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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby [x] » Fri Sep 06, 2013 11:39 am

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~Meowza Sparklez~ wrote:-_- Just call me worlds most nervous idiot...
Whenever I get the chance to talk to Bear I get too nervous that he'll think I'm an idiot and whenever I'm ready to talk to him he's hanging out with friends.
He's just so cute!
Out of curiosity I looked up what shy guys do when they like a girl and he's done a lot of things it's said. Like looking at me a lot, being near me but at a slight distance, being more confident and rowdy with friends when I'm near, and when he's alone and I'm close he sometimes closes his arms in and looks down at his feet.

Me being a shy girl, I often do the same things. How can I get more confident to talk to him when he's alone!



(Yeah, I know I just posted *.*)

I have sort of the same problem, I'm super shy and kind of go into shut down mode. My friend was helping me, and she said find something that he recently did (like won a contest, went to the beach, ect.) or something that he is good at (in my case drawing, soccer, and intelligence 0.0) compliment him on something, and It may start a conversation.
Or...you could do what I do! Just say something super random like OOOMMMGGGG ARE YOU A NINJA?!

But I don't suggest that. It doesn't always turn out the way you think it might....but hey, it's better than sitting in awkward silence.

Well I don't want to come off as too weird... even though I am... I don't know that much about him except that he likes reading but I can't even ask him what books he likes if I'm too shy to even talk to him!
We sat across from each other in music today and we both kept staring at each other >.<
I am soo freakin pathetic XD
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby soreii » Fri Sep 06, 2013 11:46 am

Well, I'll go but I won't participate in the game. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't force us to do so.

Though they'll probably have trouble understanding what I'm saying, I usually end up writing just about everything down for people.
I can read and write English perfectly but I can't speak it or hear it correctly. It's strange I know, but I'll do my best tomorrow <3
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby [x] » Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:13 pm

~Meowza Sparklez~ wrote:-_- Just call me worlds most nervous idiot...
Whenever I get the chance to talk to Bear I get too nervous that he'll think I'm an idiot and whenever I'm ready to talk to him he's hanging out with friends.
He's just so cute!
Out of curiosity I looked up what shy guys do when they like a girl and he's done a lot of things it's said. Like looking at me a lot, being near me but at a slight distance, being more confident and rowdy with friends when I'm near, and when he's alone and I'm close he sometimes closes his arms in and looks down at his feet.

Me being a shy girl, I often do the same things. How can I get more confident to talk to him when he's alone!
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Me <3 » Fri Sep 06, 2013 3:14 pm

~Meowza Sparklez~ wrote:
~Meowza Sparklez~ wrote:-_- Just call me worlds most nervous idiot...
Whenever I get the chance to talk to Bear I get too nervous that he'll think I'm an idiot and whenever I'm ready to talk to him he's hanging out with friends.
He's just so cute!
Out of curiosity I looked up what shy guys do when they like a girl and he's done a lot of things it's said. Like looking at me a lot, being near me but at a slight distance, being more confident and rowdy with friends when I'm near, and when he's alone and I'm close he sometimes closes his arms in and looks down at his feet.

Me being a shy girl, I often do the same things. How can I get more confident to talk to him when he's alone!


Ask him some simple questions maybe. That's what I with my crush and then I make his reply a conversation. Or you could tell him a quick story about you. Its fun to hear their answers and make it a conversation. Once I was just saying how my family is weird and then he said his was and then some how that turned to summer plans and it was a fun conversation. Also if your school has e-mail and your just to shy to talk in RL e-mail each other or text or whatever just try and talk. Sorry if this ain't helpful.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Anza » Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:56 pm

Ok so hear it goes...
Last school year I began to like a boy named G and I knew he liked me too :D (Well at least that's were all the signs are pointed) But this year he ignores me and we have 0 classes together! :( Does he still like me? I mean literally nothing has happened except one aqwered eye contact because I was staring at him during lunch. Has he stiled likeing me or something or like can he not find a excuse? Please help me! Like advise on what to do and what you think happened would realy help me! Thanks :D
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love notes and (possibly) cheating boyfriends

Postby serenity QUITTING » Fri Sep 06, 2013 5:11 pm

    so .. the guy i liked is now going out with another girl.
    but yesterday i found a note in my locker. it was obviously in a guy's writing, and was pretty simple- "i like you".
    so this morning in english we were grading each other's papers, because our english teacher is like that, and i realized the handwriting on the note and his were really similar. like, the same.
    should i confront him? i'm really, really confused about what to do! and it'll be so humiliating if he wasn't actually the one that wrote the note. and what would his girlfriend do? i don't want to fight anybody.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby kafka » Fri Sep 06, 2013 6:13 pm

