Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[hoglolly]

Where are some good places to just hang out or fun stuff to do? There is a park my bf and I talked about going to that right by our school

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Where are some good places to just hang out or fun stuff to do? There is a park my bf and I talked about going to that right by our school

If you've got a mall in your area it's a great place to get to know someone better. Exploring the stores and seeing which ones they like, what items they want to buy, etc definitely helps you get to know the real them. Plus, it's really fun! c: It's usually not too loud, so you can walk an talk at the same time.

You could go see a movie, though I wouldn't advise that for the first couple of dates. You want to be able to talk to them, and it's just rude if you talk during a movie. Not a great choice when starting out with someone. If you've been dating for a while though, this is an a-ok option.

A park is also a good idea, but you have to be careful on which one. If it doesn't have anything interesting to do you'll both be left hanging, bored. Make sure that if you do this you're both pretty chatty, because there's not a lot more options to do there besides talk. Write down some conversation starters on things that interest you. If you do sports, tell him how your last game went. Talk about mutual interests. If you go around sunset just walking together can be very intimate.

Group dates are a good deal. Hanging out with friends always makes things more fun. Make sure that you go with another couple though, otherwise the friends will just be left out and it'll be awkward for all.

If you're into sports at all, go see a game! Baseball is pretty easy to understand if one of you isn't really into it. c:

Good luck! Just be creative and do things you both like.

[hoglolly]

Where are some good places to just hang out or fun stuff to do? There is a park my bf and I talked about going to that right by our school

If you've got a mall in your area it's a great place to get to know someone better. Exploring the stores and seeing which ones they like, what items they want to buy, etc definitely helps you get to know the real them. Plus, it's really fun! c: It's usually not too loud, so you can walk an talk at the same time.

You could go see a movie, though I wouldn't advise that for the first couple of dates. You want to be able to talk to them, and it's just rude if you talk during a movie. Not a great choice when starting out with someone. If you've been dating for a while though, this is an a-ok option.

A park is also a good idea, but you have to be careful on which one. If it doesn't have anything interesting to do you'll both be left hanging, bored. Make sure that if you do this you're both pretty chatty, because there's not a lot more options to do there besides talk. Write down some conversation starters on things that interest you. If you do sports, tell him how your last game went. Talk about mutual interests. If you go around sunset just walking together can be very intimate.

Group dates are a good deal. Hanging out with friends always makes things more fun. Make sure that you go with another couple though, otherwise the friends will just be left out and it'll be awkward for all.

If you're into sports at all, go see a game! Baseball is pretty easy to understand if one of you isn't really into it. c:

Good luck! Just be creative and do things you both like.

Thanks! Super helpful!
Ya we have tried going to see a movie but neither of us really had fun. Hmm, group date sounds fun if I can convince my friends...

[spaceferrari]

Oh for Pete's sake... so I asked Glasses if he's thought about who he wants to take to the dance this year.
It took about three seconds for him to rocket off and get upset and start saying how he "needs" me and "doesn't want anybody else" and other crap like that.
We broke up dude! That's why I can't dance with you! I'm not allowed to be more than "just friends" with you!
Lord. It really bothers me how he keeps saying he "needs" me. It's going to be awkward now that we might share classes again this year, but how can I get him to move on and not be so... obsessed? He says things like "I know you don't want to be without me." It actually kind of scares me, and lately he won't let himself sleep if something he says offends me, and I'm getting worried that he'll harm himself more if I don't, as he says, "come back."

[Zeee]

i wanted to ask B if he was mad at me, for not replying on FB, but i don't want to anymore...
he gets mad fairly easily, and may just totally blow up on me.
i have no idea what to do now...

[cth;]

i wanted to ask B if he was mad at me, for not replying on FB, but i don't want to anymore...
he gets mad fairly easily, and may just totally blow up on me.
i have no idea what to do now...

Well if B stand for Boyfriend, then here is my advise... If he would really get mad at you for trying to make things better or see how he is feeling.. then he's not worth it! And no guys should blow up if a girl is trying to care about them!.. just what I think!))

[er_watever]

I think this guy likes me but i dont like him at all but what if it turns out he doesnt like me...

My friend was in the same situation so I told her I would go ask him for her. And it turns out they were perfect for each other and at first she didn't like him either.

[Panic!]

So, it's been a long time I've posted in here, but I guess I need the help again...

So, last year around this time, I went out with this guy, and he was sweet at first, but I ended up breaking up with him because I discovered the not so nice side of him. I was really devastated because I really liked him, and what really bothered me was that my best friend started going out with him 4 days after the break up. I guess I didn't do much to stop them, but I thought they could both give it more time...apparently not. So, anyway, we kind of drifted apart, but me and my best friend are still friends and I really don't want that to change. But, as time goes on, she seems to stop paying attention to me, and now focuses all her energy on her boyfriend (my ex boyfriend). I know the whole situation happened last year, but I guess it's bothering me again because it's almost their 1 year anniversary. So, I don't know if I should be mad, or happy. Mad, because she practically stole him away before my wound was healed, or happy because she's my friend with whom I've known since third grade. Any help?

[Official-Enjolras]

Uhhhh....So me and my ex.......well I think I'm starting to have feelings for him again. Don't get me wrong, he wasn't a bad person really. He just liked to talk about himself a lot, or like break into my sentences, but he's sweet and stuff to me and says how pretty and beautiful I am and stuff. He hates seeing me hurt, and he wants to see me so badly. I have 1st period with him and maybe 5th. He says I'm going to brighten his morning every day. I see myself being with him again.

[er_watever]

Uhhhh....So me and my ex.......well I think I'm starting to have feelings for him again. Don't get me wrong, he wasn't a bad person really. He just liked to talk about himself a lot, or like break into my sentences, but he's sweet and stuff to me and says how pretty and beautiful I am and stuff. He hates seeing me hurt, and he wants to see me so badly. I have 1st period with him and maybe 5th. He says I'm going to brighten his morning every day. I see myself being with him again.

Well, if I were you I would see how it works out and see if he wants to get back together again. Hope this helps