The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[Snowdrop777]

There's a guy I really like, but he has a girlfriend. Me him flirt a lot, but I feel like he only flirts and talks to me because he has nothing better to do (He's girlfriend lives in wales, we're in england) So I've decided I'm going to stop flirting with him and try to show him that I'm not someone he can use in such a way.

But the problem is I only have a very vague idea of how I'm going to do this, does anyone have some suggestions?

[Dangitbobby]

There's a guy I really like, but he has a girlfriend. Me him flirt a lot, but I feel like he only flirts and talks to me because he has nothing better to do (He's girlfriend lives in wales, we're in england) So I've decided I'm going to stop flirting with him and try to show him that I'm not someone he can use in such a way.

But the problem is I only have a very vague idea of how I'm going to do this, does anyone have some suggestions?

Well, first off what's your plan?

[Snowdrop777]

Well I was thinking just the basic really, not talking to him as much or flirting with him as much, if at all. It's going to be a little bit hard since we share that sort of friendship; we tend to flirt with each other a fair bit. I was also thinking I need to maybe find a new love interest who is single as I feel guilty about flirting with him when he has a girlfriend. But at school their isn't anyone I'm interested in, most of the nice guys are taken, and the other ones aren't so nice =/ So the plan is to just drift a little from him, pay less attention to him specifically, though I'm not going to completely ignore him, I don't want to be a bad friend to him.

[Amiko]

It might be easier if one of you PM me the answer to this, because i know i'll forget to check back on here,
anyway,

I've been with this guy for a little over a month now, its our 3rd try. At first everything was perfect, but right after our 1 month he started acting different. He became more irratable to everything i've been doing and gets mad that i don't call him enough.
Well lately i've been calling him at least once- twice a day.....and he never answers... So i've left him a voicemail every time i call for him to call me back and he never does.

(Add in)
on the 30th of last month we started to talk normally though we'd been fighting a lot....and he went off on me and started calling me a lot of differnet things...and said he didn't know why he loved me anymore....I yelled back only to start crying. He got mad about that and we stopped talking for about 10 minutes before i could say i was sorry and i loved him.

I really need some help on what to do. =(

[Prussia]

I hope this isn't too long... I'm reposting this from the "Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends" because I'm not getting any responses. PM is fine. Any advice? <3


So, there's this guy... Lets call him "A". Well, "A" is one year older than me. Well, actually I'm older than him but he's in a grade above me. I started to like him more than a year ago. In that time we talked on facebook everyday and he eventually asked me out. I said yes after much thought. We never really saw each other except a few minutes in the morning of school and I would just give him a hug. It lasted about about 3 weeks because he liked another girl that was REALLY out of his league. He asked her out after we broke up and she said no.

It's been a few months since then and I'm not sure if I like him or not. I know I would be devastated if he went out with another girl but still I find it so much fun to make him mad or depressed. PFFFFT. I'm a horrible person. x'D Now that I'm in marching band I see him alot more. Even though he'll be in high school while I'm still in middle school. :'P But anyways, "A" has been obsessing over this new girl in marching band for a few days now. And we haven't talked much anymore. Figures, everytime he likes me I don't like him and when I like him he doesn't like me. Well, I'm not 100% sure he doesn't like me but he sure likes this new girl more. Also, she's one year older than him. But she's really a little too nice so I wouldn't be surprised if she said yes if "A" asked her out.
Anyways, at marching practice he always stares or looks over at me. And before the new girl came he would ask me for a hug a few times a day. He even said my hair smelled really good. Hahaa. <3 But today at the last marching practice before school starts he only asked me for one hug and he running around saying he was so happy after he was talking to her.

Any advice? <3
-Shinra

[Dangitbobby]

I hope this isn't too long... I'm reposting this from the "Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends" because I'm not getting any responses. PM is fine. Any advice? <3


So, there's this guy... Lets call him "A". Well, "A" is one year older than me. Well, actually I'm older than him but he's in a grade above me. I started to like him more than a year ago. In that time we talked on facebook everyday and he eventually asked me out. I said yes after much thought. We never really saw each other except a few minutes in the morning of school and I would just give him a hug. It lasted about about 3 weeks because he liked another girl that was REALLY out of his league. He asked her out after we broke up and she said no.

