Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[vanilla kitten]

his mom messaged me lastnight. i don't know what it means, i think she wanted me to come over. oh god.. i don't know if i should. i messaged her back this morning when i got on facebook. even though i want to go over there, i don't know if i should.. in the least, i have to get my stuff/give his back. but still.

[Vampyrum Spectrum]

Someone help me, someone help me please. :'(

If you remember me, my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago. He was saying things like "i'm just not feeling it" and that he didn't want to marry me which is ridiculous because we're only in High School. Everything in our relationship was perfect until we broke up. Everything was perfect, except one thing. A girl meddling to break us up so she could be with him. And she succeeded.

He stressed to me a lot that he did not cheat on me and did not break up with me to be with her. But I told him that I gave him one, maybe two weeks or, even rarely, the rest of this month before they start dating. This morning, a day before two weeks since he dumped me, he texted me saying "You gave us a month, and you were right. Just thought I'd let you know."

I can't stop crying. I'm so sad, so angry, so alone and betrayed. I know I can't control who he dates or loves after we have already broken up but it's only been barely two weeks! I'm dying. I can't see them at school tomorrow, I just can't. Their relationship probably won't last long but it hurts so much that she did this to me and he was stupid enough to fall for it. He loved me. He was totally in love with me and she forced him out of it. Now I'm alone and I don't want to be here anymore.

[vvoland]

@vamp
don't mean to be unsympathetic, but forced.? How exactly would she do that.? Each person is a person. They have a mind, and they have feelings. These could be his feelings.

[Vampyrum Spectrum]

Perhaps forced is too potent of a word but she definitely persuaded him. He's easily swayed. I only wish I knew that before I dated him, I never would have then.

[Me <3]

Perhaps forced is too potent of a word but she definitely persuaded him. He's easily swayed. I only wish I knew that before I dated him, I never would have then.

"Break up, make up, and moving on, These are things of love
hard to tell and read but we must leave life as it is
let go of the hate let go of the pain and just remember to breath
forgive, forget, and move on harder then it seems
just take a break and make you voice ring, your amazing don't let that change"

Sorry I had to do that when I read you story this just came to me. I'm saying in the poem thing its ok to feel bad about this. You'll probably hurt for a long time. Just remember though your special and amazing. So what if you and him didn't work out? Their is someone in this world that needs you. Remember that they may need you as their true love as a friend or as yes a parent. Don't give up soon you'll be ok seeing him with other girls and you'll be with other guys.

[Vampyrum Spectrum]

I just don't know. Everything people says involves time and the future but what do I do now? What do I do tomorrow? His locker is right next to mine and she's bound to be hanging on him. I can't stand it. I'm not okay. I have no one.

[panhead]

hello. I'd luff some help!

Alright.for three years I have liked this boy. The first year I liked him, I had told not a soul. We actually hung out, we would talk in the few classes we had together, and we got close. But then the next year I had one class with him, and literally he was all the way across the room from me. So, we never talked. And when we did, it was those stupid conversations. Like "is that your jacket on the lost and found?" Or "can I have some scissors?" Ugh -.- I should have done better things with my time. This year, I am only 4 days into the school year and I am exploding with love. I can't stop. He's in all but two of my classes, and we actually sit really close in science. :3
But lately one of my friends has been talking to him a lot. Like, they call each other and they talk nonstop all day. Just to test something, I squeeze hugged my friend REALLY hard and the first thing she did was call his name. I've already told one of my guy friends (which happen to be my crushes guy friend), and so now it turns out that my guy friend likes my friend, so overall we are both scared to death that something is going on between my girl friend and my crush....

On the positive side of things, my friend told me to keep my chin up and he might feel something for me even if it is the smallest thing, things like that grow, ovo.



Thanks. :3

[king_bear]

well so I found out the girl I was crushing on for two freakin' years is the biggest you-know-what I have ever met.
I was at a party Friday night and she sat next to me and she was just making fun of me and everything and I was so ashamed... gosh girls can be such arrogant btchs sometimes.
gah.

oh and I'm developing a huuuugge crush on Gemma Arterton (see signature) cx idk if I should be happy or not, but I could just stare at her face all day and wonder and everything and this is not good 'cause I'm virtually married and noooh ;n;
I love my panda but this is just agghhh

gosh love is difficult /guesswhofinallyfoundout

[vvoland]

hello. I'd luff some help!

Alright.for three years I have liked this boy. The first year I liked him, I had told not a soul. We actually hung out, we would talk in the few classes we had together, and we got close. But then the next year I had one class with him, and literally he was all the way across the room from me. So, we never talked. And when we did, it was those stupid conversations. Like "is that your jacket on the lost and found?" Or "can I have some scissors?" Ugh -.- I should have done better things with my time. This year, I am only 4 days into the school year and I am exploding with love. I can't stop. He's in all but two of my classes, and we actually sit really close in science. :3
But lately one of my friends has been talking to him a lot. Like, they call each other and they talk nonstop all day. Just to test something, I squeeze hugged my friend REALLY hard and the first thing she did was call his name. I've already told one of my guy friends (which happen to be my crushes guy friend), and so now it turns out that my guy friend likes my friend, so overall we are both scared to death that something is going on between my girl friend and my crush....

On the positive side of things, my friend told me to keep my chin up and he might feel something for me even if it is the smallest thing, things like that grow, ovo.



Thanks. :3

What kind of "help" are you looking for.? Your message didn't make it clear ^•^If you never told your female friend that you liked him, there isn't really a code of ethics restricting her. Maybe she llliked him for three years too, and just decided to make a move.
Or are you asking for help with how to talk to him and whatnot.?

[kafka]

I just don't know. Everything people says involves time and the future but what do I do now? What do I do tomorrow? His locker is right next to mine and she's bound to be hanging on him. I can't stand it. I'm not okay. I have no one. :(

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but if you can't take our advice then we can't help. There is basically nothing we can do if we try to get you to move on but you don't yourself. Maybe you should just do something you enjoy to take your mind off things. A movie? Have some family time? We don't know what works for you.Sorry I just had to say that and I don't like sad faces lol
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Would a guy like you, even at least as a friend, if he always says you're a nice person, can casually ask you what you're doing (none of that awkward “So.... what's up...”) and seems to want to talk to you?

Because I've been chatting online to this guy for about 4 days and I think I like him. I've known him in my class for a whole year but we only recently got each other's emails. We've been chatting none-stop ever since and he actually knows me pretty well now. Sometimes when I'm afk he can guess what I'm doing. Do you think he likes me, even just as a friend? Because 4 days isn't very long and I should't get excited.