Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[panhead]

hello. I'd luff some help!

Alright.for three years I have liked this boy. The first year I liked him, I had told not a soul. We actually hung out, we would talk in the few classes we had together, and we got close. But then the next year I had one class with him, and literally he was all the way across the room from me. So, we never talked. And when we did, it was those stupid conversations. Like "is that your jacket on the lost and found?" Or "can I have some scissors?" Ugh -.- I should have done better things with my time. This year, I am only 4 days into the school year and I am exploding with love. I can't stop. He's in all but two of my classes, and we actually sit really close in science. :3
But lately one of my friends has been talking to him a lot. Like, they call each other and they talk nonstop all day. Just to test something, I squeeze hugged my friend REALLY hard and the first thing she did was call his name. I've already told one of my guy friends (which happen to be my crushes guy friend), and so now it turns out that my guy friend likes my friend, so overall we are both scared to death that something is going on between my girl friend and my crush....



Thanks. :3

[Saren]

So.
Next week marks 11 months of me dating my boyfriend.
And I love him, but there's just one tiny little issue
I'm pretty sure I have a crush on his incredibly attractive best friend, and I think he has a crush on me too. And I think he has for a long time.
Today, there was a big group going to the cinema. I turned up in a cute little dress, and J (my boyfriend) and T (the super-hot best friend) were both staring at my legs.
awkward much
Anyway, T kept making eye contact with me while we were eating. (We went for a Nando's.) And he is really cute.
Did I mention how hot he is?
Like, seriously. Think hottest guy you've ever seen.
Ever.
Now multiply that by like fifty.
...yeah.
But I've been going out with J for nearly a frikking year now! And I don't want T. I just find him attractive.
Incredibly attractive.
...did I mention how attractive I find him?
Anyways... any tips for ending stupid little crushes?
Thanks x

[Crum]

Last night I was at a football game with a bunch of my friends (and my crush!) and we were losing so we left and when to the park. (it was about 9 PM)
My crush (lets call him j) was giving me a piggy back ride and my other friend kept telling j that I like him and he just said 'yeah I know'

One of my friends was bringing me home and we were walking to their car when J stops and tells everyone but me to leave
he talked to me for a little bit about something and then I told him I had to go
he said 'well can I at least have a hug?' so I hugged him and then
he leaned down and started making out with me
like
I just went along with it but oh my gosh
then he stopped and said 'this never happened' and I left and caught up with my other friends
im still freaking out
omg

That's honestly not anything I'd be happy with, and I'm not sure why you would be
If he told you "this didn't happen" than he's kind of a jerk. And really doesn't want to be in a relationship, or whatever. I think a quick kiss wouldn't have been really violating, but it's really cocky to assume,everyone wants to make out with you. He doesn't sound like a good guy to be with ^•^;
Just cautionary advice

It wasn't like that tho he said That because his girlfriend had just broke up with him and he didn't want it getting out its a long story I don't feel like explaining xD

[llamadelrey]

Last night I was at a football game with a bunch of my friends (and my crush!) and we were losing so we left and when to the park. (it was about 9 PM)
My crush (lets call him j) was giving me a piggy back ride and my other friend kept telling j that I like him and he just said 'yeah I know'

One of my friends was bringing me home and we were walking to their car when J stops and tells everyone but me to leave
he talked to me for a little bit about something and then I told him I had to go
he said 'well can I at least have a hug?' so I hugged him and then
he leaned down and started making out with me
like
I just went along with it but oh my gosh
then he stopped and said 'this never happened' and I left and caught up with my other friends
im still freaking out
omg

That's honestly not anything I'd be happy with, and I'm not sure why you would be
If he told you "this didn't happen" than he's kind of a jerk. And really doesn't want to be in a relationship, or whatever. I think a quick kiss wouldn't have been really violating, but it's really cocky to assume,everyone wants to make out with you. He doesn't sound like a good guy to be with ^•^;
Just cautionary advice

It wasn't like that tho he said That because his girlfriend had just broke up with him and he didn't want it getting out its a long story I don't feel like explaining xD

He's bad news, hun.

[Crum]

It really doesn't seem like it tho like he's a really good guy
He said he isn't ready for another relationship I think he feels bad because he knows I like him and he kinda does I think so he was just trying to make me feel better or something I don't know
(I was kind of in a bad mood long story)

[gam]

So.
Next week marks 11 months of me dating my boyfriend.
And I love him, but there's just one tiny little issue
I'm pretty sure I have a crush on his incredibly attractive best friend, and I think he has a crush on me too. And I think he has for a long time.
Today, there was a big group going to the cinema. I turned up in a cute little dress, and J (my boyfriend) and T (the super-hot best friend) were both staring at my legs.
awkward much
Anyway, T kept making eye contact with me while we were eating. (We went for a Nando's.) And he is really cute.
Did I mention how hot he is?
Like, seriously. Think hottest guy you've ever seen.
Ever.
Now multiply that by like fifty.
...yeah.
But I've been going out with J for nearly a frikking year now! And I don't want T. I just find him attractive.
Incredibly attractive.
...did I mention how attractive I find him?
Anyways... any tips for ending stupid little crushes?
Thanks x

Hey, it's okay to think another guy is attractive. there's nothing wrong with being aesthetically pleased with another person, some people are just naturally beautiful, and it's not wrong to appreciate it ;] just don't act on your attraction. Don't advance on him, because that's just. no. just remember how lucky you are to have a happy long term relationship with your boyfriend, appreciate him, and remember why you're with him in the first place. it should go away, mine usually do!

