Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Dia.]

hi guys :3 i'm just gonna spill all my random rainbow rants all over this post.

so. um, well... i've never been asked out before, and I get teased about it a lot because i'm over 13 and have never had a boyfriend.
but the problem is that i live on a property, away from other people. plus, i'm a really... intense... kind of person, so i scare some people away.
i have a twisted sense of humour, and i'm not socially awkward, just awkward in general.
i always catch random guys staring at me when i'm in town or whatnot, so does that mean i'm attractive?
also, when i come across a really cute guy, i stumble over my words and sometimes talk too much.
and for some stupid reason, i can't help falling for every damn cute guy i come across.
to make things worse, i think one of my friends is playing with me. he is really, really hot, he has a girlfriend, but he can't help but flirt with me. we are really good friends and love a lot of the same things, but he just gets... flirty sometimes when i see him in person. he like, plays with my hair, winks and smiles at me, wraps his arms around my waist and calls me 'princess'. it really irks me, and makes me feel like he's just being a jerk. is he doing it just to annoy me? just because he knows i'm lonely? or does he really like me?
please help ;-;

~ ella <3

First of all.
There is nothing wrong with being "over 13" and not having a boyfriend. When I was 13 I never even talked to guys. xD I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 15... but that wasn't anything special. At all. My first real relationship started after I turned 16. I know people who were seniors in high school and they just never wanted to actually date.
It might mean you're attractive. I've no experience in that area though. xD
And really, "falling" for every cute guy you come across is kind of a natural thing. (stemming back to "mate selection" of the ancient times ^^; don't mind me, just an awkward girl who enjoys random pondering) I have a feeling you aren't actually "falling" for every cute guy you see though. You just think that they are mighty attractive.
If he has a girlfriend, he shouldn't be flirting with you. I can't imagine how she feels about this. I remember how my friend felt when her boyfriend did those same things with other girls.
You have a few choices: confront him about it or forget about it.
If he does like you, do yourself a favor and don't do anything about it until he and his girlfriend are officially not together. Don't be the girl that someone cheats with.

[northern downpour ;;]

Aaaaaand he's gone
Stupid time differences
Stupid 3000 miles separating us
Stupid life being so cruel as to make me fall this hard and have him be so far away
Meeehhh
Meh

[fruitbat]

ahhh
I feel so much happier than what I did on Monday <3
I talked to him, finally gain the courage to talkt o him by myself
I swear, if he keeps this up, im falling at his feet.

and now I know he likes me <3

[Refugee]

Haha, wish I had that kind of luck.

So there's this guy.. I'll call him Noah. I was really close to him last year, we were like best friends, did everything together, but he was confusing. He would hold my hand on the bus, kiss my cheek occasionally and act like we were dating...

But then he moved away. This past year I was lost without him. I felt so alone on the bus and in chorus and everything. But then I got a Facebook, and he found me. Now we've been talking constantly, he said he missed me a lot, and he keeps liking every one of my statuses. I mean. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. Does this mean he's dropping subliminal messages that he's interested in me? Note: we're both single and we never dated before.

On top of that, he gave me his new number. But as I said earlier, I never have luck with guys. Every one of them, once I told them I liked them, it got awkward or didn't work out. Should I just wait until he tells me? I don't want to ruin it. Last time I told my best guy friend I liked him, he was very cool about it and we're close again... but that's really rare.

So please, any girl or guy advice is greatly appreciated! I would love literally, any responses and will try to help out your situation, too!

-Zelda <3

[Pongo.]

Uhhm.. so this morning i was looking for one of my friends after marching band and a freshman (imma sophomore) started talking to me cause he's my buddy, well, we never really told each other our names cause it just never came up so my best (freshman) friend i only knew as mellophone player kid. well, while i was looking for one of my friends, he grabbed my arm and said "hey, do you wanna go to homecoming with me?" And i was just so dumb-foundedi said "sure" and he goes "yeah?" And so i said "yeah" and i walked off cause i didnt know what else to do cause i was so un schock. well i saw him at lunch so my friend tori and i were talking to him and i figure out his name, which is Evan, and we went to our lockers. well, between 6th and 7th hour, he found me on my way to german and he goes "so, are we dating now?" And again i was dumb-foundand said "idunno" abd he said "do you wanna?" And i said "sure?" And he said "ok " and walked off... well after school we met up and walked around till he had to go to football and yeah... I'm soo confused o.o ha ha ha

[Feather Keeper]

Oh gosh I have soo many feels in my head right now. I've even wrote a short story about it. If anyone is willing to read it and help me with the problem I'd be overjoyed.

[Anza]

Oh gosh I have soo many feels in my head right now. I've even wrote a short story about it. If anyone is willing to read it and help me with the problem I'd be overjoyed.

Sure! . Can you post it?

[thunderofthedrum]

Uhhm.. so this morning i was looking for one of my friends after marching band and a freshman (imma sophomore) started talking to me cause he's my buddy, well, we never really told each other our names cause it just never came up so my best (freshman) friend i only knew as mellophone player kid. well, while i was looking for one of my friends, he grabbed my arm and said "hey, do you wanna go to homecoming with me?" And i was just so dumb-foundedi said "sure" and he goes "yeah?" And so i said "yeah" and i walked off cause i didnt know what else to do cause i was so un schock. well i saw him at lunch so my friend tori and i were talking to him and i figure out his name, which is Evan, and we went to our lockers. well, between 6th and 7th hour, he found me on my way to german and he goes "so, are we dating now?" And again i was dumb-foundand said "idunno" abd he said "do you wanna?" And i said "sure?" And he said "ok " and walked off... well after school we met up and walked around till he had to go to football and yeah... I'm soo confused o.o ha ha ha

Sounds like he's a bit new to things, and that's okay. Being blunt was probably the most comfortable for him so the timing may not have been right.

Also, going to a dance together does NOT NOT NOT mean you are dating. Those are SEPARATE things. If I were to go to a movie with someone it may be a date but it doesn't mean we are full on dating. A dance is even less than that - it's a special event and often times people don't want to go alone or even with friends. They want an actual 'date' but that doesn't mean they are romantically interested in the person. You can go to a dance with a guy friend and that's perfectly fine. It's good that he didn't automatically assume you guys are now dating, but don't feel pressured to go out with him if you don't want to. However, sounds like you two get on well so that's a good start if you decide to give it a try.

[Radio puppie!]

Oh My God. Really? Why did you have to be there?!? You already hate me enough. Now you probably have a death wish against me.

Sorry just saying the things going on in my head right now...my life is like a poorly written TV drama.

[zenz]

Boys are the most incomprehensible creatures on earth.
More perplexing than a science exam
More irritating than artistic block
More aggravating then your parents being implaccable
Does anyone know how to summon the resiliance to get over a boy?