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[luxray;]

tfw someone on tumblr reblog and tags a post about anxiety "#lol anxiety" and they're super rude about it when you tell them it bothered you and ask them to remove it, then they say "oh I got a lot of messages saying it was ok !!!" and "oh I have anxiety too so it's ok !!!"
well I mean that sucks for you but your post gave me an anxiety attack bc it looked as if you were making a serious disorder look like it was "funny" and "lol !!!"

[Starfalling]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

[My Immortal]

I keep trying to sleep but this horribly loud noise in my ears wakes me up. I'm shaking and crying because loud noises are my worst fear

[not a talking cat]

I keep trying to sleep but this horribly loud noise in my ears wakes me up. I'm shaking and crying because loud noises are my worst fear

Do you have earphones? I suggest you try playing soft music, or maybe try humming yourself to sleep.

wow it took me a while to build up courage to post this |D

[vulture,]

Welp, my boyfriend decided a while ago that he's most likely going to go into the military in three years time. He mentioned today that he wants to be married before he goes into the military because he doesn't want to die before he has the chance to marry who he loves. I immediately lashed out at him for talking so casually abosut dying, I feel bad for doing so, but I am so terrified of losing him. I'm shaking. There's such a real threat of him being fatally injured whilst serving. But serving is something he's always wanted. I'm not going to stand in the way if that. It's just one of the scariest thoughts I've ever had.

[northern downpour ;;]

Welp, my boyfriend decided a while ago that he's most likely going to go into the military in three years time. He mentioned today that he wants to be married before he goes into the military because he doesn't want to die before he has the chance to marry who he loves. I immediately lashed out at him for talking so casually abosut dying, I feel bad for doing so, but I am so terrified of losing him. I'm shaking. There's such a real threat of him being fatally injured whilst serving. But serving is something he's always wanted. I'm not going to stand in the way if that. It's just one of the scariest thoughts I've ever had.

Hey, it's alright. Just tell him you were angry because you're scared of losing him. He'll understand, I'm sure. And while he's gone, maybe talk to other people whose loved ones are in war. They'd have much more experience with that sort of thing, I'm sure.

[satans__lover]

The day i get back from hospital from staying there a week i get kicked out at 9:30pm and forced to talk to a friends house. What a great day.

[idiosyncrasy]

The day i get back from hospital from staying there a week i get kicked out at 9:30pm and forced to talk to a friends house. What a great day.

Aww, well maybe your friends can help, try to make the most of it. Remember, every day is a gift.
Also try doing things to forget it or make you feel better! ;-3

[blue neighbourhood]

ou to know that you are very brave for posting this! ^^

I miss my dad again
I had a concert tonight
and my mum said
'Your dad will be proud of you'
well mum
he's not freaking here
so don't mention him
and make me depressed omg

Aw, -hugs-. Hi again, thanks for keeping up with us. c: I see you still miss your dad, and that's totally understandable and I hope he's in a better place now. <3 I know your mom was just trying to help, but I also know what you are going through too. Maybe try to explain it to her that you are not ready to talk about it? That you need more time to grieve? Good luck sweetie. cx

Agh, thank you. I really would but it's been eight years... I'll let her knows that I don't like it though. Thank you so much <3

[idiosyncrasy]

(Me? Oh I can't help or give advice or can I?)