Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Lazy9248]

I'm excited that Wednesday night marching band practices have started up. c: My crush plays tenor sax (and electric bass c:) and I get to talk to him a lot (we have no classes/lunch together). He always seems to pick me out in a crowd and he likes to joke around with me. He's kinda a shy-ish person and he only messes with me. We have kool-aid at band and he always tries to block me from getting it...

Also, when we stand in band, I catch him staring at me a lot. He tries to look away but I usually make faces at him to let him know that I caught him... c: Sorry... Kinda random/awkward story thingy... If you have any advice or think he likes me, please feel free to pm me... c: Thanks!

[Me <3]

From what I have read I definitely believe he has stronger feelings for you than friendship, and it sounds as if the feeling is mutual. I know for a lot of people I know, including myself, the guy I like is constantly in my head a it pops up at random times. It's very distracting, like the thought is tap dancing in the back of my head. Your mum noticing either means that he was staring at you so mic it's obvious he likes you, or she wants you two to be together. My mum is always bothering me about the guy I like. I recommend watching and seeing what he does around other girls. Does he treat you differently? But beware, this happened to a good friend of mine, that the love interest may have a sibling affection for you, while yours may not.

I hope this helps you!

Ok I may just be over reacting but he hasn't e-mailed me in like 5 days that a lot for him not to e-mail me. I'm afraid I some how made him feel sad last Friday. I was actually talking to some people in my old band and people that are my sisters band friends. But when we passed I just said hi because I'm kind of shy some times I didn't even say his name do you think I may have hurt his feelings? Or do you think he just is really busy with school? HELP!

[kafka]

Ok I may just be over reacting but he hasn't e-mailed me in like 5 days that a lot for him not to e-mail me. I'm afraid I some how made him feel sad last Friday. I was actually talking to some people in my old band and people that are my sisters band friends. But when we passed I just said hi because I'm kind of shy some times I didn't even say his name do you think I may have hurt his feelings? Or do you think he just is really busy with school? HELP!

I think you're slightly over-reacting c:
There are always situations where people do not have time to email you, or simply forget. I'm pretty sure most people wouldn't get offended if you didn't greet them properly either. Just wait and see if he emails you later and if he doesn't, spend a little more time with him the next school day.

[Lana1171]

So a guy was messaging me though my iPad today and found out I liked him I am like stressed out so much now here's how the conversation went:

Him: Why would you like talking to me, no one talks to me D:
Me: because
Him: why?
Me: if I say you might k*** me lol (we were joking around with each other please note that)

A couple of minutes later
Him: I annoy you heaps
Me: I don't call it annoying
Him: what would you call it
Me: more like flirting... But a lot of boys annoy me
Him: flirting? you like me?
Him: I knew it! (:

Then he just says how do I know this is you not your nosy friends... I said it was me and told him that and he said to me he knew all along even his best friend knew which turns out to be his ex.... why would he be talking about me to his best friend/ex I'm confused he didn't even say he liked me back or anything.. At Lunch time he was normal and kept slightly pushing me side to side, after woods we walked out of school together e said he tells his ex everything but there just friends and how he doesn't care and he wouldn't yell at me if I did like him and how his only a human and that.. what should I do tomorrow hide? Stay home.... Lol

[clarabow]

On the first day of school, we were taken for a tour in individual groups. In my group, I met this one kid who kept trying to talk to me. The moment I heard him talking, I realized I loved the kind of person he was. Funny, friendly and a little sweet.

Of course, I'm so dumb so even though I could've had a whole day to talk to him, every time he tried to talk to me to bug me or get me to speak or whatever, I said things to push him away. And that's what I did, I pushed him away from me, way out of my reach, when secretly I wanted so badly to get to know him better. (It was the first and last time I ever talked to him, never met him before because he was from a different school)

So yeah. Just had to rant about how I pretended to be rude and annoyed of this guy who was trying to be fun and friendly with me. And how I totally regret it because the only reason I did so was because I actually really, really liked him. Whether that be romantically, or just in general, I really really really liked him. And because of that, I forced him away.

Wow...great. And now every time I see him, because I do everyday, I get butterflies because it turns out I still think he's an awesome person, far better than my last (and current) crush.

