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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Youngalita » Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:11 am

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so I've been really close friends with a girl lets just call her Isabella (not real name) and we have known each other for already 10 years. We have a lot of sleep overs. And school just came up in a conversation. I said I'm not judging you or your family about this but I think that your school gets all the money instead of my school. Like the amazing friend she is she said I understand you aren't judging me or my family. Then we continued to talk. Then about a week or so later my mother gets a text from isabella's father. My friend sharing her concern for my school told her father and how she wanted to help. She also told him that I told her that. In the text my mom received he told her how my opinion was wrong and I shouldn't talk to them like that and how I offended them. My mom told me that he blames her for my opinions. But they are my opinions and no one else's. I didn't think that could have offended anyone like that. I don't want my friendship with Isabella to end over a silly opioion!

Sound like he needs to get off his high horse, but that's just my opinion. All jokes aside though, why does he care that much? Is he being greedy? I'm not understanding the entire situation, but if "Isabella" Is a truly good friend, she will understand and still be friends with you. :)

I beleive he doesn't want his daughter to have her own opinions. And I'm afraid that he won't let me see her again.



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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:15 am

Bruxelles37 wrote:I have a friend who is always very competitive popularity/friend wise. Whenever I hang out with her and another friend I have, she gets so clingy to the other friend, tries to make me jealous, and tries to leave me ouut. But the thing is I'm not sure if they realized until today, and they are still doing it. We were all three at the pool today, and they said, "oh I'm going to get a glass of water for you," and told the other friend to come with her. They ended up fooling around without me and when I finally came up to them and asked where they were, they said they were waiting for me, which isn't what they originally had told me. But something bothers me more. Just because they are both blonde she feels as if they are closer together. She is super stereotypical and thinks she is the "dumb blonde" and always is trying to make her hair more blonde with this special shampoo. If she wasn't, I'm sure in a few years she wouldn't be blonde anymore. Anyways, she says that she and my other friend are alone, they call me the "brain". And she knows that [censors] me off. A couple years ago I was only known as the brain with everyone, and so i was nerd girl. I still can't make friends easily because if that. I want to be know as something else. I want to be known as friendly, artistic, approachable, known to dress nice. And she has to come in and call me the brain. As my best friend, she should know better than to upset me with past memories. The worst part, they're still doing it. Please help, I don't know what to do. This really upsets me and I feel as if she's turning the other friend against me, or will fully trying to make my other friend like her more. Which is what she did with a lot of my friends, and honestly I am a little jealous.. I just need to know what to do. Thanks :(

I understand how you feel however try not to let them get to you and don't let them take advantage of your kind personality as you deserve far better respect than that and you always have and even though it can be difficult don't be afraid to go your own way as if they are making things far more upsetting for you sometimes it's best to leave a friendship than continue with it as it shows them you wont just sit there and take it when they call you things that clearly upsets you and you wont keep forgiving them for treating you so badly as you really do deserve far more than that and perhaps it might take a while however believe me you will find far better friends who treats and respects you in every way you more than deserve and will genuinely make you happy so try not to let those two get to you as they don't matter nor ever will and if they wanted to be your friend then they should have realized that they needed to appreciate and respect you more as a individual as believe me it's more than you deserve and sometimes its best to take a break from them as it makes them realize how lucky they was to have such a wonderful and fantastic person around them and perhaps if you do talk to them tell them how you feel and don't hide away your opinions as you deserve a chance to speak out just as much as anyone does however don't be jealous i understand it's difficult for you however believe me all of this pain will be worth it in the end as you will find people who will love and respect for just being you and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it as you don't have to go through this alone and no matter what happens don't let them get to you and show them that you don't need them as believe me someone as amazing as you really can do far better if you keep trying you star and i hope this helps a little c:


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so I've been really close friends with a girl lets just call her Isabella (not real name) and we have known each other for already 10 years. We have a lot of sleep overs. And school just came up in a conversation. I said I'm not judging you or your family about this but I think that your school gets all the money instead of my school. Like the amazing friend she is she said I understand you aren't judging me or my family. Then we continued to talk. Then about a week or so later my mother gets a text from isabella's father. My friend sharing her concern for my school told her father and how she wanted to help. She also told him that I told her that. In the text my mom received he told her how my opinion was wrong and I shouldn't talk to them like that and how I offended them. My mom told me that he blames her for my opinions. But they are my opinions and no one else's. I didn't think that could have offended anyone like that. I don't want my friendship with Isabella to end over a silly opioion! I'm just so scared! And I know I need to watch my tongue

I understand how you feel however try not to be scared as your friend wouldn't want you to feel like this just because of her father and i'm sure she will do her best to clear things up with him and i know it might be difficult however perhaps if you have offended her family maybe tell them that your sorry as you never had any intentions to offend them and i'm sure they will understand that eventually however i don't believe that you said anything wrong as it's simply your opinion and quite frankly everyone has a right to have a opinion and i hope he realizes that as you deserve far better treatment than that and i'm sure she will still talk to you despite what has happened as no one can tell anyone who they can and cant be friends with as that decision will always remain with her however try not to feel scared if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it and i hope this helps.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby blue neighbourhood » Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:38 am

i'm crying
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Shiny Sylveon » Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:41 am

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Shiny Sylveon wrote:Just got a shiny charmander with 6 ivs...but the same thing happened with my eevee. Sorry person! D: Feel like a jerk again.


