybe hadn't posted on that one thread hhhh

I'm sure they do care about you. People always want to be accepted, so it's easy to think like you are. Talk to them, ask if they hate you. I'm sure they're willing to be open. If they do dislike you then I'm sure you can find people who are worth more than them. <3

I don't know if I am a real friend...
I was just thinking, I have a ton of secrets I keep from my friends, and family. The only person I have told are some people online and my sister. I-I am just too shy to tell them. To tell them I have anxiety and bipolar, to tell them I'd rather be a boy, to tell them I am asexual, to tell them I am aromantic....
Then again, if I did, they might just leave me....then I'd have no one...

It is okay to keep secrets. They're your own personal thoughts, almost like opinions in a way. You don't have to tell them if you don't want to so don't feel pressured. If you do decide to tell someone it should be your parents first. They will always love you no matter who or what you want to become. Your life will always matter to them the most so don't be scared to tell them something. I did that once and I regretted it. If you ever need to talk about your secrets, you do have your sister and online people who should always support you. And of course me, if you ever need to chat, pm me.

I do love outright being told i just dont or cant exist as im part of a system
As if it makes me less of a valid person
With thoughts and feelings and opinions

There are many
Many
Words i have for the person saying this to me
Words that cannot be said here

Im livid
Someone stop me from breaking something

Im already having a hard enough time with nava being in recovery
When theyre the person im closest to here
I did not need this cherry on top
-Ophiuchus

You belong in your system as much as anyone else does. I don't know much about the multiple systems but I know enough to know that everyone deserves to be respected in their system. Don't be upset about Nava, once they recover they will be so proud of you for not giving in. Stay strong. I really don't know what else to say. Maybe you can all sort it out when you have a meeting. Best of luck. x

So for the past week or so, I've been thinking about intelligence.

And it's dawned on me that everyone around me is miles better than me at everything. I feel so dumb and useless, and everyone scores higher on the reading tests [SRI, ahem, not sure if anyone here knows about that] everyone gets the answers to math problems quicker than me, all the people around me are just smarter than me.

And it bothers me. I wasn't "arrogant" or anything like that, but I hadn't really thought of it before. I thought that I was fairly unintelligent, but now that I've started to compare myself to other people, I feel so mediocre, and it feels like being left in the dust. Even my younger sister is better than me at math [quite literally.]

I don't know, I feel so terrible about all of this, and everyone here has larger problems than me and I just sorta wanna crawl in a hole and die.

I suck too. There will always be things you're not perfect at, but don't feel like you're dumb or useless. Eventually, you will find something that you are really good at, maybe even better than anyone. It will all take time. You're problems are just as important as anyone elses, so don't feel bad or upset. You will find something good about yourself, I believe in you!! You don't have to be the fastest or a wiz at English or Math, as long as you can answer the questions decently. <3

[Thalassic]

I can't stand my parents.
I can't stand my brothers.
Someone is always in my room 100% of the time and I have absolutely no privacy, safe space or personal space to keep my things at all.
It's annoying on the best of days, but right now I really don't know what to do with myself. I'm so pissed off it's making my head hurt.