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by kiwikweenie » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:46 pm
sluiceway wrote:Hnggg I didn't want to meet your girlfriend. I know you didn't intend for this to happen, but jeez talk about awkward.
It hurts honestly still
oh god thats awkward, I'm sorry that happened to you. yikes thats just really awkward i can only imagine
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by Jιηx » Tue Feb 02, 2016 3:07 pm
Erised wrote://
tbh i'm so done with school.
i mean, it's just so frustrating and stressful that it just- sucks.
i took economics and personal finance today and i don't understand anything,
i don't like the teacher and i don't wanna ask her questions because i don't feel comfortable with her.
i just wish i didn't take this class this year. like- next year would've been better for me.
but i can't switch out of the class now.. its too late to switch.
plus, one of my friends irl
she cannot stop talking about driving and she keeps on telling me things i already know about school,
she asks me if i've taken the test to get my permit.
and everytime i say no and she gives me this weird look.
so then i took the test a few days later and i failed it by just a few points.
but
wow
the feelings really hit me hard.
i don't want to tell her that i took the test
because i know how she's going to react. she's going to say "how did you fail it? its so eASy."
she's always talking about driving with her parents and stuff; and i just get mad and frustrated.
plus she keeps on talking about how i should take an AP, she's like "oh, you should take an AP- cause if you don't... you're not gonna get into a good college." "and you don't want that, do you?" I KNOW thAT
and my birthday is coming up on the 14th and i want a party to celebrate, but i don't want to invite her. but if i don't? idk whats going to happen. we've been bffs since we were very little but she doesn't feel like a bff anymore.
... i just need a hug.
Awe, friend! Listen, I can offer you some reassurance about the whole AP thing. Honestly, AP classes are unnecessarily. They're needlessly difficult and stressful and you don't even get a proportional amount of credits for them. Please don't push yourself into an AP class if you don't feel ready for it. And, honestly, college won't even be that hard. I started this year in concurrent enrollment, meaning i'm taking college while in highschool, and honestly it's v easy. Please don't stress out about school, because honestly no employer is ever going to look at your highschool transcript and say, "look, you have all the qualifications we're looking for, but you messed up in this one class and didn't take any ap classes so we can't take you, sorry." I promise. highschool is not the end all be all.
As for the friend thing, you need to find a way to tell her that she's pressuring you WAY too much. Honestly, from what you've said, it sounds like she might not even realize that what she's doing is hurting your feelings. Tell her to back off, and don't be afraid to take a step back from the relationship if you need to. Dont drop her friendship, but don't feel obligated to be her BFF. You need to do what's best for you.
Deep breath, friend. You can do this. I'm sending a virtual hug right now.
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by chooch » Tue Feb 02, 2016 3:58 pm
I am so paranoid that everyone thinks that I smell bad. even though I shower everyday and I put deodorant on. change my clothes. And brush my teeth 3 times and floss. But I feel like they think I stink. I am also underweight but my stomach looks bloated making me look fat. I weigh 64 pounds which is underweight for my age. (very). I just need some reassurance.
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by ausgdghsag » Tue Feb 02, 2016 4:14 pm
blublur wrote:I am so paranoid that everyone thinks that I smell bad. even though I shower everyday and I put deodorant on. change my clothes. And brush my teeth 3 times and floss. But I feel like they think I stink. I am also underweight but my stomach looks bloated making me look fat. I weigh 64 pounds which is underweight for my age. (very). I just need some reassurance.
i have a similar fear. don't worry - as long as you take care of yourself you won't. i've asked friends before and they agreed. i'm also underweight & have the same problem aa. all my weight goes straight to my stomach. i have stick limbs and no shape to speak of. recently i've been forcing myself to increase my calories and it appears to be working. aa i'm sure you look/smell fine though! c': pm me if you need any advice/someone to listen :oo
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by chooch » Tue Feb 02, 2016 4:25 pm
sparkitek; wrote:blublur wrote:I am so paranoid that everyone thinks that I smell bad. even though I shower everyday and I put deodorant on. change my clothes. And brush my teeth 3 times and floss. But I feel like they think I stink. I am also underweight but my stomach looks bloated making me look fat. I weigh 64 pounds which is underweight for my age. (very). I just need some reassurance.
i have a similar fear. don't worry - as long as you take care of yourself you won't. i've asked friends before and they agreed. i'm also underweight & have the same problem aa. all my weight goes straight to my stomach. i have stick limbs and no shape to speak of. recently i've been forcing myself to increase my calories and it appears to be working. aa i'm sure you look/smell fine though! c': pm me if you need any advice/someone to listen
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by Boxie » Tue Feb 02, 2016 4:37 pm
I honestly don't really know who to talk to at the moment. Things have gotten better now that I am on medication for anxiety but I do still feel these episodes of ''low'' and ''high''. They are easier to manage but the lows still suck and make me feel like a bunch of poo. I don't really want people to worry or be disappointed that I am still having these episodes but I am so tired of wearing my happy façade all the time. And my closest companion knows something is up and asks me what is wrong but whenever I try to talk about it, she sort of distances herself like....I dunno. I know she has always been uncomfortable with discussing serious topics but then why ask? I am not mad or anything. A bit sad maybe but I am more confused than anything. I know she cares but it sucks because I would like someone to talk to right now. Bleh. It doesn't help that these low episodes cause my anxiety to spike up so now it feels like something heavy is sitting on my chest.
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