I just had to rant, I'm sorry..I just hate myself. He showed he really liked me in a friendly way on that first day of school (last Tuesday) and I made him go away. Without any further reason or excuse to ever talk to him again. WHY AM I SO DUMB

[Pikmin12]

So a guy was messaging me though my iPad today ande found out I liked him I am like stressed out so much now here's how the conversation went:

Him: Why would you like talking to me, no one talks to me D:
Me: because
Him: why?
Me: if I say you might k*** me lol (we were joking around with each other please note that)

A couple of minutes later
Him: I annoy you heaps
Me: I don't call it annoying
Him: what would you call it
Me: more like flirting... But a lot of boys annoy me
Him: flirting? you like me?
Him: I knew it! (:

Then he just says how do I know this is you not your nosy friends... I said it was me and told him that and he said to me he knew all along even his best friend knew which turns out to be his ex.... why would he be talking about me to his best friend/ex I'm confused he didn't even say he liked me back or anything.. At Lunch time he was normal and kept slightly pushing me side to side, after woods we walked out of school together e said he tells his ex everything but there just friends and how he doesn't care and he wouldn't yell at me if I did like him and how his only a human and that.. what should I do tomorrow hide? Stay home.... Lol

I believe he likes you! He sounded pretty happy about you liking him. About the ex thing, he may have been talking to (her?) about you because he does not know what to do, and I know a few people who remained friends with their ex. It was because they felt more like friends that a couple. Anyhoodle, he isn't mad or shunning you do that is a plus! I recommend waiting a bit and seeing how things work out!

[vanilla kitten]

so yesterday you basically broke me by not talking to me.
i went to get my stuff
and you just basically made me feel like i wasnt there
like i shouldnt be there in the first place
you made me feel bad about myself like always

and then today in gym i'm going to get my volleyball
and you dont see it
and you accidentally kick it
and i just sigh because now i have to go run for it
but you say something to me thats not rude for a change
and you tell me you didn't mean to and then,
"can i have a hug?"
and you pull me into a hug and i protest but then i just
i don't know
i should hate you
i should wish that you were dead
i should want you to be away from me
and i do
but when you do things to me i flutter inside (shouldnt i be over the butterflies?)
and i don't know what i want
but i know it doesn't concern you because you dont care
at all

but why do you live to confuse me like this
and why do you want everyone to hate me and why
i dont understand

please stop. i don't love you like i did yesterday.

[Keletheryl]

So basically, I've been hooking up with this guy.

Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?

[Lana1171]

So a guy was messaging me though my iPad today ande found out I liked him I am like stressed out so much now here's how the conversation went:

Him: Why would you like talking to me, no one talks to me D:
Me: because
Him: why?
Me: if I say you might k*** me lol (we were joking around with each other please note that)

A couple of minutes later
Him: I annoy you heaps
Me: I don't call it annoying
Him: what would you call it
Me: more like flirting... But a lot of boys annoy me
Him: flirting? you like me?
Him: I knew it! (:

Then he just says how do I know this is you not your nosy friends... I said it was me and told him that and he said to me he knew all along even his best friend knew which turns out to be his ex.... why would he be talking about me to his best friend/ex I'm confused he didn't even say he liked me back or anything.. At Lunch time he was normal and kept slightly pushing me side to side, after woods we walked out of school together e said he tells his ex everything but there just friends and how he doesn't care and he wouldn't yell at me if I did like him and how his only a human and that.. what should I do tomorrow hide? Stay home.... Lol

I believe he likes you! He sounded pretty happy about you liking him. About the ex thing, he may have been talking to (her?) about you because he does not know what to do, and I know a few people who remained friends with their ex. It was because they felt more like friends that a couple. Anyhoodle, he isn't mad or shunning you do that is a plus! I recommend waiting a bit and seeing how things work out!

Hey! Thanks for helping me out but I'm really happy to say we're girlfriend and boyfriend just not to the public yet (: I'm happy

[FoxerOwl]

Ohmygod before I continue I get nervous easily cx

So I was hanging out with my friend Sam at lunch when we went to the other side of the school, where my crush was sitting with a girl (who has a crush on him... //sobs softly) and the girl, Lindsay, if Sam's cousin. So she sits next to Lindsay, both on the left side of the hall with Tanner (crush) on the other side. So I sat across from Sam, about two feet away from my crush. I FREAKED OUT.

Anyways, they talked for like 30 seconds and then I jumped up and said "Imma go find... Kolby yeah bye!" I ran away, with my mind racing omg ;A;

So my question is, will a guy, if he likes you, normally sit there and not say a word, or tease and flirt with you?

Also, do you think me running away so suddenly freaked him out or discouraged him?

Thanks <3