Well, once I wt'd a wurmple for a shiny donphan... and then another time for a shiny ferroseed... did I feel bad...? yeah... but well, it's a shiny. they probably shouldn't have put a shiny in a WONDER TRADE XD

Even so, such a perfect shiny deserves more than a MAGIKARP! I just got a shiny Rayquaza from wt, but I don't remember the trade. I was happy, but I still felt bad. XD
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:43 am

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby I r o n. » Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:06 am

I want to go with them, I want to go to a place I haven't been since I was 6. Why wont you let me? I don't wanna go to their house for dinner I don't care. Youre so rude. Let me go, please, I hate you. I'm doing things bymyself, I wish I had a differnet family.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby snowflake ;; » Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:17 am


UGH.
yeah.
JUST FEEL FREE TO RUIN MY LIFE MORE.
IDK WHY I'M STILL EVEN IN THE SAME HOUSE AS YOU.
I DON'T KNOW WHY I DIDN'T QUIT BEING HERE YEARS AGO.
YOU ALREADY HAD TO BRING HER BACK, AND USE HER TO
"TARGET" ME. WHY DON'T YOU JUST TAKE IT ALL. HUH?!??!
IDC ABOUT YOUR STUPID WHATEVER ANYMORE, JUST LEAVE
ME ALONE. I HAD TO WALK FOR 8 STRAIGHT HOURS, AND YOU
COULDN'T EVEN LET ME REST BEFORE THEATNING TO THROW IT
ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OUT. WELL GO AHEAD.
I.
D.ON'T
C.CARE
ANYMORE

YEAH. KEEP GOING.
THROW IT ALL AWAY.
CAUSE IT'S AND I'M ALL WORTH NOTHING.
KEEP GOING.


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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby little deer » Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:23 am

    Peggy Sue died.
    She was around five.
    She didn't trust anyone, but she always liked me when I lived there.
    And she passed away.
    I cannot deal with anymore animal friends passing.
    I just...
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Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:25 am

junebug. wrote:staycalmstaycalmstaycalmstaycalmstaycalm

*takes a deep breath and holds breath*

RAAAAAAAAAAAA

*goes back to dark cave and does art*

I understand how you feel however perhaps it might be worth having a little break before you start drawing as it might help letting your mind relax a little and let the idea's flow to you when your not seeking for them also if your wanting idea's maybe listen to some music while your doing art as sometimes it can help motivate and inspire while your creating however don't push yourself too much i understand it's difficult however take your time as all the idea's you have in the end will be worth it i hope this helps c:


I r o n. wrote:I want to go with them, I want to go to a place I haven't been since I was 6. Why wont you let me? I don't wanna go to their house for dinner I don't care. Youre so rude. Let me go, please, I hate you. I'm doing things bymyself, I wish I had a differnet family.

I'm sorry that your feeling like this as you deserve so much better and you always have however try not to give up as all of your effort's in convincing them to do what you want to do will be worth it in the end and at least you can say that you tried your best and i know it's difficult for you right now however try to tell them how you feel as i'm sure they will understand and even if they don't listen at least you got your opinion to them and that's what matters most and i know it can perhaps feel disappointing however try not to be so harsh on yourself as believe me their will always be plenty more opportunities in future to go to where you want to go and with who you like and i'm sure the people who you want to go with wouldn't want you feeling like this so try to stay strong and keep being that wonderful person that i know you are as it will always be worth it in the end and things wont always be like this as you can do what you want to do as long as you keep trying and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little.


sиσω♡ωеɑsеℓ wrote:

UGH.
yeah.
JUST FEEL FREE TO RUIN MY LIFE MORE.
IDK WHY I'M STILL EVEN IN THE SAME HOUSE AS YOU.
I DON'T KNOW WHY I DIDN'T QUIT BEING HERE YEARS AGO.
YOU ALREADY HAD TO BRING HER BACK, AND USE HER TO
"TARGET" ME. WHY DON'T YOU JUST TAKE IT ALL. HUH?!??!
IDC ABOUT YOUR STUPID WHATEVER ANYMORE, JUST LEAVE
ME ALONE. I HAD TO WALK FOR 8 STRAIGHT HOURS, AND YOU
COULDN'T EVEN LET ME REST BEFORE THEATNING TO THROW IT
ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OUT. WELL GO AHEAD.
I.
D.ON'T
C.CARE
ANYMORE

YEAH. KEEP GOING.
THROW IT ALL AWAY.
CAUSE IT'S AND I'M ALL WORTH NOTHING.
KEEP GOING.