Golden Rose wrote:Ok so hear it goes...
Last school year I began to like a boy named G and I knew he liked me too :D (Well at least that's were all the signs are pointed) But this year he ignores me and we have 0 classes together! :( Does he still like me? I mean literally nothing has happened except one aqwered eye contact because I was staring at him during lunch. Has he stiled likeing me or something or like can he not find a excuse? Please help me! Like advise on what to do and what you think happened would realy help me! Thanks :D
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He may have gotten over you or something. I know I've moved on from previous crushes^^

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I think my love life is starting to begin ;o;
Everyone in our school is provided with a school email, and there's this guy in our class (let's call him G) who likes to make random group chats (he practically has everyone in our class on his contact list) and then leave, making an awkward group of people staring at their keyboard with nothing to say.

Well, the other day my friend (she's the only one who knows my crush) and I were talking about crushes on fb, and suddenly G made a group chat with my crush, my friend and I. My friend and I freaked out (I mean, we were just talking about him!) and we talked for a while. He added me to his chat list and last night we were talking like crazy. As in, 425 messages. He mentioned that we were sort of alike and I could totally just say crazy stuff to him. The last message he sent me was "You're a really nice person".

I think we're friends now, since starting from today he started actually casually talking to me in class vuv
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby horsey1111horsey » Sat Sep 07, 2013 1:26 am

i want to tell this guy i like him but then im too scared. can somebody please pm me because i dunno how to tell him
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Refugee » Sat Sep 07, 2013 7:36 am

Please anyone help. I don't know if he loves me anymore. It's about Brian again. (If you do a search in the past Crushes and Boyfriends topic, I mention him... A LOT.)
Anyways...


This guy, Brian and I have been friends since 6th grade. Our past, to sum it up briefly: He dated my best friend and we hated each other, the girl then hates me out of jealously and they broke up. Now fast-forward to two years ago: 9th grade, beginning high school. I think he had a die-hard crush on me. we had SEVEN out of NINE classes total together!! So naturally, we come to like one another as friends.

Then he started touching and flirting with me, and I knew it was something else. In gym to show off he'd pick me up all the time (bridal-style) and carry me around on piggy-back. He LOOOVED to hug me for extended amount of time, and we cuddled a lot too. I even considered dating him, after he kissed me on the cheek a few times. :what: :D

I never got the guts to do it though. I wrote him a note and asked him that way, but he never replied. I think he totally forgot about the whole moment, and as early as two weeks after I gave him the note, I was less awkward and we brushed it off and things were normal again.

But last year, our sophomore year, Brian dated a girl he knew since kindergarden. Her name is Justice. Justice and Brian dated for a good 8 months, then towards the tail-end of last year during our finals I saw them acting strange around each other and very awkward (their lockers are almost right next to each other) and even after the fact he still tells me he loves me. I don't know if he means as a friend or not; many kids in our school use the term very loosely. :oops:

Now this year, our junior year. I confirmed with Justice that they broke up. Why? Who knows, I didn't have the heart to ask either. Is it wrong I feel a little happy? They're both very good friends of mine. I love Justice too, but I love her ex-bf more.
So anyways this year just started, turns out Brian and I have history together. But our teacher seperated us on political viewpoints. Why? Idk. But apparently he's a democrat and I'm independent.

I could care less what his views are on politics! I want to be able to sit near him and flirt with him in class like we always would! Like we always have! I just want things the way they were back then. :cry:

My question is: What do you get from all of this? Do you think he still cares about me? Still wants to be my friend or lover? Or am I out of his life for good because we only have one class together and it seems we don't see much of one another anymore? Also note: In 9th grade he accepted my friend request on Facebook, then this year I made a new one and he hasn't accepted it yet... does that mean anything?

I want my old Brian back more than anything in the world. Seriously, I could see myself marrying this guy I love him that much and we were so close. I can't lose him that easily.. so don't tell me to just find another guy...
Please, please, please post a reply, PM me, even EMAIL me if necessary! I really want a good opinion and advice! My best friend says he still loves me, but I need an outsider's opinion!

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Pikmin12 » Sat Sep 07, 2013 1:54 pm

Hello again, two days of school have passed and I have a some more things to discuss.
First of all, at one of the dances last year there was a guy from a different school who flirted with me. Now this year he goes to my school and he sat next to me in lunch. He talked to me for a little while I wrote on my iPod. I am slightly concerned that he may be developing feelings for me, which I don't want to happen because I don't want to turn him down. Could he possibly like me and if so, what should I do them? He is a nice person and our parents are friends.
Also, the guy I have liked for a while is in my gym class and he is one of the only people I know. Gym is one of my classes I struggle in... I am worried about making myself look like a fool or weak in class. Any advice?
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