Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Lizbutt]

You know what sucks . . . being with your boyfriend for over 1 year and 6 months, prom coming up soon and your mother gets mad and forbids us from going to Prom together and from seeing each other till I'm 18 this June.

yeah, that sucks

[loonyloolaluna]

You know what sucks . . . being with your boyfriend for over 1 year and 6 months, prom coming up soon and your mother gets mad and forbids us from going to Prom together and from seeing each other till I'm 18 this June.

yeah, that sucks

Why?
She won't think you'll get pregnant, will she?

[Lizbutt]

Why?
She won't think you'll get pregnant, will she?

She thinks I've grown way to intimate with him, and thinks I'll make her mistake and get pregnant. Plus, she pulls her religion into all of it, saying he doesn't go to church enough and ect.

Plus, she plans to tell all my friends parents that he is not allowed to be around me.
The only good thing is that I'm going to be 18 in less then three months.

[s y n]

Wow. Just. Wow.
Um, well, I wouldn't have recommended dating your ex. Like, how did you 2 break up? What's that history?
I sorta know how you feel =/ when I was dating my ex (not re-dating) I hung out with this guy mate, and yeah we were having a blast and such ...
But idk, (I forgot the guy you hung out with name) ... he seems more right for you than your bf atm ...
I see your siggy, and it says you're single.
Personally, it can look a bit \/\/#0R3Y if you date your ex, after a bit dump him, then the next day you get another bf. It could look like you're seeking for attention. (COULD! Not you are seeking for attention)
Maybe just hang out with both of them one day. See which one you like more.
Go home, don't text, facebook, or call anyone. Just ponder over what you think is right.
Oh and, drink some tea :3

Well we broke up because he was gone for a while in the city that he was in for the hockey game and he met somebody else. That's the main reason I worry about him being there; He's knows a lot of girls out there that are interested in him, and he could easily go for one of them without me even knowing... ;-;
As for my siggy, haven't been on CS in a while to change it xD
I'm planning on just thinking tomorrow. He'll still be in that city tomorrow, since he decided to stay, and M'll also be in that city to go see his dad so I won't be with him and I'll just have the day to myself.

Most of the time I can't hangout with both of them seeing as my bf doesn't live in the same city as me. He lives pretty far off, actually. I'm actually really p!ssed off at him because he didn't even have to go to the game. He wasn't playing at all. But instead of going to hang out with me, he decided to go to a game he didn't have to go to. And to make it worse, he was going to come back today so we could hangout, but he called me this morning to tell me he was staying there for the day. AND on the weekend, he goes back to where he lives and then doesn't come back down until the next weekend.

I hate long-distance relationships. I can't deal with them. That was the reason I broke up with J - I knew long-distance wouldn't work. That's the main reason I'm contemplating breakup. There's the added fact that M admitted to me that he likes me, and I to him, and the only thing keeping us apart is my not being single. I wouldn't ever breakup with my bf just because I had the chance to be with another guy; That sounds way too much to me like I'm only with him until a better offer comes along, which I'm not. I wouldn't ever date someone just to not be single, unlike some people I know.

I don't know what to do...

[loonyloolaluna]

Why?
She won't think you'll get pregnant, will she?

She thinks I've grown way to intimate with him, and thinks I'll make her mistake and get pregnant. Plus, she pulls her religion into all of it, saying he doesn't go to church enough and ect.

Plus, she plans to tell all my friends parents that he is not allowed to be around me.
The only good thing is that I'm going to be 18 in less then three months.

Well ... I have no idea how to comment about this.
As I am 14 ... If I do tell you to do something I'm afraid it will come out unprofessional, and might screw up this situation worse.
I've gone to church. Boring as hell. (Wow, bad pun - unintended!) Maybe try get him to come along ...?

Well we broke up because he was gone for a while in the city that he was in for the hockey game and he met somebody else. That's the main reason I worry about him being there; He's knows a lot of girls out there that are interested in him, and he could easily go for one of them without me even knowing... ;-;
As for my siggy, haven't been on CS in a while to change it xD
I'm planning on just thinking tomorrow. He'll still be in that city tomorrow, since he decided to stay, and M'll also be in that city to go see his dad so I won't be with him and I'll just have the day to myself.

Most of the time I can't hangout with both of them seeing as my bf doesn't live in the same city as me. He lives pretty far off, actually. I'm actually really p!ssed off at him because he didn't even have to go to the game. He wasn't playing at all. But instead of going to hang out with me, he decided to go to a game he didn't have to go to. And to make it worse, he was going to come back today so we could hangout, but he called me this morning to tell me he was staying there for the day. AND on the weekend, he goes back to where he lives and then doesn't come back down until the next weekend.

