Koovz wrote:I'd already tried that. I had a crush on like, 3 different boys, but then I realised all their bad qualities. And I went to visit my old school and fell into it all over again. I really can't find any of his bad qualities
Just keep trying. Everybody has a bad quality. You'll move on eventually.
charity5462389 wrote:Hi, me again..
So if you'll remember last time I was here, I was here over C. Well, i'm back. So the day before yesterday, I was with my best friend,R. We got home at like 12 a.m. and I had been texting C and B since 5 something earlier that day,they were with each other. (They are really close cousins and both of them are R's cousins and I also like B a little.) Anyways we called C and B. We talked about random stuff like my friends and everything and then we started 3 waying some of them at like 2 in the morning. I called my friend E and he asked C if he was gay and stuff and C was like no i'm not gay and whatever. We hung up with E. So after a lil while it was abot 2:50 something B got on the phone. He said,"Hey will you go out with me?" I said, "No." He said, "What,why?" I said, "Because this is fake and I don't like being played with." He was like, it's not fake I swear and stuff and C was in the background saying, "Yes it is, he said it was gonna be funny if you said yes." And then he was like no I didn't and blah and stuff then he asked me out again and I kept saying no (I don't trust him...) and C is in the background singing, "Rejected,Rejected,you just got Rejected, R-E-J-E-C-T-E-D you just got rejected." haha Anyways, he ended up asking me out like 7 times and I said no everytime. Then he was like you're right I can't do this to Chad cause we're cousins and we're close and I don't want to hurt him cause he really likes you and stuff. Then he was asking me out for C and I was saying no (cause I didn't trust him, I really like C but I just didn't beleive B, because C had just broke up with me and everything) and B kept saying last time wasn't a good time he didn't want a gf and Jamie stole his phone and asked you out for him. and so I said well if Jamie stole his phone while he was in the bathroom then how do I know he's not in the bathroom right now with you asking me out for him.And he was like you're on speaker and he's sitting right here and stuff. And then he was like if you guys go out and you break up I will date you and I was like cause that's what I want. (secretly it is cause like I said before I kinda like him and he acts more like a bf than C..) And so C sent me a text and said, "I really do like you and I want to date you but I want to be friends and couples cant just be friends. When we hang out I don't want us to be quiet and to ourselves I just want us to act the same." So I texted back and was like, "Well I really like you to and I want to date,but if you don't wanna it's cool I don't wanna push you into anything. I'm pretty sure if we don't want things to change they won't." So he texted back and all i'm hearing on the phone is B screaming let me see and C saying no stop medling,haha. Well, anyways the text said, "I'm not the kissy,huggy,cuddly,holding hands type, and what makes it weird for me is I think when we date that's what your gonna want to do." So I texted back and was like, "Well i'm not that type either, I only do it if the other person wants to which isn't often,haha" And then B get's on the phone and is like OMJ you guys both like each other and you know you guys want to date so just ask him and I was like Heck no I'm not asking anyone out and he's like why,afraid of rejection and I said yes. And then all I hear is C say no you ask her and so he said, "Will you go out with C?" I said "Yes" because I heard him say to ask me. Then R got POed and was like B is my new favorite cousin and C was like really, that's childish. You have no reason to be mad. And then R hung up on them and they called back and said they had to go to bed anyways. So anyways R was so POed and was mad at me and she eventually got over it, but I mean she had no reason to be mad sure he's her cousin but if he likes me and I like him I don't see the issue. Anyways, we went to bed after that and the next day I texted C and B and only B texted back,( I figured C was asleep.) Anyways so I texted B all day until like 5 p.m. and he said C wants to know why you're texting me and stuff so I told them to call us. We talked on the phone forever. Anyways,I was talking about this guy named Josh who was asking me innapropriate things and stuff and C was like do I need to call im and yell at him and I was maybe,haha. Anyways after that B had asked me if I loved C and I said I really like him cause if I said I love him it'd be awkward and he goes no it wouldn't watch and he goes I love you baby and I bout died laughing and then he was going off cause we didnt call each other baby and he was trying really hard to get us to, Anyways after that we called Wilbur (the guy I was in love with for 2 years.. we only called him cause C wanted to) So we called him and after he hung up C said sometihng about me liking him and then B was liek you like him and I was like no not anymore and I havent for a while and he was telling C I was saying I still did. So I scream, "I don't like C!" I was like OMJ I mean wilbur I don't like Wilbur and then B was like she just said she didn't like you and so C gets on the phone and was like," Are you leading me on?" and I was like no I swear I really like you and then he like stopped talking for a lil bit, and it was only B. I was like I really do like him and stuff. But I had to go,cause we we're gonna go ride fourwheelers. So yeah...
My question is, Do you think I might've messed it up by saying I didn't like him? I only got confused cause I had been talking about him for like an hour and then we switched over to Wilbur...I just don't know..
I couldn't understand what you were saying very well. Could you try reposting this, but making it easier to read and comprehend?
Chasity68 wrote:I have a question... There's this guy that I used to be best friends with in elementary school but we went to different middle schools so we didn't see each other for a long time and then this summer he signed up to volunteer at the same time as me at the library when he saw my name on it and every time I see him I just think of him as a friend but after I leave I tell myself that I have a crush on him... But I'm not really sure if I like him like that or not... I think he has a crush on me though because every time I look up from doing something he's always looking at me then he looks away really quick and so do I... Sorry the post is so long but I'm not really sure if I have a crush on him but anyways I already have a boyfriend but I keep wondering if I should break up with him or what... Can you help?
Take some time to decide who you want to date more. Once you have your answer, go for them. Don't make any decisions before thinking, because you may decide you like your boyfriend more but have already broken up with him and it may be hard to get him back.