Hey guys, I added a few things to the FAQ. I think they're super helpful, so I would check them out if I were you. c;
Space Ferrari wrote:Well, I talked to Glasses.
I think I'm close to really believing that he cares about me. Before, I used to think that the only thing young guys want is to get laid. For the most part, that's true. The difference between the pointless guys and the ones that actually worth it, is that the ones that are worth it can supress their mindless sexual desires (As my one friend put it, they think with the brain between their ears rather than their "other" brain). I have to agree with her. Glasses and I aren't as high on the social ladder as a lot of people. We're in with the nerds, mostly. Not very popular, sometimes sarcastic, but smart and generally kind. My friend said that the popular kids date so many different people because they have pick of whomever they want. Us nerds tend to analyze more, and choose partners that we really "work" well with. (Keep in mind my friend was speaking about our own school, not everybody everywhere.)
Besides all this, one line from an e-mail Glasses sent me last night really
quieted that negative voice that keeps trying to tell me to end it.Glasses wrote:I want to stay with you, I don't care what I have to go through.
I don't know how I can't appreciate him more. He's strong, and intelligent, and kind, and funny, and gentle, and loyal, and attractive (At least, I think so. In a cute, dorky-but-farmerly sort of way). I couldn't ask for anything better. I'm so lucky that he likes being with me.
*insert gif of someone being super happy*
I TOLD YOU I TOLD YOU!! 8'DD DIDN'T I TELL YOU? <3 <3 <3 I'M SO GLAD I TOLD YOU TO TALK TO HIM, THIS IS THE MAIN REASON I LOVE BEING RIGHT ON THIS THREAD *dies of happiness*
Anyways. I am SOO happy for you Ferrari, I really am. I knew he would want to be with you, and I would have been shocked if he didn't. You guys are like, my OTP for RL. c'8
bugiscool wrote:Update in my thing.
I had lunch with him again and we talked a bit more than we did yesterday. I want to ask him tommorow since some classes are going on a field trip. ( hunger games here u come!) he isn't going sadly. So yea. In pretty sure he likes me since we stared into each others eyes for a while (4 seconds max). So still working on the confedence thing.
Well, having lunch and talking with him is a very good start to telling him you like him or asking him out. Or simply just being closer to him. I'm glad things are working out. :)
Zayn♥ wrote:I keep blushing whenever I talk to my crush. :U
Bam. (Scroll down...)
If that doesn't help, sorry, not much you can do for blushing. :P
Sherlock wrote:So I've known this guy all my life. Since we were 4 actually.
When I was 14 I had a crush on him, but since have grown out of it because we are just too close.
Though last night when he was at my house, we just got really close. Nothing happened, but I just really enjoyed the intimacy with him.
I just don't know what to do, or if I should do anything at all.
If something does happen between us, it may come between our friendship.
Confused and frustrated.
Just need somewhere to rant where I can possibly get advice.
Do what feels right. Not any of that "follow your heart/dreams" crap, that doesn't help at all. (Your heart is most likely more confused than your mind. ;P) But if it feels right to crush on him, do that. If it doesn't, don't. If you enjoyed the intimacy with him, most likely you're into him. That's totally ok.
<3 Narwhals <3 wrote:Z has been really nice. Like wierd nice
One day he told me I was funny and he blushed and smiled
Then he told me I was like his best friend
Then today he gave me a lolipop.
It sounds stupid but I thought it was sweet.
<3
He likes someone and wont tell anyone
D'aww, that is sweet. <3 That's adorable.
*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* wrote:-snip-
I know that 4 months = love. And I think that when people say after 2 days of dating 'OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH HONEY! YOU ARE MY SUN! I NEED YOU TO SURVIVE!' and stuff like that -.- it annoys me because the don't know what love it. Love takes time. It's like ... cookie dough! It's so sweet and great when it's raw, but it can make you sick and it's not that great, but when you let it bake for a while, and then you try it. It really truly does taste beautiful - and you wonder why you ate the dough in the first place. Because eating cookie dough is for children. It's really adults - or more mature people - who know how to bake real good yummy cookies. [My god. What did I just type? ._.]
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Cool analogy bro, BUT DON'T HATE ON COOKIE DOUGH! 8'c
Lol seriously though, that was gold. Front page gold. 8'D *pokes Firework to look at the front page*
Boulevard wrote:
I dared my bestie, who likes the same guy I do, to ask him out tomorrow just to see what he'd say.
And god, I wished I hadn't. :c
But if my bestie doesn't get a yes, she's gonna ask him out for me apparently.
Cause guess what!
*squeals*
B and HC (his old girlfriend) broke up! I honestly squealed like crazy singing 'He's single! OMG!' for an hour.
<3
...
But I have to say something-
Honestly... My bestie knows how much I like him. And if she gets a yes, or he ever asks her and she says yes, we aren't gonna be friends anymore. She knows I've liked him, and known him, for about 6 years. She's known him for 1 year, and liked him for only a few months of that year.
Here's a tip guys-
It's scientifically proven that if you have a crush on the same person for more than 4 months (I've liked B for 6 years XD) then you're in love<3
But I need some help.
Here's the problem.
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I really, really like him. And if my friend gets a yes, I'll cry. To be honest, I will bawl. No matter what.
:c
And... Im starting to develop feelings for this guy... we'll call him BE.
He's B's best friend.
And I also like O.
Guys! Im so confused...
I like 3 guys... I've known B for 6 years, I've known BE for about 2, and I've known O for about 4 or 5.
Im so confused...
Tell her not to. Talk to her before it's too late. BEG, her not to, if you have to. Just don't let him get away.
Acidic wrote:I'm.... so sad....
I really need a hug, badly.
I asked my crush if he was walking home today, he said he didn't know. This has happened a lot lately... he hasn't been wanting to walk home with me. So, he got a text from his Grandpa, saying 'I'm picking you up tonight, but if you get a better offer you can do so.' I got all happy, as I feel- as I'm his friend and it would be more fun for us- so I got glad we were walking home again. But then... 'My grandpa's picking me up, sorry.' I walked away neutrally, but it was like my soul was dying.
Acidic, can I give it to you straight? I'm asking you first, because I know you're upset and it's going to sound a little mean. But in the long run I really think that giving it to you straight is going to help out, a lot.