I'm sorry that your feeling this way however your not worthless as your more lovely than you think and you deserve far more respect and appreciation for just simply being you as your far more lovely than you think and you always have been and i know it's hard when others keep pushing you however believe me it wont always be this way and all of this pain and anger your feeling will go eventually as long as you keep trying and i understand it's difficult however don't let them change you as your a wonderful and fantastic indivudal and you always have been from the start so show them that your far better than they think as believe me you are and your so much stronger and mature than them so don't let them get to you and try your best to ignore them even if it's tough to as they aren't worth such an amazing persons time and they most certainly don't deserve to be in your head so try not to think about them and if you feel like it's getting too much perhaps listen to some calm relaxing music and try to have a little time by yourself as it wont always be like this despite how hard that may seem to believe and if you might like you could pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however don't give up as your so much better than that and you are and always will be loved for just being you as your far more wonderful than you could ever imagine and i hope this helps a little


little deer wrote:
    Peggy Sue died.
    She was around five.
    She didn't trust anyone, but she always liked me when I lived there.
    And she passed away.
    I cannot deal with anymore animal friends passing.
    I just...

I understand how you feel as it is difficult to loose those that you love however i try to think of it as you never really lost them as they will always be in your heart and nothing can ever change that fact and even though you might not be able to see them they still love you and always will as you have helped make their lives wonderful and happy and that is more than they could ever ask for however try not to be upset i know it's difficult however believe me they would never want you to feel like this just because of them and they would always want you to carry on being that brilliant and kindhearted person that you have always been and they will never leave you as they will be in your heart and no one can take that away from you and i understand it's difficult however you don't have to go through this alone as if you might like you could always pm me as you are more loved and cared about than you realize and i hope that things improve for you soon as you more than deserve to be happy
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby arabella !! » Sun Sep 06, 2015 9:31 am

I r o n. wrote:I want to go with them, I want to go to a place I haven't been since I was 6. Why wont you let me? I don't wanna go to their house for dinner I don't care. Youre so rude. Let me go, please, I hate you. I'm doing things bymyself, I wish I had a differnet family.

Aww! -Huggles-. :c It seems like you're having a really tough time right now, but don't fret and try not to think like that. I'm sure everyone loves and care about you, good luck with everything hun and feel free to PM me if you want to chat! <3

little deer wrote:
    Peggy Sue died.
    She was around five.
    She didn't trust anyone, but she always liked me when I lived there.
    And she passed away.
    I cannot deal with anymore animal friends passing.
    I just...

Aw, -hugs tight-. xc Sorry about your loss, I hope everything gets better for you soon. We all feel this way way sometimes, that we can't deal with the stress of losing someone. But don't worry dear! <3

junebug. wrote:staycalmstaycalmstaycalmstaycalmstaycalm

*takes a deep breath and holds breath*

RAAAAAAAAAAAA

*goes back to dark cave and does art*

-Huggles-. Whatever it is, I hope you keep doing the things you love. Nothing should pull you down hun, everything will be alright. Take care! <3

sиσω♡ωеɑsеℓ wrote:

UGH.
yeah.
JUST FEEL FREE TO RUIN MY LIFE MORE.
IDK WHY I'M STILL EVEN IN THE SAME HOUSE AS YOU.
I DON'T KNOW WHY I DIDN'T QUIT BEING HERE YEARS AGO.
YOU ALREADY HAD TO BRING HER BACK, AND USE HER TO
"TARGET" ME. WHY DON'T YOU JUST TAKE IT ALL. HUH?!??!
IDC ABOUT YOUR STUPID WHATEVER ANYMORE, JUST LEAVE
ME ALONE. I HAD TO WALK FOR 8 STRAIGHT HOURS, AND YOU
COULDN'T EVEN LET ME REST BEFORE THEATNING TO THROW IT
ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OUT. WELL GO AHEAD.
I.
D.ON'T
C.CARE
ANYMORE

YEAH. KEEP GOING.
THROW IT ALL AWAY.
CAUSE IT'S AND I'M ALL WORTH NOTHING.
KEEP GOING.

Awww, -huggssss-. ;; Try to relax and take a deep breath hun, I'm sure everything is fine. Just let it aaaaallll out! Good luck with everything. <33


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