Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[nopenope123]

My crush is really hard one to understand...somerimes I feel liek he maybe likes me back,but sometimes I jsut don't know....it is hard. Also,he comments many stupid thigns I do,and then I feel more stupid...liek that I laught weird (I actually do,I laught lika crow or a doplhin),that my pictures I draw looks strange (Even thou I'm much better than him at drawing),and also that I laught at weird things. (I have ahbit to laught when ither persons laught,even if it isn't funny).
But sometimes he is nice and so,and he have shown many thigns of liknign...I'm so confused!

Does he like, give you stupid nick names? Or toutch your arm? If you two text or chat over FB does he message you first or does he give longer than one word anwsers? Those are for sure way he likes you. Any other questions? C:

I have recently gotten over my crush, L. It seemed impossible at first but i had to give it time. But there is this nagging feeling that i should still go for him, like still have a crush. But he likes another girl i really thought he likes me though. I really don't know what to do! One day i'm for him and the next day i'm not. I need help with this!

What you need to do is get a peace of paper. On it, write down TEN FULL things that you hate about him, or things that make you angrey that he does, or flaws about him. If not, make fifteen or more. Then every time you want him, read that list. I have been cought in your shoes before, it sucks. I know just how you feel

He gives me no nicknames,and I don't have FB,I'm to young. Gotta wait two months,but I'm not gonna get it then either. Anyway,he is ore...caring. If I seem upset he often wonders what is wrong,and at the music lesson I sometimes (Often) looks his way,but when I meet hsi eyes he looks away,and he often cheers me in different ways,and such...well,that is some parts of it. Gotta remember now...gah! Well,at least it feels good that his house is by the same route as I bike home,so we sometimes bike or walk hom toeghter.

And actually,I had a dream this night that I was confressing to him,and everythign was liek in a comic,my whole class was hiding in the bushes,wtahcing,and when I coudln't get a word out of my mouth....my best friend jumped out together with everyone and cried : "For god sake Solembum!"

[Valentines]

i think it's finally happened.
it's taken six months, but i truly believe i've finally gotten over sawyer. not quite until AFTER he got a new girlfriend (ouch, that one did hurt) and... well, i got asked out on a date. by one of his friends.
eli has got to be one of the nicest guys i have ever been friends with. he doesn't just care about me, he's actually willing to go to great lengths to convince me i'm special. plus, he prefers soccer over football (hate football), has an adorable smile, AND HE HAS A KILT. which he wears proudly since he is actually of scottish descent. and, well, i have this thing for Scotland and Ireland and... yeah.

i just don't know what to do!! he's soooo sweet, and i think i may have formed a small crush, but i just don't know if i'm ready for another relationship anytime soon. i have so many conflicting emotions about everything and i hate the idea that i might drag another guy into my problems wih depression. i don't want to lose another good guy friend because of my issues.



what in the heck do i do??

I've had something like this before, And I told the guy that I wasn't ready, but that I was interested and wanted to spend some time with him just hanging out in something sort of like a relationship, that I wanted to test the waters.

So what did we do? We went on a few friend dates, there would be little hits and misses her and there(For instance, one of mine, he kissed me) but we still didn't little things, like snuggle up and such. ( one we went to a movie, and afterwards to a park, all through the movie he held my hand and at the park he pushed me on the swings ect then when we got cold he held me and snuggled up with me)

So, give this guy some insight to both, your feelings, and a little into your personal life, so he understands why you don't think your ready and do a little bit here and there with him to see how things work

[greysilence]

I'll just make a key with their real names, because using a letter will just get too hard. XD

Robbie: male|year younger|likes me
Jeremy: male|year younger|likes me|has girlfriend|I like him too
John: male|my age|I use to like him for ever|I'm starting to like him again now because of Wednesday

Well, Wednesday I had youth group, and John has recently started going, along with many others of my friends-including my besties-, so I started going again too. This one person ran off into the woods (gehh, she's so much drama) so me and John were the first to go after her. Everyone else was following, but we stayed with her the whole time. Awkwardly, along the way, I found out that John has a six pack. (I saw it too >.< ) And he was doing backflips and all sorts of stuff.
Anyways, so we get back to the church. On the way back, I said something about Robbie, and John says, "I have something to go along with that...sorta." I asked what, and he said he would tell me later. The lesson had already started, and maybe twelve people had gone in. The rest of us stayed outside. We were afraid to disrupt, we didn't want to get yelled at, and most of all, afraid we would get kicked out. So, it was me, John, and then two other girls. The two girls started talked and wandered away a bit, so it was just me and John.