I hate long-distance relationships. I can't deal with them. That was the reason I broke up with J - I knew long-distance wouldn't work. That's the main reason I'm contemplating breakup. There's the added fact that M admitted to me that he likes me, and I to him, and the only thing keeping us apart is my not being single. I wouldn't ever breakup with my bf just because I had the chance to be with another guy; That sounds way too much to me like I'm only with him until a better offer comes along, which I'm not. I wouldn't ever date someone just to not be single, unlike some people I know.

I don't know what to do...

Well, if he seems like the type to cheat on you, and if you two can't hang out much ... then there's probably not much point in having the relationship.
I'd say dump him. Again, not a good idea dating your ex. But it is your decision.
This new guy you fancy sounds much more better. And you could tell that he wouldn't cheat on you, because you said he would have been cuddling you if you two were a couple. But he didn't and that could show commitment, and boundaries.

If you're going to have a day to yourself. USE IT.
First: Text, was is M? (the new guy you like) when you can hang out next
Second: I know it sounds stupid, but clean your room, it will help you calm down.
Third: Maybe go to a spa? Or if that's expensive (which I'm sure is)
Have a nice hot bubblebath, with rose petals (god, not in that way ... rose petals are actually good for skin)
Then have a shower to wash your hair, and since you've been wallowing in your own filth (not saying that as a personal harrasment, just being in a bath is less hygienic than showering)
Then whilst watching some movies, do the ultimate tooth scrub, wash your face very well, put a face mask on (maybe put cucumbers or teabags on your eyes). And let your hair dry naturally.
Then it's time for a pedicure, and a manicure. Soften them up, clean them. Paint your nails.
Shave your legs, and pits too. Or wax ... But also pluck your eye-brows.
Fourth: Sit in a smelly room. A good smelly, like the smell of Roses, or Vanilla, whatever you like. Get some candles, put a small plate under them, and light them. If you have rose scented candles, put some (real) rose petals around the room. If you have vanilla ... good luck finding some vanilla. Don't spray the room with deo - terrible things could happen. Maybe drink some tea aswell, but not too much sugar.
Fifth: Choose what your going to look like, and wear and bring the next time you hang out with that guy you fancy
All that can be done while watching a range of movies, or having a marathon of some kind.
You could invite one of your friends over to do the same. It's always good to have some girl talk.

I'm not saying he'll like you for looking great, and smelling fabulous.
But it helps -.-'
It's just, it makes you feel more confident. And confidence is very sexy.

[Wildflier vs Slendy]

Thanks Firework. I forgot to add that I did tell my friends and they told him and he was a bit awkward about running into me for a few days after but then things went back to normal. One of my other friends told him again a few weeks later and he said he didn't know. And he's always surrounded by his friends and I think one of them is crushing on me.

[loonyloolaluna]

Thanks Firework. I forgot to add that I did tell my friends and they told him and he was a bit awkward about running into me for a few days after but then things went back to normal. One of my other friends told him again a few weeks later and he said he didn't know. And he's always surrounded by his friends and I think one of them is crushing on me.

You're welcome.
Oh dear.
I know THE EXACT FEELING
When someone tells the guy you fancy you like them.
Ugh, that awkward stage. That's why I told the guy i liked on the last day of term, so he could think about it ...

He sounds like a great guy saying he 'didn't know' though,

Well, if you're not sure whether or not his friend may be crushing on you, I definately recommend reading the first post on the forst page. Seeing those youtube clips (about how you can tell if a guy likes you AND EVEN how to get a girl to like you. I know it sounds kinda dumb like 'why would i want a girl liking me' taking that from someone else pov BUT you could see the guys tricks)

(I think I'm mentioning tea in every post I make o.O)

[Wildflier vs Slendy]

(TEA!)

I think that last year him and a few other people too started to suspect that I liked him.
This was a letter I wrote to him on the 'Write a Letter You Cannot Send' thread: viewtopic.php?p=30571038#p30571038

[~IronRose~]

I feel really sorry for my crush, C right now. He doesn't like me but the girl he does like is dating someone else, Poor C

[loonyloolaluna]

I feel really sorry for my crush, C right now. He doesn't like me but the girl he does like is dating someone else, Poor C

OHHH LOVE RECTANGLE!
Mmm, yeah been there. done that. For the moment, just be his friend if he feels sad. Still be his friend if he's happy. It's good to be nice.
And I'm sure he'll appreciate having a friend too.