Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[mywashingtonromance]

I'm actually quite frustrated. I can't exactly tell my crush I love her, I mean she'd freak out. But, I see her often, since we're friends, and I can walk to her house.
But I'm really lovesick, and I have it bad!

I don't think you should...o.o it might ruin your friendship with her. Anyways, I think you should tell her when you think shes ready.

Agreed. That's what I'm going to do. We are still pretty young, I'll tell her maybe next summer, I already told her I might be bi, but not that I had a crush on her.

Of course situations vary, but I have a friend who told me she was bi, and that she liked me. I told her I didn't like her back, but I was sorry. We're still extremely close friends, closer than we were then, and she now believes she's a lesbian.


*Nods* I suppose, she wouldn't care at all, she's very accepting, it's just it might be awkward between us for awhile XD

[dooze]

I have a crush on a boy at my sailing program. He is funny, friendly, and a flirt.
His name is Ben.
I don't know if after this Friday if I'll ever see him again. I want to ask for his facebook or email but I'm a bit afraid.
I'm considering on the last day telling him I like him but then I'd be afraid he will ignore me or something.
There is a chance that he may like me, from the occasional flirt and peek. He is very kind and is the same age as me, which are two very attractive things to me.
Any help?

[• Matter Of Fact •]

Hey, Berrynose. If I had to give you advice, I'd ask him as soon as possible. Who knows, the next time you see him my be your last.

Hi, everyone.
There's this guy I like from school, but it hasn't started yet (it starts on the 25th).
If you will, he's kind of the Einsten of the grade. He's very smart, but also very quiet and kind. Unfortunatly, he's friends with a lot of the flirty guys, which I'm not really fond of. I'm afraid that if he says no that his friends with find out and they'll tell everyone. >.<
I kind of want to ask him on the first couple days of school, but I don't know what to do.
I'm gotten a little bit of advice from someone, and she said to ask him to go to the ice cream shoppe by the school with me after school.
Any advice would be much appreciated.

[StealthyJackal]

>-DarkWolf-<, I suggest you start to talk to him and develop a friendship and when you're ready, go ahead and tell him that you like him but in a more creative way, you know what I mean? I hope this helps!

[Cirque]

Blargh.
I'm going back to school on Thursday, which means I'll get to see my crush.
Part of me is happy, but part of me is unhappy, because a couple weeks ago, I went to camp, a camp which he also happened to go to. It was pretty awkward whenever we saw eachother. [long story about the awkwardness between us]
Anyway, dealing with it for a week was bad enough, but to go through it every school day? Blargh.
Especially if we end up having classes together.
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When I don't see him, I feel lovesick.
When I do see him, I feel awkward.
x__________x

[• Matter Of Fact •]

Jackel, that is a good idea, but he's not the kind of guys to have girls as just friends. It feels kind of awkward when I want to talk to him... =/

[Mint-chan]

DarkWolf, even if the guy doesn't have girls as "just friends" now, doesn't mean he will never have them. You can be the first for him! But, before you do anything, make sure that he actually gets to know you before you confess anything to him. If you guys aren't very talkative with each other, he might just think "I've never talked to this person much before..." and dismiss it. I think it would be best to get close to him first.

But don't take my advice right off the bat, cause my boyfriend situation right now is overly complicated too. I like one guy who's older than me, and I probably have no chance with him, and then there's another guy who I KNOW likes me, and we've been friends for the past 5 years, but I have no idea if I'm sure that I like him back. It makes me happy to be around him, and we talk about everything together, and he is just about the only friend I trust with anything, but I just don't know if being more than friends is a good thing. I'm worried it might make things awkward. But at the same time, I kind of want to be more than friends....Awrgh! I don't know what to do! And to make things worse, he has been dropping some serious hints lately, from sending me comic messages (we're nerds) with his feeling just about written into them, to writing out notes to me during Driver's Ed. that tell me how he feels. Ugh. I just don't know how to respond.

[• Matter Of Fact •]

>.< Oh, I suppose so. But I'm not exactly sure how to become friends with him...

I wish I could give you advice on that one, but I really don't know what to do in that situation...Because I am only 13...

[Grell Sutcliffe~]

You're in high school now, now is your shot! I'm glad that you have remained loyal and have known each other for a good few years. He doesn't seem too shy around you and you're quite attractive from his perspective, aren't you?

I think you should really go for it. Ask him if like maybe you'd to take a community-sponsored art class together, or maybe if you two could grab ice cream sometimes, perhaps bring along some friends? It's guaranteed he'd say yes.

The dream also sound very nice. I'd love to have a dream like that sometime. ^^

I'm not sure what he thinks of me..
XP
What the heck goes on in a boy's head?

As for asking him,I bet it'd be a bit of a shock,because we...never really talk.Never.
But I was thinking of passing him a note or something...8'|

Thank you for your time and advice

[dozy]

I have a slight dilemma with a boy ;;
Now, first of all, I do not like him in that way. I love him in a brotherly way. He's my friend, my "brother". He, however, has loved me romantically for just over a year. I'll name him R.

I've had five people try to persuade me to go out with him, but I've said no to them all. First was one of my friends when the rumour went around, then some of his friends who had taken it on themselves.
One of his friends came around yesterday - and spent four hours failing to persuade me.
First of all, I asked him what R saw in me. He didn't know, but made a guess.
"You have a nice figure, you don't take s**t from anyone, you are nice, you are unique and talented, but you are odd too. You are one of a kind, Cae."
He then phoned R, and R said
"She's kind, reliable and beautiful, and I'm always smiling when I am around her." He then asked his friend to ask if there was anything I liked in him. I said that I thought he was reliable and he lets me eat his food. (I am a rather ditzy person XD)
His friend, said that I should date him as a trial run and if I don't like him, dump him. I said that would hurt more than outrightly rejecting him. We debated for a while, and then he said to me.
"I don't really care to be honest, it's just that I am the one picking up the pieces."
I knew that he did care, but I just can't date R.
We're all going out tomorrow as friends...
on Wednesday, R's going to be told the news. He won't talk to me.

*sigh*
This is my best friend of six years.
I told him I don't want a lover.

It's a good idea to tell him that you don't feel the same way than doing the trial run, it'll just make the situation complicated and in my opinion, annoying. I have a friend of mine who faced a similar relationship issue like this, who made the wrong decision by dating him for six+ months even though she didn't like him and ended up facing an unpleasant ending for both of them.

Yes, you'll probably lose him since he's going to need some time to be alone and to move on, but getting rejected isn't as painful as getting dumped nor will it last very long.

That's only my opinion though so I suggest you to wait for someone who is more experienced when it comes to dating and give you a better advice then mine. But I do wish you good luck and hopefully he will agree to continue to be your best friend.

Today we are all going out today. *sigh* I'll have to distance myself away from him a bit.
I'm just nervous for tomorrow.


...I always cringe when he puts an "x/kiss" at the end of a text.