Grim Princess wrote:I've had a crush on a guy for more than a year.... and I'm really shy so I don't talk to him a lot. He also knows that I have a crush on him. One of my best friends likes him too and she's not as shy as me so she'll probably ask him out soon if I don't. Can you give me some advice on what to say to him next time I see him?
If he doesn't know you very well you should, introduce yourself a bit, and just start to talk to him as much as you can. I know it's tough being shy but you can't be shy while building a strong relationship with this boy. Also for your friend, just talk to her about it, and come to a conclusion about him. Hope this helps!
~Slate
.:Ash~cloud:. wrote:hi umm... this is about my best friend who i have known since i was 4. i have had a crush on him since then and i was 4 and a half and i asked him out 3 years ago but he thought it was a joke, sometime when we are alone he kisses me not a peck on the cheek, it will be either a kiss on the lips or he will wait for the perfect moment and kiss me and hold it but the twist is one time i was really enjoying it (being kissed by crush is heaven) and cause i have a bf (who i dont even love i was told he liked me then he asked me out, but 2 years ago we went out, i dumped him and he screamed and beat my best mate up!) and i said you are gonna have to stop i have a bf remember, he said oh yeah and stopped! then we sat there in silence, this was not to long ago, about 2 months....
i dunno weather to ask him out again OR ask why he wont go out with me but he keeps kissing me (he has stopped now and i fell a bit bummed

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i would love some help on this =D god girls and the love issues huh!

thanks from ash
plz post asap seeing him tomorrow hopefully
Yes I know girls with love issues, I probably deal with 2-3 issues a day just through messages ;P But I love to help and I am always wanting to help more people, its my downfall I guess ^-^
Anyways I think it's very sweet that you two have known each other for a long time and already have a very good relationship, but since he has stopped kissing you, thinking you don't like him, you should kiss him. I know it's a bit odd but trust me it will be the best way, just kiss him tomorrow and tell him you like him, and see where it goes from there. Hope this helped!
~Slate