It's been a few months since then and I'm not sure if I like him or not. I know I would be devastated if he went out with another girl but still I find it so much fun to make him mad or depressed. PFFFFT. I'm a horrible person. x'D Now that I'm in marching band I see him alot more. Even though he'll be in high school while I'm still in middle school. :'P But anyways, "A" has been obsessing over this new girl in marching band for a few days now. And we haven't talked much anymore. Figures, everytime he likes me I don't like him and when I like him he doesn't like me. Well, I'm not 100% sure he doesn't like me but he sure likes this new girl more. Also, she's one year older than him. But she's really a little too nice so I wouldn't be surprised if she said yes if "A" asked her out.
Anyways, at marching practice he always stares or looks over at me. And before the new girl came he would ask me for a hug a few times a day. He even said my hair smelled really good. Hahaa. <3 But today at the last marching practice before school starts he only asked me for one hug and he running around saying he was so happy after he was talking to her.

Any advice? <3
-Shinra

First off in your siggy, is that durarara? xD

Anyways here's your advice, It seems he most likely asked this girl out, but don't be discouraged. After all you still liked him after he asked out someone else. Just try and talk to him more, but don't be too forward about it. After talking to him, he might start to like you again, you never know. But if he is dating this new girl, don't act upset about it, congratulate him and such. But you need to talk to him more, if he doesn't respond immediately don't continuous message him. In person is the best.

~ Slate

[Prussia]

@Slate

I know "A" and the new girl aren't going out. I'm talking to "A" right now. But our conversations always get boring and awkward and I don't know what to say. Also, he's talking to my older sister about how the new girl won't text him back. :C

Any advice on how to get a conversation going? I just don't know what to talk about to him!

-Shinra

(Off topic: Yess! Durarara is awesome! Oh, and you were in one of my RP's a while back. I think it was "Hart Academy". x'D)

[Hoot]

I'm available for questions, so anyone can PM me about advice they need! :3

[Hoot]

:c i didn't mean to kill the thread...

[dragons.inc.]

It's alot of back story but if I didn't tell you this I think my problem would sound different... sorry for the longness XP
so two years ago I met this guy at school and just instantly liked him. Well he ended up asking me out and we dated for 3 months and then I...well... didn't like him anymore. I told him I'd just rather be his friend and that's what we've been since. Let's call him.... John.
I broke up with him at the end of the school year. He was a year older than me so next year I knew he would be going to high school, while I was stuck in middle. And even after I told him I just wanted to be friends, I couldn't help but feel a little jealous if I heard he had a girlfriend or if another girl was flirting with him. Now its one year later and I know he's still kind of liked me the whole time. He asked me to homecoming recently and I've been acting weird ever since. Like in a butterflies and heart bubbles everywhere kind of way. Usually I am horribly cynical about romance and such, but that's been changing. I think I'm starting to like him again, but I can't really tell if I'm not just exited about the dance. I have a feeling I like him, though.
Another problem. So this morning on the bus I was talking to my friend who is also his friend and a year older than me,too. She was telling me how cute she thinks it is that me and John are going to homecoming together. Then she said something I never expected to hear: "if you see a girl named Michelle, AVOID her. He might leave you for her" I was surprised that what she said actually kind of hurt. John was one of the two people I knew would never hurt me, and my friend had just knocked him off the list. She said he'd done the same to her last year. (I think they were only going as friends, though.) Another thing was that a few days before a friend had told me that John already had a date. I knew I was second choice but I had no idea I was competeing with someone.. I thouht I had been automatic second choice! why wouldn't I be? Something I had never thought of before suddenly came to me. What if I don't know that much about John as I think I do? And then we started talking to another friend and this came up: "well, John said it was either her(me) or Michelle" even though they said I was the better choice by far, it made me worried even more that John would leave me. I just don't know what to think. There are just so many questions.... I really think I like him though... but does he like me? what if he does leave me? what if John isn't really as awesome and nice as I think he is? Should I talk to him? lately I've been wanting to..