John: So what are you going to say to Robbie when he asks you out?
Me: He won't, he's too chicken.
John: But what will you say?
Me: ..I asked you about the thing from earlier first! So you have to tell me.
John: But it's embarrassing...
Me: Come oonnnnn.
John: I don't know..
Me: Come on!
John: I'll give you hints about it.

So we go back to the other people outside, and I'm waiting forty agonizing minutes. Every ten minutes I keep saying "I'm still confused!" and looking at him. XD Then we walked off and get a few more minutes alone.

Me: I'm still confused...
Him: (really quiet) Me and Robbie have something in common.
Me: What?
Him: Me and Robbie have something in common...
Me: Awww! That's sweet!

So, he likes me. I was thinking, "Really? I like you for four months, move on, and about four months later you tell me you LIKE ME?!?!" XD So we kinda stuck close to each other after that.

Then I had to leave, so I got up and of course asked him for a hug first. Then gave the two other people with us hugs. I told John he should text me, and he said he didn't have my number. (I knew he didn't) So I gave him my phone, he put his number in, and I told him I would text him. Then when I was walking away he said, "Hey, can I have another hug?" I wanted to go "AWWWWW!" but I didn't. XDD I just said yeah and gave him another hug. (it was EPIC) And so we've texted a couple times since.

Yesterday, I got an epic hug from Jeremy too. X3 But it wasn't nearly as awesome as John's.

And this is sorta (not really) random and at the end. XD I was too lazy to put it at the top. We were playing truth or dare before we all ran into the woods, and me and John almost kissed. o_o It would have been my first kiss too. I'm kinda glad we didn't though, that would have been an embarrassing/awkward first kiss.


Okay, I couldn't contain my bubbly eagerness anymore. XD

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[Arkas]

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Edit 1+2=Spelling errors i was crying and still am so its hard to see the keyboard..

[Proud violent zealot]

So this guy i REALLY LIKED named Elliott and me have been friends for a long time. So we just recently had gotten in a huge fight. But we made up and were friends again. THEN MY FRIEND Jordan told me shee heres Elliott talking about e behind my back. So confronted him about it and he said he hasnt said anything about me (LIE). So when we were at PE that afternoon he hit my bestie Danielle in the chest with a ball when when we were playing some weird game (we had to not let 5 pins get nocked over) and she said it hurt really bad. THEN he hit this other kid in our class in the eye. So then i started to say he shouldnt hit people with the balls. He said he didnt do it on purpose (LIE) then he said he had rather hit me with the ball than Danielle or the other kid.
It didnt bother me at first but today i realized how much it DOES bother me IT DOES SO MUCH it hurts alot. Please pm me if youve had something said to you that hurts as much as this did

Ouch. Maybe he was just joking? Once I was trying out for something really important and they guy that I liked now said you're not gonna make it over and over. I got really upset and he made me cry (not sobbing cry, just when your eyes get all shiny and stuff). Then he saw and he felt really bad too. He put his head down on his desk and was depressed for the next half hour. Then he said sorry until I forgave him. He told me he was joking, and when I think about it, he kinda was. So maybe Elliott didn't really mean it, but the other thing sound a bit fishy to me (rumors, etc.)

Of course, he liked (likes?) me so I don't know if this counts for anything

[Kecko]

So this guy i REALLY LIKED named Elliott and me have been friends for a long time. So we just recently had gotten in a huge fight. But we made up and were friends again. THEN MY FRIEND Jordan told me shee heres Elliott talking about e behind my back. So confronted him about it and he said he hasnt said anything about me (LIE). So when we were at PE that afternoon he hit my bestie Danielle in the chest with a ball when when we were playing some weird game (we had to not let 5 pins get nocked over) and she said it hurt really bad. THEN he hit this other kid in our class in the eye. So then i started to say he shouldnt hit people with the balls. He said he didnt do it on purpose (LIE) then he said he had rather hit me with the ball than Danielle or the other kid.
It didnt bother me at first but today i realized how much it DOES bother me IT DOES SO MUCH it hurts alot. Please pm me if youve had something said to you that hurts as much as this did

Ouch. Maybe he was just joking? Once I was trying out for something really important and they guy that I liked now said you're not gonna make it over and over. I got really upset and he made me cry. Then he saw and he felt really bad too. He put his head down on his desk and was depressed for the next half hour. Then he said sorry until I forgave him. He told me he was joking, and when I think about it, he kinda was. So maybe Elliott didn't really mean it, but the other thing sound a bit fishy to me (rumors, etc.)

