| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[i<3 wolves678]

I just can't right now.
I only got back to school on Monday and I literally cannot take it.
Nearly every single one of my classes is filled with horrible people who's only aim in life appears to be ruining mine. I've only been back a few days, yet I feel like I've been treated like dirt every single one.
I feel like nobody ever understands me, and the one thing I hate more than anything is those stupid teachers who are all like "oh, I understand you!" When they clearly don't. If they truly understood me, they would know that I don't want them bothering me. Don't even get me started on the girl that bullied me since the start of school sitting right in front of me in Spanish class and doing the stupid innocent act as if she never did anything to me.she was horrible to me, my friends, and I just want her to stop and leave me alone. I never did anything to the people who are like this, yet for some reason they find it acceptable to destroy every little piece of confidence inside of me. I guess I should just be glad I still have my friends. They stick by me, but they have no idea of how insignificant these people make me feel.

On another note, I literally feel like I want to smash my iPad/laptop/whatever I'm on everytime I'm on another site and see the word 'autistic' being senselessly thrown around as an insult. I'm autistic and it highly offends me. In fact, I feel like this everytime I see similar words being used as insults.

I'm sorry about what other people are doing to you as you really do deserve far better than that and you always have and I know its difficult when people really do have no reasons to be like this towards you however try not to let them get to you and ignore them in the best way you can as in all honesty they don't deserve even one second of such a brilliant individuals time and they never will and its clear there trying to get a reaction from you however if you ignore them they will see that eventually its pointless and they will stop so don't even waste your time thinking about them and don't let them bring you down as your far better than that and you always have been and you can show them that your so much better than they think because I know you are and you won't be in school forever and you will be able to have a future with far better mature and respectful people as long as you keep trying and don't give up and perhaps it might be worth telling a teacher as they might be able to help keep an eye on the actions of the people who are treating you so rudely and be able to help stop them however no matter what happens always remember that there will be people out there who care and love you for just being you and they are the people who will matter most so try not to let other people get to you (unfortunately I have to go now however I hope this helps and if anyone might like you could always pm me and I will get back to the pms in the morning also sorry if there's any spelling mistakes I'm on my phone ;-;)

I came back online today to this wonderful reply, thank you so much, this really made my day <3
Today was much better, because I didn't see most of the people who are horrible to me, although I won't doubt they will start bothering me again tomorrow. I try to ignore them like people tell me to do, but I just feel that they won't ever leave me alone.

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

i can't take it anymore
My hair is a mess
I keep being told to cut it
People are still bullying me
I feel so alone and sad
I have hardly any friends
I wish I was cool

[hatun !]

i can't take it anymore
My hair is a mess
I keep being told to cut it
People are still bullying me
I feel so alone and sad
I have hardly any friends
I wish I was cool

Darling, honey, you ARE cool. Everyone is different, unique, and beautiful. People who bully you are just jealous of your long, maybe-frizzy hair, your beautiful eyes and pretty personality. You don't have friends yet... but you should know that inside you have alot of friends, like the ones on here, the ones who help you and spend their time for you. People who say "cut your ugly hair" are again jealous. Do what's best for you, and it's your life. Live your life as it is, as you want, accomplish your dreams. Tomorrow is another chance to show people what you're made of, and what you are...!

[Thalassic]

It hasn't even been 2 weeks and I'm feeling really anxious around some of my teachers..

The thing is, the uni can't afford to let them go because they literally just have no one who could take their place. And what does this lead to? Teachers who think they can literally do anything they want.

In the past it never got very bad. The worst was that one of my teachers hardly ever showed up. But we could live with that. Now, however, some of them make very.. inappropriate jokes, some of which are very hateful towards certain races and ethnicities and genders. One of them comes to lessons drunk of hungover, and once he was even drinking during our lesson. And my mom just told me that another teacher has a reputation of taking pictures of female students who dress in short skirts, for example.

All of this just.. makes me so uncomfortable.. but.. it's not like anyone can do anything about them. And if I go to file a report against them, I can't make it anonymous. And I'm far too scared of any of them confronting me.

[Montgomery Gator]

We need to stay strong guys.. please I know its hard..

