Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Me <3]

I posted on page 25.
He decided to come clean of FB.
I thought he was going to ask me out but that idiot never loved me.He lied.
Now I am crushed under my weight of tears in the middle of the night.
I can't go to my mom to tell her all of it because I don't want to wake her up.
I am messaging one of my bests friend's that always supported the relationship.We are planning a whole weekend together to forget about boy troubles.
A football game and a sleepover.Also, hopefully running and getting lost in forests.Just what we need to do.
I thought he was going to ask me out but instead he said he never liked me.He just felt sorry for me and that was his reason to lie.
As I said he was my first and I feel like he will be the last.
I am going to listen to Breakeven for the next week.None of my favorite songs.Only that.
Does anyone have any ideas to help me cheer up after losing someone I have loved for over six months?
And still sort of do...
Thanks if you read this.
Happy I kept this topic bookmarked.
Thank you for all of you who made this and keep our questions answered.Keep doing this.For all of us.

Well multiple things come to mind like you could go to page 26 and read Vampyrum Spectrum's battle plan. Or you could do what I did when my grandpa died (I know not the same but still crushing) surround your self with people who love you and you love back, do some things you love to do even if your not that great at doing it (Dancing comes to mind for me) and finally fall in love with yourself don't feel like no one likes you now because you should love yourself. It's hard to respect or even like a person that always brings them selves down by being like I can do anything right. So I hope this helps its what I would do though.

[Me <3]

Ok last time I posted I was totally ignored so now I have a new question. First I'm a girl on another website I mentioned my crush and the person called my crush a she when in fact he's a he and I'm the she. So were in different grade levels the difference by 1 but that difference puts him in high school and me in middle school. So we normally talk by school e-mail and we have semi long real conversation in person. I've made him a friend ship bracelet and gave it to him last year and after that day he always was wearing it. My question is how am I suppose to know are were in the friend zone? As in am I just a cool female friend or am I something more to him? I really could use some help please so if don't mind please help.

[forecast]

Ok last time I posted I was totally ignored so now I have a new question. First I'm a girl on another website I mentioned my crush and the person called my crush a she when in fact he's a he and I'm the she. So were in different grade levels the difference by 1 but that difference puts him in high school and me in middle school. So we normally talk by school e-mail and we have semi long real conversation in person. I've made him a friend ship bracelet and gave it to him last year and after that day he always was wearing it. My question is how am I suppose to know are were in the friend zone? As in am I just a cool female friend or am I something more to him? I really could use some help please so if don't mind please help.

Friendzone is when you crush/like/ect someone, and they only see you as a friend. Just so you know

You should really ask him about how he feels. Act cool about it, but if he asks, don't lie, because that will push him further off, thinking "we're only gonna be friends".

If he throws a fit about it, or says "Ewww" or something similar, he doesn't deserve you. His loss.

[Refugee]

Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! Advice?

[Me <3]

Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! Advice?

Well I know this can sound horrible but you could sit with him and not your friends. Then you could talk get to know his pals and stuff. That's what I have to say rater then make plans to hang out somewhere with him after school.

[Saren]

Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! Advice?

Well I know this can sound horrible but you could sit with him and not your friends. Then you could talk get to know his pals and stuff. That's what I have to say rater then make plans to hang out somewhere with him after school.

I think that you should stay with your friends, but occasionally sit with him. Don't ditch your friends for a guy when in reality it might not work out to be anything. Let your close friends know you like him so they won't get upset or annoyed on the days you sit with him, but limit that to maybe once or twice a week x

[Dia.]

Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! :cry: :cry: Advice?

Well I know this can sound horrible but you could sit with him and not your friends. Then you could talk get to know his pals and stuff. That's what I have to say rater then make plans to hang out somewhere with him after school.

Don't ditch your friends for a guy.
Invite him to sit with you even if you don't think he'll say yes. It'll show him you are still interested. And if he says no, say something like, "Well why don't we find some other time to hang out?"
But really... if your boyfriend and best friends don't get along well, things will become miserable pretty fast for you. I've witnessed it.

[Me <3]

Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! Advice?

Well I know this can sound horrible but you could sit with him and not your friends. Then you could talk get to know his pals and stuff. That's what I have to say rater then make plans to hang out somewhere with him after school.

Don't ditch your friends for a guy.
Invite him to sit with you even if you don't think he'll say yes. It'll show him you are still interested. And if he says no, say something like, "Well why don't we find some other time to hang out?"
But really... if your boyfriend and best friends don't get along well, things will become miserable pretty fast for you. I've witnessed it.

Just for the record I never said to ditch them I meant that for occasion ditching your friends for love would be foolish. Even if your friend and your crush dislike each other don't stop being friends with the other.

[vanilla kitten]

the song 'true love' has never been so relatable, ever.. oh my god.

it's all such a long story. but i spent the night there lastnight. mostly because i don't feel safe at home anymore. we stayed up late, i was on top of him trying to fall asleep (i have an issue where i like sleeping on/under people. i dont know why. i do it to my bestfriend and sister and good friends as well) and we started talking. somehow we got on the subject of mike, and i started crying.. that man took my dignity and ease of life. i'm so scared he's gonna come try and kill me. anyway, i didn't make it obvious that i was crying because it was dark and he couldnt see me or anything. but he cuddled even closer to me after i was done crying, and my cheeks were still damp and he was like, "you were crying," because he had told me not to, because crying's stupid and useless and doesn't help anything. and he just held me and kissed my forehead and made me feel okay.

i don't know. i hate him, sometimes. but i also need him. i dont know what to do :/
on the bright side, we actually have classes together this year c:

[Medusa72]

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