Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[yfish]

Uhhm.. so this morning i was looking for one of my friends after marching band and a freshman (imma sophomore) started talking to me cause he's my buddy, well, we never really told each other our names cause it just never came up so my best (freshman) friend i only knew as mellophone player kid. well, while i was looking for one of my friends, he grabbed my arm and said "hey, do you wanna go to homecoming with me?" And i was just so dumb-foundedi said "sure" and he goes "yeah?" And so i said "yeah" and i walked off cause i didnt know what else to do cause i was so un schock. well i saw him at lunch so my friend tori and i were talking to him and i figure out his name, which is Evan, and we went to our lockers. well, between 6th and 7th hour, he found me on my way to german and he goes "so, are we dating now?" And again i was dumb-foundand said "idunno" abd he said "do you wanna?" And i said "sure?" And he said "ok " and walked off... well after school we met up and walked around till he had to go to football and yeah... I'm soo confused o.o ha ha ha

Hey I wanted to say(I am going to post this in a bit) I went to the 8th grade dance with a boy and we did not technically date.If you feel your heart is in it jump for it.If not just tell Evan you are not in for it right now.

[yfish]

Help!Please!Message me please as soon as you can.I am crying right now of confusion and worry.
I have a little problem.Sorry for typos I am not the best typer and I am freaking out here.OMG!!!!!!!I don't know whether to cry or dance.Or just hyperventilate.How about the first and last.That sounds good.
I have liked this boy since he transferred to my school in February.I started to like like him in the middle of march and he asked me to the eighth grade dance in mid April.I said yes of course and my friends had been shipping it for a while.I found a song around then called Fallin' for You by Colbie Calliat.It described my situation perfectly.I lost the song before the dance and listened to the radio for it for a month.I still did not find it.My friends wanted to get me and him to kiss at the dance but I said no to them.It would be weird .A month passed and school ending came.I could not find him on the last day and cried.I found the song over the summer and messaged him over fb with the song.He understood and we told each other we liked each other.School starts back up.My friends are still shipping and we sit next to each other every morning . About two hours ago on fb he messaged me asking if he could meet me in private at school and it is important.My friends have been trying to get him to ask me out.I don't know what to say so I am saying I don't know any private spots(truth).I am freaking out so much.I REALLY like him.He is my first.
Oh g-d.Sorry for my over reaction.I cant calm down.Help.If you have advice send it as soon as possible please.This is the short version of everything by the way.

On a side note, will high school always be like this?

Sorry again for my explosions of feelings.

Edit:I sent the message and he replied.I guess I really do not need advice much any more but I would like ideas for a first date for 13 to 15 year olds.Any good ideas?Thank you if you read this.

[christine,]

mark

Edit:I sent the message and he replied.I guess I really do not need advice much any more but I would like ideas for a first date for 13 to 15 year olds.Any good ideas?Thank you if you read this.

I think icecream is always a afe bet. Movies are great for group dates ^^

[Refugee]

Help!Please!Message me please as soon as you can.I am crying right now of confusion and worry.
I have a little problem.Sorry for typos I am not the best typer and I am freaking out here.OMG!!!!!!!I don't know whether to cry or dance.Or just hyperventilate.How about the first and last.That sounds good.
I have liked this boy since he transferred to my school in February.I started to like like him in the middle of march and he asked me to the eighth grade dance in mid April.I said yes of course and my friends had been shipping it for a while.I found a song around then called Fallin' for You by Colbie Calliat.It described my situation perfectly.I lost the song before the dance and listened to the radio for it for a month.I still did not find it.My friends wanted to get me and him to kiss at the dance but I said no to them.It would be weird .A month passed and school ending came.I could not find him on the last day and cried.I found the song over the summer and messaged him over fb with the song.He understood and we told each other we liked each other.School starts back up.My friends are still shipping and we sit next to each other every morning . About two hours ago on fb he messaged me asking if he could meet me in private at school and it is important.My friends have been trying to get him to ask me out.I don't know what to say so I am saying I don't know any private spots(truth).I am freaking out so much.I REALLY like him.He is my first.
Oh g-d.Sorry for my over reaction.I cant calm down.Help.If you have advice send it as soon as possible please.This is the short version of everything by the way.

On a side note, will high school always be like this?

Sorry again for my explosions of feelings.

Edit:I sent the message and he replied.I guess I really do not need advice much any more but I would like ideas for a first date for 13 to 15 year olds.Any good ideas?Thank you if you read this.

Okay girl, keep your cool. Most important thing is to be calm and don't freak out at him. He may or may not ask you out. He just might have a little talk with you about why your friends are harassing him. He might just want to kiss you, who knows.

And yes, this is my third year in high school. It happens a lot. Don't worry Feel free to Pm me or email or anything if you still need some tips!

-Zelda

[senpai]

So I'm kinda seeing this guy I work with.
I've liked him for a looong time but he's been married.
Well he's recently separated now and has the papers in for the divorced and we started going out, like clubbing and what ever.
We've been intimate more than once now ^ u ^ And we're both just... keeping it casual.

Thing is he's older, and I have no idea how guys his age act, so I'm not sure if he likes me or you know... just wants to 'hook up'. Either way it's fun for now.