[connoisseur]

gonna pop in.

school's starting and that means a whole another couple of tireless months of drama, grades, stress, and anxiety. but you could make it more easier by trying to have better self-esteem. yeah, its hard to believe in your self, but sometimes you just have to realize you aren't the only one. alot of people are going through struggles throughout their life, but remember to stay strong.

having a hard time at school? look up studying tips, organization tips, take notes. dont know how to take proper notes? read guides, write down key points. try your hardest. try quizlet! test yourself. dont understand something taught in class? try asking questions, or somebody that knows. if not, look it up! { links; quizlet, motivation to study, essay writing, studying tips, math problem you can't solve?, calculators ( graphing, etc ), public speaking tips, how to make a study guide, school survival guide! ( !!! good guide !!!) }

need to calm down/peace? take a warm bath, try going outside more ( nice weather can improve moods ), exercise, try drawing or writing, organize your room, learn something new, speak to somebody about it, ask for advice, listen to music, watch funny videos, do your hair, try something new! { links; managing stress, calm.com ( audio ), rain ( audio ), soundrown, 100 things to do, cool koala circle thing!, line thing }

feeling sad, or depressed? take a deep breath, think about all the things that are making you worry, and breath out. let everything thats bothering you out in that breath. listen to calming music, try doing something new. do something you find fun; like drawing, gaming, watching TV. talk to somebody about it. know that things can get better. don't just lay around, and try something different. { links; compliments, plant flowers ( game), space/galaxy maker, the quiet place, read a book, how to love yourself, cute/relaxing games }

also, if you need to let out a rant, ask for advice, or just need a friend/somebody to talk to; my pm inbox is open! you are not wasting my time, worrying me, bothering me, or giving me a burden.

pm me whenever you need to. you are worth my time. ♡

[hellebore]

I didn't mean it like that. ;-; She takes everything as arrogance. I just so happen to know something she doesn't, then all of the sudden I said something in an arrogant tone, or worded something misinterpreted, or I just shouldn't have said anything because I was 'just trying to sound smarter'.
I know things sometimes. ;-; I like to learn things when I get home from school, and become excited to find my newfound knowledge useful.
My brother doesn't act this way. He's really proud of me, constantly praising me, even when I say and do nothing. He doesn't find me arrogant- in fact, he's arrogant for me, telling everyone I'm going to go to Harvard, that I know everything about every animal, that I'm the family genius. Meanwhile, I'm blushing and stressing over what impossibly high expectations those comments give me, even if they are jokes. When I do say something he finds of uncommon knowledge, I get praised all the more.
My mom praises my knowledge when I'm not using it.

It's not like I'm correcting her everywhere and belittling her. Usually I'm just adding on to what she already said, with the occasional, non disrespectful correction.
"Ducks have four legs."
"I... I think you mean two."
"Don't be arrogant!"

Or

"Ducks have wings."
"They also swim in water."
"I know things too; don't be arrogant!"

[emerson royale,]

I didn't mean it like that. ;-; She takes everything as arrogance. I just so happen to know something she doesn't, then all of the sudden I said something in an arrogant tone, or worded something misinterpreted, or I just shouldn't have said anything because I was 'just trying to sound smarter'.
I know things sometimes. ;-; I like to learn things when I get home from school, and become excited to find my newfound knowledge useful.
My brother doesn't act this way. He's really proud of me, constantly praising me, even when I say and do nothing. He doesn't find me arrogant- in fact, he's arrogant for me, telling everyone I'm going to go to Harvard, that I know everything about every animal, that I'm the family genius. Meanwhile, I'm blushing and stressing over what impossibly high expectations those comments give me, even if they are jokes. When I do say something he finds of uncommon knowledge, I get praised all the more.
My mom praises my knowledge when I'm not using it.

It's not like I'm correcting her everywhere and belittling her. Usually I'm just adding on to what she already said, with the occasional, non disrespectful correction.
"Ducks have four legs."
"I... I think you mean two."
"Don't be arrogant!"

Or

"Ducks have wings."
"They also swim in water."
"I know things too; don't be arrogant!"

Sweetie, she's just jealous. Even if you aren't being arrogant, some people take things the wrong way, and it really sucks sometimes. I'm sorry but great knowledge comes with the fact that people will think you're belittling them. *internet hug*

[lonecowboy]

can someone please pm me it's really urgent i've been struggling so hard the past few days and i really need advice

[little deer ☆]

Someone mind PMing me? :/