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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dia. » Sun Aug 18, 2013 8:01 am

♥Summer Forever♥ wrote:Ok so near the end of school I found out that my crush for that whole school year knew that I liked him and that he didn't like me back. It hurt finding that out, alot. I honestly really liked that guy. I had thought I moved on now but the memory of him still lurks in the back of my mind. My friends still tease me about him sometimes even though I said I'm not sure if I still like him. I saw him at the fair last week and I felt happy seeing him. I think I may still like him but I can't knowing that he doesn't feel the same.


I can't tell you how well I know that feeling.
I liked a guy for about 3 years. At the second year, I found out he didn't like me that way(I was friend-zoned) and I tried to convince myself that I didn't like him. I moved on somewhat. Dated another guy. Crushed on a different guy. But I kept coming back to that first guy.
And he's my boyfriend of nearly 8 months now. ^^;
What I'm saying is don't get caught up on this, but don't totally forget about him. You never know when it might turn into something.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Crystal Gems » Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:24 am

Hi, I need some help.

So, I just got a new boyfriend, about a week ago. And we've been doing good, until now, I have a new crush. On none other than, his best friend. I'm not really sure if what to do, and so I'm really confused. Help Please!

Love to anyone who will help me

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Doggo Supreme » Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:27 am

.:BeatenSkies:. wrote:
Hi, I need some help.

So, I just got a new boyfriend, about a week ago. And we've been doing good, until now, I have a new crush. On none other than, his best friend. I'm not really sure if what to do, and so I'm really confused. Help Please!

Love to anyone who will help me

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Well, does your crush like you and you still like your boyfriend?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Crystal Gems » Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:29 am

catdog101 wrote:
.:BeatenSkies:. wrote:
Hi, I need some help.

So, I just got a new boyfriend, about a week ago. And we've been doing good, until now, I have a new crush. On none other than, his best friend. I'm not really sure if what to do, and so I'm really confused. Help Please!

Love to anyone who will help me

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Well, does your crush like you and you still like your boyfriend?

I still like my boyfriend, and I'm not sure if my crush likes me or not.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dia. » Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:45 am

.:BeatenSkies:. wrote:
Hi, I need some help.

So, I just got a new boyfriend, about a week ago. And we've been doing good, until now, I have a new crush. On none other than, his best friend. I'm not really sure if what to do, and so I'm really confused. Help Please!

Love to anyone who will help me

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I think this is kind of natural for some people. You shouldn't act on it, since it might just be a weird impulse.
Similar to the fact that some people like an ex even more after a little break from them when they break up.
If you do act on it, you'll probably end up really hurting not only your boyfriend, but his relationship with his best friend, and even your self if his best friend doesn't like you that way. Then where are you?
Give your current relationship time to settle before thinking about it more. It may pass.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Crystal Gems » Sun Aug 18, 2013 10:46 am

Dia. wrote:
.:BeatenSkies:. wrote:
Hi, I need some help.

So, I just got a new boyfriend, about a week ago. And we've been doing good, until now, I have a new crush. On none other than, his best friend. I'm not really sure if what to do, and so I'm really confused. Help Please!

Love to anyone who will help me

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I think this is kind of natural for some people. You shouldn't act on it, since it might just be a weird impulse.
Similar to the fact that some people like an ex even more after a little break from them when they break up.
If you do act on it, you'll probably end up really hurting not only your boyfriend, but his relationship with his best friend, and even your self if his best friend doesn't like you that way. Then where are you?
Give your current relationship time to settle before thinking about it more. It may pass.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby FoxerOwl » Sun Aug 18, 2013 12:28 pm

Okay this may sound weird, but I was watching the Hot Chick and halfway between the movie, "Jessica" was talking to April about how do you know if you really love someone, and he/she explained me PERFECTLY. Whenever I see my crush I feel like I have to grab onto something or I'll float away. My heart beats fast and slow at the same time.

But... my crush won't even look at me. Actually, he does occasionally but they're simple glances. But... he might have a girlfriend. My friend, who's the girl's cousin, says they're not dating but I can't trust her. Do you think my crush is trying to make me jealous? Because nearly everybody in school knows I like him, him included.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Doggo Supreme » Sun Aug 18, 2013 1:40 pm

FoxerOwl wrote:Okay this may sound weird, but I was watching the Hot Chick and halfway between the movie, "Jessica" was talking to April about how do you know if you really love someone, and he/she explained me PERFECTLY. Whenever I see my crush I feel like I have to grab onto something or I'll float away. My heart beats fast and slow at the same time.

But... my crush won't even look at me. Actually, he does occasionally but they're simple glances. But... he might have a girlfriend. My friend, who's the girl's cousin, says they're not dating but I can't trust her. Do you think my crush is trying to make me jealous? Because nearly everybody in school knows I like him, him included.

Help omg ;w;

I know exactly how you feel. I don't think that he is trying to make you jealous. I am not very good at explaining crushes and stuff like that, so you should get a second comment on it.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby vvoland » Tue Aug 20, 2013 3:27 am

@foxer

Honestly, why would he be trying to make you jealous.? If he is, then he is an ass, and you should try to like someone else, who isn't just weirdly mean. He could be looking at you occasionally because it makes him slightly uncomfortable, knowing that he knows you like him. Or it might be how he looks at everyone else, but you notice it more. There are a dozen possibilities, an I think the jealous one is least likely ^^*
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby FoxerOwl » Tue Aug 20, 2013 1:02 pm

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Honestly, why would he be trying to make you jealous.? If he is, then he is an ass, and you should try to like someone else, who isn't just weirdly mean. He could be looking at you occasionally because it makes him slightly uncomfortable, knowing that he knows you like him. Or it might be how he looks at everyone else, but you notice it more. There are a dozen possibilities, an I think the jealous one is least likely ^^*


Thank you too, catdog101 <3

I don't know ;v; I don't have a boyfriend or anything. I like someone else, but not as much as him, plus I'm not sure if the other guy likes me.

I think you're right about the glances though, I seem to notice them a lot more and maybe I'm not paying attention to my other crush?

How would I go about asking him, the second crush, out? //please note i am EXTREMELY shy
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