He texts me all the time, and I love the attention! Just not all that sure where it's going to end up. Calls me cute names and he's a pretty big cuddlier. (I'm not so much, but i enjoy it with him)
We're not telling anyone, as his divorce is not final and it could bring up complications at work. Plus he's new to all this, he's been married to the girl since he got out of high school. (Which was a while ago)

Idk, by the way he texts and how he buys me lunch and stuff all the time... I'm guessing he might like me, right?
I feel like a sissy girl u.u

[stinkende]

So I'm kinda seeing this guy I work with.
I've liked him for a looong time but he's been married.
Well he's recently separated now and has the papers in for the divorced and we started going out, like clubbing and what ever.
We've been intimate more than once now ^ u ^ And we're both just... keeping it casual.

Thing is he's older, and I have no idea how guys his age act, so I'm not sure if he likes me or you know... just wants to 'hook up'. Either way it's fun for now.

He texts me all the time, and I love the attention! Just not all that sure where it's going to end up. Calls me cute names and he's a pretty big cuddlier. (I'm not so much, but i enjoy it with him)
We're not telling anyone, as his divorce is not final and it could bring up complications at work. Plus he's new to all this, he's been married to the girl since he got out of high school. (Which was a while ago)

Idk, by the way he texts and how he buys me lunch and stuff all the time... I'm guessing he might like me, right?
I feel like a sissy girl u.u

Is he on the same level at work as you, or is his position above yours?

Good idea to keep it on the D-L. Keep it casual and try not to get too attached. Judging by the blurb about his past, sounds like he's just now getting used to being single, and is newly face-to-face with a massive field of flowers to pick.. there may be more than one of "you." Dating does not obligate monogamy.

[senpai]

So I'm kinda seeing this guy I work with.
I've liked him for a looong time but he's been married.
Well he's recently separated now and has the papers in for the divorced and we started going out, like clubbing and what ever.
We've been intimate more than once now ^ u ^ And we're both just... keeping it casual.

Thing is he's older, and I have no idea how guys his age act, so I'm not sure if he likes me or you know... just wants to 'hook up'. Either way it's fun for now.

He texts me all the time, and I love the attention! Just not all that sure where it's going to end up. Calls me cute names and he's a pretty big cuddlier. (I'm not so much, but i enjoy it with him)
We're not telling anyone, as his divorce is not final and it could bring up complications at work. Plus he's new to all this, he's been married to the girl since he got out of high school. (Which was a while ago)

Idk, by the way he texts and how he buys me lunch and stuff all the time... I'm guessing he might like me, right?
I feel like a sissy girl u.u

Is he on the same level at work as you, or is his position above yours?

Good idea to keep it on the D-L. Keep it casual and try not to get too attached. Judging by the blurb about his past, sounds like he's just now getting used to being single, and is newly face-to-face with a massive field of flowers to pick.. there may be more than one of "you." Dating does not obligate monogamy.

We work in two different areas. I work with the skaters, and he zams the ice. Our positions are totally different.
His ex wife actually used to work along side me.

That's what I'm trying to do, but considering have been in a dead relationship myself for so long, it's hard trying not to get attached. He treats me really well considering the little thing we have going on.
I also know he was seeing other women before we took the leap, I'm totally aware he might still be. Just giving him the benefit of the doubt. It isn't my place to ask, but if it comes up or gets to the point where I need to know... I'll ask.

[Madison143]

Life is so confusing -_-
I moved to where I live now, a few years, and when I first started going to this new school, in my core class, there was this guy and we would always joke around and stuff, but then last year, we had no classes together, until second semester, when the two classes we were in combined to do a musical, and somewhere during that semester, he got a girlfriend, who was also my friend too, and they broke up also, which, I huess in a way, I was sort of pleased with, since I kinda, sorta, just a teeny bit liked him. But anyways, at the end of the year trip, we were on the same bus, and messing around with each other, and he asked for my phone number, nonchalantly, which I was glad for, because I wanted to, but was afraid to ask. (Insert squeee here!) Haha, anyways, we texted quite a bit in the beginning of the summer, and then it lulled, and now we are texting a lot, just as school is beginning to root its way back into our lives. Sad thing is, we have no classes together But anyways, he is super funny, and he was joking around with me and this other guy, for a minute after school, and he told the guy that he wasn't pat of his club, then asked me if I wanted to be, but it turns out it was a club from Smosh, which is a youtube channel XD

BUt anyways, do you guys have any questions, comments, or tips?
I kinda want to know if he likes me, and we even talked about relationships a few times, when he would ask if I was single, then be all surprised that I was or whatever. He also made me promise onece, after I said my hair was all messy after swimming for a picture(no idea why) then made me promise to send a picture if it ever happened again(which I never did), and he texted me a picture of his costume, cause he does LARPing, and it was kinda funny, in a way. Anywho, I should probably stop droning on and go XD

[Nympheh]

I'm awful at relationships I really am... I easily get jealous which really can ruin a relationship.

Currently with a guy I've been seeing for 5 months.

[bless the vic]

I am crushing on 2 guys