My guy friends do this all the time, the guy I have a crush on now for instance, I was riding a horse behind me and his Mom said me and the horse, Rain Cloud, would be showing them all how to show this Summer, I just laughed and my crush said that me and Rain Cloud wouldn't be doing that (Which is true, I just started riding Rain Cloud, I know how to ride but this horse is crazy push button, anyway) I think its just their thing, all my guy friends do it and its nothing to take personally, I always just laugh it off with a sarcastic thanks and a smile, Don't take it personally, As for the rumors, ask one of his own close friends, like a best friend or somebody and ask them if he said any of those rumors about you if you feel comfortable about doing that.

Edit: Just checking, did anyone read my post on the description of my Crush or would care to know his description?

[loonyloolaluna]

Sorry, this is a personal reminder.
And I thought other people could possibly use it.

If you're going to have a day to yourself. USE IT.
First: Text, was is M? (the new guy you like) when you can hang out next
Second: I know it sounds stupid, but clean your room, it will help you calm down.
Third: Maybe go to a spa? Or if that's expensive (which I'm sure is)
Have a nice hot bubblebath, with rose petals (god, not in that way ... rose petals are actually good for skin)
Then have a shower to wash your hair, and since you've been wallowing in your own filth (not saying that as a personal harrasment, just being in a bath is less hygienic than showering)
Then whilst watching some movies, do the ultimate tooth scrub, wash your face very well, put a face mask on (maybe put cucumbers or teabags on your eyes). And let your hair dry naturally.
Then it's time for a pedicure, and a manicure. Soften them up, clean them. Paint your nails.
Shave your legs, and pits too. Or wax ... But also pluck your eye-brows.
Fourth: Sit in a smelly room. A good smelly, like the smell of Roses, or Vanilla, whatever you like. Get some candles, put a small plate under them, and light them. If you have rose scented candles, put some (real) rose petals around the room. If you have vanilla ... good luck finding some vanilla. Don't spray the room with deo - terrible things could happen. Maybe drink some tea aswell, but not too much sugar.
Fifth: Choose what your going to look like, and wear and bring the next time you hang out with that guy you fancy
All that can be done while watching a range of movies, or having a marathon of some kind.
You could invite one of your friends over to do the same. It's always good to have some girl talk.

I'm not saying he'll like you for looking great, and smelling fabulous.
But it helps -.-'
It's just, it makes you feel more confident. And confidence is very sexy.

When you have a bf:
Week 1 - Hugs and Cuddles. Huggles!
Week 2 - Hold 'palms'
Week 3 - Hold hands, entwining fingers
1 Month - Kiss, just a peck
Week 5 - Sit close ... (Idc what I meant here ...)
Week 6 - Fiddling with hair
Week 7 - He can put hands around waist when we sit/walk
2 Months - He can play guitar for me :3 Or I can give him him some art XD
Week 10 - Going out for Dinner
3 Months - Going out for Movie
Week 14 - Dance together
4 Months - We can snog
5 Months - By now everybody alot of people should know we're going out. So just continue to do all that. Just be best friends too.

To be continued ...?

[BearM-o]

I am so happy! So my boyfriend, I'll call him Z, and I went to some competition he was in yesterday! Z, his parents and I went on a 3 hour drive up north, leaving at 7:00 am, and got home later that night at 10:00 pm. This morning I got on facebook and he posted about me being the best girlfriend ever, and that I was pretty, I couldn't stop smiling! We have been going out for 5 months, but we are moving slow in our relationship. We are both extremely shy, and we hardly get to see each other, so we haven't held hands, or really hugged yet. I'm to shy to make the first move, and he probably is too, so yeah. I just hope this summer we can hang out more, because we go to different schools which is why I rarely see him. Oh he just makes me so happy, I get so nervous around him, and I never know what to say!! We mainly just smile at each other and end up laughing.

[luxuriantluke]

I am really sad at the moment cuz i feel like i'm the only out of my friends who haven't had a bf...(i havent ever) and i start crying when my friends text me: Guess what?! I got asked out! Or: I just had my first kiss!
I have never had that experience ever and i literally burst out crying when i hear it... My parents and my friends say i'm beautiful and i dont think i am at all.. trust me i'm not. I haven't done anything wrong, and i'm a little older to not have a bf yet. What's going on???