LIKE A BOSS wrote:I beat my self up over the stupidest things. Well i got and F in fcs and i dont know what i did wrong!!!!!!!
my mom likes her stupid girlfriend more than me. I hate her girlfriend so much. But i have no right to. Im stupid. I wish i had the guts to run.
I understand how you feel however try not to be so harsh on yourself as yes you may have made mistakes however we all do as its these mistakes that we learn from as on one is perfect and perhaps if your unsure about what you do wrong ask a teacher as they will be able to tell you and help you improve and no matter what happens try not to give up as all of your hard work will always be worth it in the end and if you might ght like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little I hope this helps c:
Smolder wrote:People don't seem to understand why I don't always handle art criticism very well
It's not that I think it's perfect, or even remotely good. I see the flaws. I see what I did wrong. Could I try to go back and redo it as a fix? Maybe, but that's not very fun, and for me, art is about fun
For example, when I draw hands, which I don't do much (anthro hands are usually modified paws, when I draw them) people always have to tell me they're not perfect, and try to give me some sort of tip on how to better them
Look, dude. I oftentimes spend several minutes contorting my own hands and looking at references to get the stupid thing down. My drawing doesn't always capture what I'm trying to do. Pointing out the obvious flaws in the work only makes me self conscious, makes me feel like the flaws are so bad, that's all people see. It's discouraging, even if meant well
I handle encouragement best; I don't need to hear how "good" it is (my art sucks lmao, I know) or whatever, I just need to hear anything except another comment on the stuff I'm not good at yet, and how I could do better. I know what I did incorrectly. So please, if you're going to say something about it, say something besides that.
Sorry rant
Feel free to ignore
I'm sorry about what other people have said however try not to let them get to you as your far more wonderful than you think and if you know that you could have made it better then that's all that matters as you wasn't making it the most perfect thing but just a little practice for fun and im sure other people will understand that maybe try to tell them if you can that you wasn't aiming for it to be perfect and was simply doing it for fun however don't let them pull you down yes it can be disappointing when someone points things out however don't let them get to you as you have your strengths as well in your work and nothing can ever change that fact and they are noticed more than you think so try to keep going and keep doing art for fun as it will be worth it in the end and every bit of practice will always be worth it as it helps you progress a little I hope this helps and if you might like you could pm me if you might want to talk about it a little c:
Katevi wrote:There's all these little groups at school. They treat me like im invisible. They don't even acknowledge my existence.
They were my friends, but I don't know what to think of them..
One day outside of school they're totally nice and everything. Then at school with their little group they make me feel like I'm not important.
I don't know what to do.. Every day I'm being ignored :c
It's making me really depressed..
And please don't say "things will get better". Everybody tells me that. But it doesn't. It's been over 5 years of this crap.
Please tell me you've felt this way ;-;
omg i need a cookie right now
I understand how you feel however perhaps it might be worth talking to them about how you feel and telling them that it's upsetting you as you deserve far better respect than This and you always have and I know its difficult for you when people have their own groups however if you feel like its getting too much perhaps it might be worth trying to talk to other people or maybe joining clubs to meet people who have the same interests as you and perhaps might make it easier for you to make friends with them and it might take a while however all of your efforts will always be worth it and quite frankly if they ignore you then that is their loss not yours because they lost the chance to be with a brilliant individual as you really do deserve far better respect and you always have however it won't always be like this as your far more wonderful than you think and you will be able to find people who accepts and appreciated you in every way you more than deserve and no matter what happens try to remember that you are and always will be loved and that you don't have to go through this alone as you could pm me if you might want to talk about it a little I hope this helps and all of your struggles will always be worth it and you can make your future as bright as you want it to be as long as you don't give up you star c: