Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Medusa72]

Can y'all tell me if this guy likes me?
We shall call him M.
I've known M for maybe six years.
Since the moment we've first met we've gotten along very well. (But he's just really nice so he gets along with everybody pretty well.) Because of this I thought we were just friends when people kept on teasing me that he was my boyfriend while I insisted that we were just friend because I didn't like him like that back then.
We got along so well that when I was around twelve me and him were playing outside and my mom came out and asked if I wanted to stay or go home. I was having so much fun that I didn't want it to end so I said I wanted to stay. I ended up staying the night and just considered him a best friend from then on.
Then when I was maybe thirteen me and my older siblings stayed the night at his house because his parent needed someone to watch him and his younger siblings. Well I only went along to help with the littlest but we ended up playing together a bit and he ended up not brushing his teeth when my older sister told him to because he had mentioned before that he had a telescope and told me I could use it if I wanted to. Anyways he didn't brush his teeth because instead he was setting up the telescope. (Also ended up going to bed late.)
He was going to our church group and that was how I was seeing him up until I was fourteen. His family stopped coming and I didn't see him for a while.
A year later I saw him at a church camp and I notice he kept on stealing glances at me and we kept on running into each other... Quite literally... It kind of hurt. At night we and a couple of other teenagers were in the game room and all the girls there who kept on chasing after him had gone to bed he asked me if I wanted to play a game and we went away from the other teenagers to our own table and were looking at different games to play. Well then his mom came in and told him to take a shower so we didn't play a game and I went to bed soon afterwards...
Also, after a little pacing he decided to sit next to me at lunch the next day and he noticed that I had braces... This is about how our convorsation went...
M: When did you get braces?
Me: Like a year ago.
M: Whaa?
Me: Yeah, we haven't seen each other in like a year.
M: Hmm... You look really different.
He said this very seriously and while looking me strait in the eye. I found this confusing because he is usually cracking jokes every five seconds so it was a little unusual that he was so serious.
Anyways a little while later (after camp) he got a facebook and I said hello and he said... "Ho Hey"
Ho Hey is the name of his favorite song which so happens to be a love song.
But then I later saw a picture of him dance with this girl. And they both were always sitting with each other at camp and it looked like they were together... I know they hang out alot so I think they like each other...
Anyway that and the fact that our last conversation (which was on facebook) ended in him saying "Go Away" Makes me think that he might not like me. Also everytime I've seen him since he seems to avoid me a little. I'm kinda bummed.
Help?
Sorry this is so long!

[fiddlesticks.]

{ Wait what.

My girlfriend unfollowed me on Twitter.

I don't even know why. And I can't talk to her about it, because she's on vacation in Nashville for who knows how long.

Now I'm scared. Are you breaking up with me.

What is this.

What.~ }

[s y n]

Time to rant. This post is probably gonna be really long.

Alright, so there was this one guy I dated a while back, and we were off and on for quite a while. Let's call him A. So me and A have had several relationships, so let's start from the beginning.

The first time we ever dated, it was for almost a year (though during the summer we were a bit off and on, though it was confusing at the time), we were both really happy together. However, he was really over-protective and he would get incredibly jealous and just completely ignore me for hours if I even looked at another guy, which sucked because all of my friends my entire life have been guys, as I don't get along well with other females. So I told him it bothered me and he toned it down and everything was great. But over the summer, he was off on holidays and all we could do was text and people were trying to break us up and making up rumors and all that stuff and we were sort of off and on until he returned. We were almost together a year when I was unhappy with the relationship and broke it off. After that, he wouldn't talk to me for a good six or seven months. We didn't talk because everybody made up rumors that I said bad stuff about him and that he said bad stuff about me and we just disliked each other because of it.

So a while back we sort of became friends again, while he was dating my best friend. We were hanging out one day, just the two of us, and he kept talking about how great it was when me and him were dating, how sad he was that we broke up, that we should get back together, blah blah blah. I got mad at him and told him he shouldn't be saying that stuff since he was with my best friend and I was dating somebody else at the time, but he did it anyways. So after a while, I realized that my old feelings for him were back, as I'm pretty sure he was (sadly) my first love, and I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend because I felt bad about being with him while having feelings for somebody else. Anyways, A would constantly hit on me while he was dating my best friend, and didn't listen when I told him to stop because it wasn't okay. He just said, "Me and her are just a thing. It doesn't even matter." even though they were, in fact, in a relationship.

So my best friend and I talked and we soon realized that he tended to say one thing to her, and then say the opposite to me. To her, he'd say, "Oh, I don't even like [mynamehere]. She's a b*tch and a sl*t and I only hang out with her when I have nothing else to do." but to me, he'd say, "Me and [hernamehere] aren't even a relationship. I don't even like her. I don't even know why we're together. I really just want to be with you." And once me and her realized that he was saying one thing to her and then the complete opposite to me, we got suspicious about it. It got even worse when, one night while we were hanging out, he had the audacity to try and kiss me (twice) while he was still dating her! I told her and after a while, we both confronted him about this and him and her ultimately broke up. Then after a while, I was stupid and, still with all these feelings for him, I sort of dated him again, but we broke up after only a few days, and I just recently found out that, while me and him were dating for those few days, he asked out two other girls and made out with this other girl. Yeah. It hurt to hear, but now, I've completely sworn off of him.

So yeah. There's the end of my horrible-cheating-player-ex-boyfriend rant. :P

[Wild.One]

So...there is this guy, lets call him c. He's really cute and nice and cool. He does an event in track with me. He is really good at it too. He's really easy to talk to too! But, he's two years older than me and is alway surrounded by girls. he also goes to a different school. Thing is, I don't want a boyfriend but I do like him, even though I don't have a chance. He's easy to talk to so atleast there is that. But lots of girls like him. They are prettier than me too. help? I'm pretty shy too...

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Oh hey, finally hit 900 pages. I figure it'd happen without me. I left for too long.

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I take great comfort in knowing that, tonight, the guy that broke up with me yesterday nearly got hit by a drunk driver and also got his bike and phone stolen.



For the record, he tried to do it over facebook.

[Zeee]

I take great comfort in knowing that, tonight, the guy that broke up with me yesterday nearly got hit by a drunk driver and also got his bike and phone stolen.



For the record, he tried to do it over facebook.

That's a little extreme hey? Breakups happen...
And yeah it was a bad move doing it over Facebook, but still...
Someone breaking up with you isn't exactly a reason
to be happy they almost got hit by a car?

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[Anuran]

Merph. My birthday was super-stressful.

So, I dumped this guy that I'd dated for nearly two years because of very good reasons - he was doing things he didn't need to be doing, and I discovered he was cheating when he sent a message for his 'other girl' to me by accident.

Anywho, this was back in December. We hadn't talked since then. I have not wanted to talk to him.

But, yesterday, which was my birthday, he decided to text me, wishing me a happy birthday and telling me he hoped I was having a good time.

I haven't answered him, simply because I'm super determined to stay away from scum like him, especially if he doesn't want to talk to me unless he feels like he has to. Pfft. Ain't no way I'm going to wish him a happy birthday. :P I've worked too hard to get over him, I'll turn into a flying tree before I be friendly with him.



So, I decided to tell my best friend about it, who happens to be a guy. Now, he's my very best friend, and after he gave me a smile and such, he told me he'd been having issues getting over an ex as well. Now we're both being super-mushy-best-friends to eachother and I swear, I don't know what I'd do without that crazy kid. I love him like a big brother. <3 I could never date him, ever, it'd be too awkward, since he's always just been my best brofriend, and he's moved away. </3

[Zeee]

So...there is this guy, lets call him c. He's really cute and nice and cool. He does an event in track with me. He is really good at it too. He's really easy to talk to too! But, he's two years older than me and is alway surrounded by girls. :( he also goes to a different school. Thing is, I don't want a boyfriend but I do like him, even though I don't have a chance. He's easy to talk to so atleast there is that. But lots of girls like him. They are prettier than me too. :( help? I'm pretty shy too...

First of all, hun, it doesn't matter if you're only two years apart. That's nothing (unless it's like... 'creepy' two years apart. Like a 13 year old dating a 11 year old is kind of... weird... to me). It could be a problem, yes, if you go to a different school, but since you're in track with him or whatever and he's easy to talk to, that shouldn't be MUCH of a problem. Lots of girls liking him doesn't matter; and it doesn't matter if they're 'prettier than you'. If he's a good guy, he shouldn't care that much about looks. If you know him well, maybe you could tell him that you like him but you don't want a boyfriend just yet. I'm sure he'll respect that. And if he doesn't like you back, I have one piece of advice - don't get so dramatic over it in front of him. I know that is a really bad turn off for guys - at least all the guys I know. Just as calmly as possible say 'Oh, okay, that's fine'. But, since you added that you're shy, that may not work. Do you know if he's already in a relationship or not? Cause if he is, then it's best to leave telling him until he's out of that relationship. It might be a little awkward if you don't. Okay, anyways, maybe what you could do - if he's not in a relationship - is just start a normal conversation and ease into maybe telling him that you like him? Or if you're really too shy to say it, you can do it through text or something (if you don't have his number just subtly ask him for it at some point), even though that's probably not the best option. If I were you - even though I'm extremely shy as well - I'd do it in person. And if you tell him, SHOW CONFIDENCE. All the guys I know think that confidence is one of the best qualities in a girl - I know not all guys are like that, but I'm pretty sure not a lot of sensible guys think a girl having no confidence is good.

I hope I helped even a little xD I'm not a very helpful person, but... Yeah :3

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Key word being almost. If he had been hurt, obviously I'm not going to be happy about it, I'm not sick and sadistic. But he didn't get hurt, so I feel it's okay to slightly relish the fact that he's getting a little karma thrown his way. He did a lot more stuff besides try and do it over facebook (I convinced him to at *least* do it over video chat) that I don't really care to say. He lied to me recently a lot about how he felt about me. Apparently he's wanted to break up for at least three weeks now. And he thought that the best idea to do that would be to act like a jerk so I'd get off his back and so it'd be easier to get over him. There's a lot of other crap as well. Long story short, ("too late") he's a lying jerk who is despicably inconsiderate of my feelings and while I'm still not over him yet, still have major feelings for him and wish he were right here to hold me, I'm glad it's over. God I miss him. But I'll get over it.

Look honey, should have just said right away. You would have saved me a world of hurt.

Word of advice: People show their true colors in how they break up with you.

And it sounds cliched, and it is, because cliches come from truth, but time is the best healer of hearts. Just wait it out. You'll be okay. We'll all be okay.

[Zeee]

xD Sorry for posting so much in such a little amount of time, but..

Oh. I forgot to tell all you guys that B knows I still like him. I told him. I sent him this forward thing that said something like "You can ask me one question and I have to answer honestly and truthfully! Forward to see what people ask you" and he asked me who I liked so I told him... And he said he didn't mind. I apologized cause I know it must've been awkward for him, and he just said it was okay. And then a few days later I regretted it and I said to him, "I shouldn't have told you..." and he said, "I really don't care".

Yeah, it hurt... A lot... Just to know that he doesn't care at all...

Sigh. But he actually seemed kind of grumpy that whole night, so I don't know if he meant it or if he said it just in the heat of the moment.... But... Yeah. I shouldn't have said anything. I should've waited until he was out of a relationship. UGH WHY DID I SAY ITTTTT ;_;

Oh and one day he and his friend came to my house and asked to hang out, and then they ditched me.
Did I tell you guys about that? I think I did on the last thread but I don't remember.