[saturday.]

I'd love to help some people out here right now, but I'm much too worried about my own problems right now. I'msosorry ;-;

anyways... me and my boyfriend have been very distant lately. I mean...it's not even ME, it's HIM. he completely ignores me in school! and when I do try talking to him, he just walks away and talks to this other group....this other group of girls. and he sits with them at lunch and talks to them inbetween periods and everything, but all he does with me all day is just say hi and smile at me. that's it.

like, at lunch and stuff, when I try to talk to him, it's usually just a small conversation that ends when he walks away to hang out with his group of friends.

should I be disturbed that he's spending more time with other girls than he is with me, or am I just worrying about nothing? I feel like such a jealous brat..

[panhead]

sorry double post ouo

[bast,]

I'd love to help some people out here right now, but I'm much too worried about my own problems right now. I'msosorry ;-;

anyways... me and my boyfriend have been very distant lately. I mean...it's not even ME, it's HIM. he completely ignores me in school! and when I do try talking to him, he just walks away and talks to this other group....this other group of girls. and he sits with them at lunch and talks to them inbetween periods and everything, but all he does with me all day is just say hi and smile at me. that's it.

like, at lunch and stuff, when I try to talk to him, it's usually just a small conversation that ends when he walks away to hang out with his group of friends.

should I be disturbed that he's spending more time with other girls than he is with me, or am I just worrying about nothing? I feel like such a jealous brat..

You're being the opposite of a jealous brat. A jealous brat is when a girl see's her man looking at someone else and throws a tantrum. You have complete right to be worried here.

Now, if he seems to be spending more time around these new girls, there's nothing more I can say than to talk to him. After school one day, between passing time, or somewhere else in a public setting, but not so loud where you can't hear each other. Being in a private setting would make it more awkward in case things go wrong (Which I hope they don't!).

I would ask him if you two could talk for a few minutes, and if he says no, don't take that for an answer. Pull him off to the side if you have to, not stomping however. Ask him what's up, and why he's been paying so much attention to these other girls. If he calls you anything bad, whether it be a swear or just jealous, don't hole up and accept that. You obviously don't want to be screaming and demanding, but try and figure out what's been going on with him.

I wish you the best of luck!

[Saren]

So.
Next week marks 11 months of me dating my boyfriend.
And I love him, but there's just one tiny little issue
I'm pretty sure I have a crush on his incredibly attractive best friend, and I think he has a crush on me too. And I think he has for a long time.
Today, there was a big group going to the cinema. I turned up in a cute little dress, and J (my boyfriend) and T (the super-hot best friend) were both staring at my legs.
awkward much
Anyway, T kept making eye contact with me while we were eating. (We went for a Nando's.) And he is really cute.
Did I mention how hot he is?
Like, seriously. Think hottest guy you've ever seen.
Ever.
Now multiply that by like fifty.
...yeah.
But I've been going out with J for nearly a frikking year now! And I don't want T. I just find him attractive.
Incredibly attractive.
...did I mention how attractive I find him?
Anyways... any tips for ending stupid little crushes?
Thanks x

Hey, it's okay to think another guy is attractive. there's nothing wrong with being aesthetically pleased with another person, some people are just naturally beautiful, and it's not wrong to appreciate it ;] just don't act on your attraction. Don't advance on him, because that's just. no. just remember how lucky you are to have a happy long term relationship with your boyfriend, appreciate him, and remember why you're with him in the first place. it should go away, mine usually do!

Thanks, I was never going to act on it but ugh... I just don't want to end up with feelings for him and no feelings for my boyfriend, and to still be dating my boyfriend. Because he's hot, yes, but he's also funny and nice and I wish I was still one of those people who gives everyone hugs! I used to be that person who would always give you a hug if you were sad, and now that I'm getting so many hugs and kisses etc from my boyfriend I'm not giving anyone else hugs. Which is sad, because I used to be that person, and it was a nice person to be.
And both my boyfriend and I get so easily jealous! If he saw me hugging another guy he'd be so upset. So I can't hug T, even though I have plenty of reason to do so at the moment (can't give details because it's very personal).
Just... it's not just his (amazing) looks, it's his funniness and that cute little smile and the way he looked at me yesterday until I caught his eye, and how badly I want to hug him.
go away, feels. you're not wanted here.
Ugh.
That turned out longer than I anticipated.
But anyway, thanks and I'll try to ignore it x