Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[c h r i s t m a s]

Thanks but around his friends he's the same he laughs and me and him basiclly laugh together and he's nice. Im friends with his friends and we all hang out a lot. He says he's trying toget up the nerve to ask this 'girl' to the dance. He wont tell anyone at all not even his bestfriend. Gahh! So confusing
And your problem
Well what does he like?

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Crap.

Guys, I've forgetting how to play hard to get with a guy that already likes me; now said guy is starting to lose interest.

I repeat: Crap.

Haaallllppp.

[Charlie14]

where do you search for Z I want to try and help you out if I can

[rahleigh]

Today, me and w, and four of our other friends hung out at school, cos no one was there


It was really awesome being with him out of school, when L wasn't there, or P.

His best friend was there, and he kept saying W likes me, but idk.


When my parents came to pick me up, w's best friend said: Your forgot to hug your boyfriend good bye, and I think w blushed


Should I believe his best friend?

[Charlie14]

I am happy to help give advice in this topic on love if anybody needs help or advice

[Refugee]

Okay, so I think I'm going to ask Brian out this week. You know, the guy I've been in love with this whole year?

SO, what are the chances he'll say no? Everyone knows and tells me that he likes me back... so would asking him out in a note be a bad idea? Please help!!! I don't wanna screw this up! If I have to, I will ask him in person but it seems so hard...

NO. NOTES.

Ever. Trust me, no notes.

By the way, don't text him. Talk to him face to face rather than a note, kay? Best way to go. Long story short, people could hold notes against you if you ever break up or if you get rejected. Looking back on them can be sweet if the relationship lasts and works out, but if you ever break up than a note is just another way to mock your ex to make yourself feel better and them feel worse, so it's really not the best idea. Tips on asking people out on the front page. Good luck!

Gees, guys.. those were my only two options. How the heck am I supposed to ask him straight to his face?? I'll die!!

[Jennybug]

i am madly in love with a girl that lives in Richwood Ohio. Her initials ar MLW. Who is she. go to vampire academy in the forums. I have fallen for my fallen angle

[IAmLink]

My significant other and I are having some major problems.

I think we are done...

But being single really doesn't appeal to me...

/sigh

[meerkatgirl]

I haven't even been to this version of the thread, and didn't go on the old one for four or five months, I think. I told myself to stop posting because every single one is just me ranting anyways. Not that much has changed, but honestly, I have no one to actually talk to, because I've never even told anyone in real life about the guy I like - C.

It's not that I was confused, it's just that I haven't wanted to admit anything to myself. A lot's changed though. In four days, it will have been 4 years and 8 months since we met, and since I started to like him. I promised myself months ago that if five years passed and I still liked him, maybe I was in love with him. I broke that promise about a day later. I love him. It's been almost five years, and I still haven't given up, i still get that stupid feeling in my stomach when I see him, even for just a second. We haven't talked in 10 months so far, and I still can't breathe when I look at him. It's like the whole world stops and it's just him, or however the cliche goes.

And I hate it. I wish I could hate him or something, because it's much easier to pretend someone doesn't exist when you hate them, or at least feel nothing towards them. We've (or rather, he has)been pretending that we're complete strangers for 10 months, and he doesn't even glance at me anymore. Funny, I thought we were pretty good friend last year. Yes, he's being immature, but then again, I'm immature too. We both screwed it up, and we both know that, just don't want to admit it. There's still this part of me that thinks he still likes me, from the way he obviously forces himself to go out of his way to avoid me, but there's nothing I can do. I hate it, but it's the truth.

The thing that really sucks though, is that I can't move on. I've tried, trust me, but I compare everyone I meet to him. I've had simple crushes on a few guys, but they went away after a week or so, and it was more my brain trying to convince myself that I had moved on anyway. It really doesn't help that we're practically the same person - we like the same things, have the same sense of humor, same opinion - I sometimes think I have more things in common with him than any of my friends. He's just one of those people who really aren't that special, but to you they're just perfect. Yeah, you can see their imperfections and problems, but for some stupid reason that just makes them better. It makes them real, human. It's what makes them impossible to forget.

Honestly, I didn't mean to write this much, but I should probably cut myself off now anyway. I could go on for pages and pages about him though. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about him. I don't think I've forgotten him in years. It makes letting go that much harder. and in the end? I don't think I'm ever going to forget him. Or get over him for that matter. Yeah I've accepted it, but that doesn't mean I don't hate it. I don't even know why I'm posting this, other than the fact that I just want to tell someone, anyone. It's like I just want the reassurance that someone else is as stupid over someone as I am, even though they have no chance whatsoever at getting them.

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So, good luck everyone else. Don't make the same mistake I did and try to forget someone who's important. You'll grow up, get over yourself, and realize it was the stupidest thing you've ever done.

~MG

[spaceferrari]

He's just one of those people who really aren't that special, but to you they're just perfect. Yeah, you can see their imperfections and problems, but for some stupid reason that just makes them better. It makes them real, human. It's what makes them impossible to forget.

~MG

Oh, this is my problem with Glasses. :c Everything about him, even his downfalls and shortcomings, just seem so perfect to me. The issue is that I don't think his imperfections just make him a better person in general, my mind takes it farther and equates it to Glasses > Ferrari.
I've always had self-esteem issues, but now, a lot of times, I just feel like I'm nothing. It's not a thing Glasses has said or done to make me feel that way, not at all. I don't know why it happens, I just feel like I'm not worthy of his time. I appreciate every minute I get to spend with him, of course. But I still don't think I deserve him. :c